Love Like You've Never Been Hurt


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The human heart was created with a great capacity to love. But along with that comes a great capacity to feel pain. There is no denying that those who love us, who are closest to us, can wound us the most profoundly. That kind of pain can be difficult, if not impossible, to overcome. And it can feel even more impossible to continue loving in the face of it. Yet that is exactly what we are called to do. Sharing his own story of personal pain, pastor and New York Times bestselling author Jentezen Franklin shows us how to find the strength, courage, and motivation to set aside the hurt, see others as God sees them, and reach out in love. Through biblical and modern-day stories, he discusses different types of relational disappointment and heartache, and answers questions such as Why should I trust again? and How can I ever really forgive? The walls we build around our hearts to cut us off from pain are the very walls that block us from seeing hope, receiving healing, and feeling love. Here are the tools and inspiration you need to tear down those walls, work through your wounds, repair damaged relationships, and learn to love like you've never been hurt.




Love Doesn't Hurt


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This book is about one woman's emotional journey through the darkness of domestic abuse and how she made it to the light on the other side. Be prepared for a roller-coaster of emotions as you witness the highs and the lows as if you are living them for yourself. Love Doesn't Hurt will take you from the bedroom to the courtroom, behind the prison walls, and back home to safety. It is a story filled with love and loss but most importantly, strength. A must read!




If God Is Love, Don't Be a Jerk


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Thou Shalt Not Be Horrible. Imagine for a moment what the world might look like if we as people of faith, morality, and conscience actually aspired to this mantra. What if we were fully burdened to create a world that was more loving and equitable than when we arrived? What if we invited one another to share in wide-open, fearless, spiritual communities truly marked by compassion and interdependence? What if we daily challenged ourselves to live a faith that simply made us better humans? John Pavlovitz explores how we can embody this kinder kind of spirituality where we humbly examine our belief system to understand how it might compel us to act in less-than-loving ways toward others. This simple phrase, "Thou Shalt Not Be Horrible," could help us practice what we preach by creating a world where: spiritual community provides a sense of belonging where all people are received as we are; the most important question we ask of a religious belief is not Is it true? but rather, is it helpful? it is morally impossible to pledge complete allegiance to both Jesus and America simultaneously; the way we treat others is the most tangible and meaningful expression of our belief system. In If God Is Love, Don't Be a Jerk, John Pavlovitz examines the bedrock ideas of our religion: the existence of hell, the utility of prayer, the way we treat LGBTQ people, the value of anger, and other doctrines to help all of us take a good, honest look at how the beliefs we hold can shape our relationships with God and our fellow humans—and to make sure that love has the last, loudest word.




Love Like I've Never Been Hurt


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Autobiographical tale detailing authors misadventures and greatest lessons in love. Explores healthy practices for healing from heartbreak.




You Only Fall in Love Three Times


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Discover the three types of love--and the key to finding the one you're truly meant to be with. We love and we love again -- sometimes our hearts get broken but, somehow, we find the courage to dive back in. In this soul-searching book, relationship expert Kate Rose guides readers down the path to a deeper understanding of who they are, what they want, and finally, to the discovery of their Twin Flame. According to Rose, love is a journey of self-discovery and every relationship we have in our lives teaches us something that we need to learn about ourselves and what will make us truly happy. She introduces readers to the three types of love we will all experience: The Soulmate introduces us to the dream of love, but somehow what seemed like it would be "happily ever after" wasn't meant to last forever. We are so consumed with making The Karmic Love work that we often fail to question whether it should work. As painful as it is to accept, this love that felt so right in the beginning is actually all wrong. The Twin Flame comes into our lives and often we don't even know it's love because . . . it's too easy. This is the love who helps us to accept ourselves just as we are because this is precisely what they do. In You Only Fall in Love Three Times, Kate Rose shows us that happy endings may not happen quite the way they do in fairytales-- but they happen nonetheless.




Love Without Hurt


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An essential guide for ending the cycle of resentment, pain, and abuse and developing a loving relationship Are you the victim of a chronic anger, verbal or emotional abuse? Do you constantly second-guess your thoughts and behavior to avoid being hurt or put down by your husband or boyfriend? If you are among the one out of three women trapped in a hurtful relationship, you can end the abuse and rebuild a loving, compassionate environment for you and your family. In Love Without Hurt, psychotherapist Dr. Steven Stosny explains the many forms of verbally and emotionally abusive relationships so you can identify abuse and why it's so important to take action to change your relationship-especially because, if you have children, they have become innocent victims of the same abuse. Drawing from the revolutionary techniques of his CompassionPower "boot camp," this practical program shows you self-healing techniques to help you recover from the pain and abuse, as well as methods for your partner to rewire his anger, resentment, and abusive behavior. Love Without Hurt is an essential guide for ending the cycle of resentment, pain, and abuse and developing a loving relationship.




