A Man's Guide To Surviving Divorce


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A divorce is one of the hardest, most emotionally taxing experiences that any man can face. It puts everything in your life into question. If you do not handle a divorce crisis correctly you can be left with emotional bitterness that will hamper you in any future relationships, plus you can lose your house and all your money too! In this book R.L. Blackwood lays out the basic information you need to to deal with your divorce from the moment it happens all the way through the final decree. This book is based on the author's own painful and messy divorce. There is no need to reinvent the wheel and learn things on your own. Benefit from the author's experience and learn what you need to make it through your own divorce and come out a whole man on the other side.




The Divorced Men's Survival Guide


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The Divorced Men's Survival Guide is valuable and entertaining reference for the newly divorced man. It covers everything from living on your own to dating on a dime. The controversial chapter, “How to get laid” returns the single man's confidence by giving him helpful advice on how to get women to be more attracted to him. This book also reassures him that is not alone during this chapter in his life.




The Storms Can't Hurt the Sky


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Buddhism has been applied to everything from parenting to golf, but until now no one has offered Buddhist principles as a healing path through divorce. In Storms Can't Hurt the Sky, Gabriel Cohen bravely delves into his personal experience-along with insights from Buddhist masters, parables, humor, social science studies, and interviews with other divorces-to provide a practical and very helpful guide to surviving the pain of any break-up. Focusing on the emotions most common in the dissolution of a relationship-anger, resentment, loss, and grief -- Storms Can't Hurt the Sky shows how thinking about these feelings in surprisingly different ways can lead to a radically better experience. This compulsively readable book offers sound advice and much-needed empathy for anyone dealing with a break-up.




When the Vow Breaks


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Now an official resource of the nationwide DivorceCare ministry, this new edition of When the Vow Breaks offers practical advice to Christians regarding the top five felt needs and issues that result from facing divorce: kids, finances, anger, depression, and loneliness. In this sensitive and thorough guide, author/attorney Joseph Warren Kniskern recounts the emotions of his own failed marriage and shares a comprehensive study on what the Bible says about marriage and divorce. More important, he shows how God continues to work in people’s lives to provide hope and encouragement in the aftermath of divorce. Kniskern also provides important insights about how to seek reconciliation, secure proper marriage counseling, find a good attorney, and negotiate settlements and custody issues.




How to Survive Your Boyfriend's Divorce


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With over half of marriages ending in divorce, there are nearly one million American men every year who are being introduced back into the dating world. This text is a survival guide aimed at the women who love the men who are in the process of divorce.




DIVORCE - A Survival Guide For Men


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You've probably heard the old saying, "Never bring a knife to a gun fight." Well, in divorce, gun play is the least of your problems. This field manual contains the information you need to get through your divorce relatively intact. Each chapter provides a rule necessary to negotiate and subdue an estranged wife, her psychotic attorney and a family court system bent on shriveling your manhood to a permanently flacid state. For the unmarried grunts, there are even a few pre-emptive guidelines, which can be weaponized as a deterrent. Even if you only use a few of the 37 rules within, you could save yourself years of torture. When that happens, this book will have paid for itself a thousand times over. For every man considering matrimony, already married, or thinking about driving his wife out to the Mojave Desert and leaving her to fend for herself - this book is for you.




He's History, You're Not


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In He’s History, You’re Not: Surviving Divorce After 40, Erica Manfred shares her own divorce experience, as well as the advice of experts, with specific sections tailored to women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s. Manfred was left for a younger woman in 2003, and eventually learned to both survive and thrive. After educating herself in the areas many women have barely even thought of when considering divorce, she is the kind of girlfriend a woman needs when facing both menopause and the trauma of divorce. She can help save divorcees lots of anguish, and lots of cash. HE’S HISTORY, YOU’RE NOT discusses how to: • Avoid “kiss of death” marriage counselors to determine if reconciliation is possible. • Find an affordable divorce lawyer who does not snort scornfully at the word “mediation.” • Survive the first, worst, year. • Deal with your adult or teen kids (who can be just as devastated as small children). • Get back to work or find a new career. (Age discrimination does not have to stop you.) • Use the Internet to date the Viagra generation. • Restore your self-esteem despite body parts that have succumbed to gravity. • Forgive the bastard (and yourself) and finally move on…and much more.




The Life-Saving Divorce


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You Can Love God and Still Get a Divorce. And get this, God will still love you. Really. Are you in a destructive marriage? One of emotional, physical, or verbal abuse? Infidelity? Neglect? If yes, you know you need to escape, but you're probably worried about going against God's will. I have good news for you. You might need to divorce to save your life and sanity. And God is right beside you. In "The Life-Saving Divorce" You'll Learn: - How to know if you should stay or if you should go.- The four key Bible verses that support divorce for infidelity, neglect, and physical and/or emotional abuse. - Twenty-seven myths about divorce that aren't true for many Christians. - Why a divorce is likely the absolute best thing for your children. - How to deal with friends and family who disapprove of divorce. - How to find safe friends and churches after a divorce. Can you find happiness after leaving your destructive marriage? Absolutely yes! You can get your life back and flourish more than you thought possible. Are you ready? Then let's go. It's time to be free. This book includes multiple first-person interviews. Explains psychological abuse, gaslighting, the abuse cycle, Christian divorce and remarriage, children and divorce, domestic violence, parental alienation, mental abuse, and biblical reasons for divorce. Includes diagrams such as the Duluth Wheel of Power and Control (the Duluth Model) and the Abuse Cycle, as well as graphs based on Paul Amato's 2003 study analyzing Judith Wallerstein's book, The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce. Includes quotes by Leslie Vernick, Lundy Bancroft, Shannon Thomas, David Instone-Brewer, Natalie Hoffman, LifeWay Research, Kathleen Reay, Gottman Institute, Glenda Riley, Martin Luther, John Calvin, Steven Stosny, Michal Gilad, Leonie Westenberg, Nancy Nason-Clark, Julie Owens, Marg Mowczko, Justin Holcomb, Barna Group, Justin Lehmiller, Alan Hawkins, Brian Willoughby, William Doherty, Brad Wright, Bradford Wilcox, Sheila Gregoire, E Mavis Hetherington, John Kelly, Betsey Stevenson, Justin Wolfers, Norm Wright, Virginia Rutter, Judith Herman, and Bessel van der Kolk. Recommended reading list includes: Henry Cloud, John Townsend Boundaries books, Richard Warshack books.




Divorce Busting


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A step-by-step approach to making your marriage loving again.




The Guys-only Guide to Getting Over Divorce


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There's no end of advice for men about the financial and legal aspects of divorce. But, what about YOU personally-your adjustment to a new kind of life, your uncertainty about how to start over? Your time has come! Whether you are newly separated or finalized your divorce last year, The Guys-Only-Guide to divorce answers questions from hundreds of men just like you about how to get on with a better life! The nuts and bolts of starting over Why time is absolutely on your side How to go for a good thing when you see it-you deserve it! Dating again-what kind of woman should you be looking for? Getting Serious-how to avoid the same mistakes this time around Having sex again-when, how much, working out the kinks, and more "Is it normal to feel this way about my ex-wife, my kids, other women?" Meet Your Coaches: Sam J. Buser, PhD and Glenn F. Sternes, PhD use their combined expertise in working with men, men's issues, relationships, and human sexuality to bring you the Guys Only Guides-The No-Sweat Approach to Everything. For information about speaking, workshops, and private coaching, please visit Sam and Glenn at www.GuysOnlyGuides.com. Book jacket.