Book Description

WHOSE FAULT IS IT WHEN YOU ARE SURROUNDED BY A-HOLES? HOW TO HANDLE THEM, BY FOLLOWING THESE EASY DIRECTIONS Whether at work or in your personal life, conflicts are verywhere! Conflict could arise from all manner of things, and the biggest challenge that most people face is dealing with the conflicts and petty fights constructively. Conflict brings out negative feelings and yet it's necessary to build intimacy in relationships. How then do you transform such a negative thing into a positive one? Your feelings and attitude towards conflict are important, as well as how you speak your truth to a "difficult" person while still remaining fair. It is therefore important to learn assertiveness and how to fight fair to avoid damaging the relationship. It is important to establish firm boundaries! You will learn the following: INTRODUCTION WHAT ARE BOUNDARIES? KINDS OF BOUNDARIES INDICATORS OF UNHEALTHY BOUNDARIES SETTING BOUNDARIES IMPLEMENT YOUR BOUNDARIES SELF-RESPECT RESPECT ANOTHER PERSON'S BODY AS WELL AS YOUR OWN. DON'T TAKE WITHOUT ASKING PROTECT YOUR MOST PRECIOUS RESOURCE: YOU DON'T LOSE YOURSELF IN A RELATIONSHIP IMPLEMENTING BOUNDARIES EMOTIONAL LIMITATIONS SHIELD YOUR FEELINGS FROM OTHER PEOPLE. TO SET A LIMIT WITH AN UPSET PERSON SPEAKING YOUR TRUTH IN DIFFICULT SITUATIONS CONFRONTATION DO A SELF-CHECK CHOOSE YOUR BATTLES TAKE A PAUSE CLEARLY STATE THE ISSUES THAT UPSET YOU STICK TO THE FACTS MINIMIZE YOUR INTERACTIONS SEEK MEDIATION CHANGE YOUR MINDSET DON'T BE EASILY OFFENDED EXAMINE YOUR OWN BEHAVIOR BE AWARE OF HOW YOU PERCEIVE OTHERS WHEN YOU ARE THE DIFFICULT PERSON YOUR SELF-WORTH IS LOW PEOPLE LEAVE YOU OUT IF YOU ARE ALWAYS COMPLAINING YOU KEEP BLOWING UP YOU FEEL LIKE EVERYONE IS AGAINST YOU YOUR PERFORMANCE REVIEWS REVEAL THAT YOU ARE DIFFICULT RESOLVING CONFLICT THAT YOU CAUSED CONFIRM WHAT YOU REALLY WANT UNDERSTAND WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED HANDLE YOUR FEELINGS FIRST GET INTO THE OTHER PERSON’S SHOES MAKE A LIST OF REASONS WHY YOU NEED TO MAKE AMENDS MAKE AMENDS WHEN YOUR HEART IS CLEAR DECIDE HOW YOU’LL MAKE UP FOR THE WRONG THAT YOU DID DETERMINE WHAT YOU’LL SAY APOLOGIZE IN PERSON PRIORITIZE THE APOLOGY MAKE IT QUICK AND SIMPLE ALLOW THE OTHER PERSON TO VENT PROVIDE RESTITUTION AVOID FUTURE MISTAKES WHAT YOU CAN CONTROL IN CONFLICT RESOLVING CONFLICT AT THE WORKPLACE WHEN TWO PEOPLE COME TO YOU FOR HELP MEDIATION. FIGHTING FAIR IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS TEACHING CHILDREN CONFLICT RESOLUTION TEACHING STYLES MAKING GOOD BEHAVIOUR STICK WHEN TO GET HELP WHY PEOPLE MISUSE YOU YOU FEEL GUILTY ABOUT DISPUTES YOU ARE A PEOPLE PLEASER LEARNING TO BE ASSERTIVE GUIDELINES FOR BEING ASSERTIVE HOW TO LET A DIFFICULT PERSON KNOW THAT THEIR BEHAVIOUR IS WRONG IF THEY DON’T BELIEVE IT GET YOUR TEAM TO FOLLOW YOUR LEAD HOW TO GAIN RESPECT FROM DIFFICULT PEOPLE Get your copy today!