Healing the Hurt That Hides


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There is an excruciating pain that can cause you to do things that you wouldn't do normally... I call it being completely surrendered to the wiles of the enemy as a result of that devilish spirit called HURT/PAIN. It's an ultra-thin line between balancing the relationship with God and that of your husband. I had lost my mind. I am not going to give him a chance to shoot me... I got up from the sofa, and believe me, I was going to knock him out with the poker from the fireplace... At the time when I needed the church people most, they shut me out... I was yelling from the rooftop of my soul that I wanted help. I told everyone what I had been going through and nobody seemed to care or be of any help. Today as I sit here, having lost all those things - I have peace, I have joy, I have an understanding of who I am and a greater knowledge of who my God is. This book will help you get there too!




Love Isn't Supposed to Hurt


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Like millions of other women, HLN anchor Christi Paul blamed herself for the emotional abuse heaped on her by her first husband, whose violent, profanity-laced tirades left her feeling as though she had no value, no self-worth, and nowhere to turn for help. Then one day, when Christi was taking refuge in a church parking lot, the verse “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding” popped into her head. In that moment, she realized she did have someplace to turn after all. Holding fast to her Christian faith, Christi began the arduous process of rebuilding her self-image and regaining control of her life. Now happily remarried and the mother of three girls, Christi feels called to share her story in the hope that other victims will find courage to seek the help they desperately need and deserve. Written with candor and poignancy, Love Isn’t Supposed to Hurt chronicles Christi’s personal experience with emotional abuse and shows how—with God’s help, some unconventional therapy, and faith—she was able to break the cycle and regain her sense of self-worth.




Firecracker


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Viral mom blogger Brooke Binkley tells her painful story about the domestic violence she endured while simultaneously becoming a public figure and uses her story to highlight the many types of domestic violence that both victims and survivors experience. On the outside, Brooke was the funny vlogger making moms laugh across the world, but behind closed doors she was experiencing nearly every form of domestic violence that existed. In this painful memoir, she shares her experience with domestic violence and how she planned for six weeks to ultimately escape the abuse. From her first domestic violence-related hospital visit to post-separation abuse, stalking and harassment, Brooke describes what it's like to be the victim of domestic violence- the leading cause of injury to women- more than car accidents, muggings, and rapes combined. This book answers the nagging question: "How did someone once described as a 'Firecracker' become a victim of physical, financial, emotional and sexual abuse?" and "Why did she stay?" Praise for Firecracker "In baring her soul through the telling of her most traumatic experiences, Brooke Binkley has offered healing to so many. As she bravely walks us through her nightmare with domestic abuse, she lays out the 'hows' and 'whys' of how it all happened and, in doing so, offers answers to those who still might not know how they themselves were ever taken in. There is solidarity in knowing you are not alone and through 'Firecracker,' Brooke, shines peace and light into the darkness for her fellow abuse survivors. This is a must-read if you are, or know, a victim or survivor of abuse. Honestly, I believe it should be required reading in every high school Health class. Thank you, Brooke!" - Lauri Walker from "Mama Needs a Nap." "Firecracker is a heartbreaking, thoughtful, and inspiring story that shows exactly how hard it is to walk away from an abusive relationship." - Clint Edwards: bestselling author of "I'm Sorry... Love, Your Husband. "From gaslighting to stalking to excessive control to physical violence, "Firecracker" is important because it tells the entire tale--the beginning, the falling in love part, the "why she stayed" part everyone always questions, and how Brooke finally became free. "Abuse" can mean many things--and the signs are often invisible to others. Brooke Binkley's courage in telling her truth will undoubtedly help many women identify their own signs of abuse, and believe that they, too, deserve to be safe, happy, and free." - Karen Johnson from "The 21st Century SAHM." "With immense grit and vulnerability, Brooke's brave survival story is destined to bring comfort, solidarity, and inspire freedom for 'Firecrackers' everywhere who have found themselves mentally, physically, emotionally beaten down by the very person who once promised to love them most. In the face of pain, Firecracker, quite simply, is a book of glorious hope for women everywhere." - Danielle Brower, Owner & Designer, Create Hope Cuffs "Firecracker is a painful and eye-opening memoir of how one woman found herself trapped in an abusive relationship and managed to escape. It's a memoir that will make you angry; bring you to tears; and, no doubt, inspire victims." - Meredith Ethington from "Perfection Pending by Meredith Ethington."




Arsen


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One glance was all it took... I'm a cheater. I'm a liar. My whole life is a mess. I love a man. No, I love two men... I think. One makes love to me. The other sets me on fire. One is my rock. The other is my kryptonite. I'm broken, lost, and disgusted with myself. But I can't stop. This is my story. My broken love story.