Adoption vs. Biological Parenthood: Debunking the Myths


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Adoption vs. Biological Parenthood: Debunking the Myths is a thought-provoking and informative short read that challenges common misconceptions surrounding adoption and biological parenthood. In this book, you will discover the truth behind these myths and gain a deeper understanding of the adoption process and the benefits of both adoption and biological parenthood. The book begins with Myth 1: Adopted children are less loved, where the author delves into the misconception that adopted children are somehow less cherished than biological children. Through personal anecdotes and research-backed evidence, the author dismantles this myth and highlights the immense love and bond that adoptive parents have for their children. Moving on to Myth 2: Biological children are genetically superior, the book explores the belief that biological children are inherently better or more desirable than adopted children. By examining the complexities of genetics and the importance of nurture in child development, the author challenges this notion and emphasizes the unique qualities that adopted children bring to a family. The Adoption Process section provides a comprehensive overview of the steps involved in adopting a child, including the home study, legal procedures, and post-adoption support. It offers valuable insights and practical advice for prospective adoptive parents, debunking any misconceptions or fears they may have about the process. Similarly, the Biological Parenthood section explores the journey of becoming a biological parent, discussing topics such as conception, pregnancy, and childbirth. It highlights the joys and challenges of biological parenthood, providing a balanced perspective for readers considering this path. Adoption Myths and Realities delves deeper into common misconceptions surrounding adoption, addressing concerns such as the cost, age limitations, and the impact on existing family dynamics. The book presents the realities of adoption, offering reassurance and guidance to those considering this life-changing decision. Benefits of Adoption and Benefits of Biological Parenthood chapters explore the unique advantages and rewards of each path, allowing readers to weigh their options and make an informed choice based on their personal circumstances and desires. Considerations for Prospective Parents provides a comprehensive list of factors to consider when deciding between adoption and biological parenthood. It covers topics such as emotional readiness, financial implications, and the importance of support systems. Supporting Both Paths emphasizes the importance of supporting and respecting individuals and couples who choose either adoption or biological parenthood. It encourages a non-judgmental and inclusive approach, recognizing that both paths can lead to fulfilling and loving family experiences. Frequently Asked Questions addresses common queries and concerns that readers may have, providing clear and This title is a short read. A Short Read is a type of book that is designed to be read in one quick sitting. These no fluff books are perfect for people who want an overview about a subject in a short period of time. Table of Contents Adoption vs. Biological Parenthood: Debunking the Myths Myth 1: Adopted children are less loved Myth 2: Biological children are genetically superior Adoption Process Biological Parenthood Adoption Myths and Realities Benefits of Adoption Benefits of Biological Parenthood Considerations for Prospective Parents Supporting Both Paths Frequently Asked Questions Have Questions / Comments?




The Primal Wound


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Originally published in 1993, this classic piece of literature on adoption has revolutionised the way people think about adopted children. Nancy Verrier examines the life-long consequences of the 'primal wound' - the wound that is caused when a child is separated from its mother - for adopted people. Her argument is supported by thorough research in pre- and perinatal psychology, attachment, bonding and the effects of loss.




Them Before Us


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Them Before Us has flipped the script on adult-centric attitudes toward marriage, parenthood, and reproductive technologies by framing these issues around a child’s right to be raised by both their mother and father. Set against a backdrop of sound research, the compelling stories throughout each chapter confirm that a child’s mental, physical, and emotional well-being depends on being loved by the two people responsible for their existence. It’s a paradigm shift that will impact the personal and the political, and reframe every marriage and family conversation across the globe. Them Before Us dispels many prevalent, harmful myths concerning children’s rights, such as: • Kids need only love and safety—moms and dads are optional. • Love makes a family—biology is irrelevant. • Marriage is about adults—it has nothing to do with kids. • Children are resilient and will “get over” divorce. • Studies show “no difference” in outcomes for kids with same-sex parents. • Sperm and egg donor kids are fortunate because they are so wanted. • Surrogacy is a great way to help wannabe parents have a baby. • Reproductive technologies are just like adoption. Are you tired of a culture that views adults as victims in family matters, when it’s clear that kids are the ones who truly pay the price? If so, we are your people, and this is your movement.




Adoption Myths Busted: Separating Fact from Fiction


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Adoption Myths Busted: Separating Fact from Fiction is a must-read book for anyone considering adoption or interested in learning more about the adoption process. In this short read, you will discover the truth behind common adoption myths and gain a deeper understanding of the realities of adoption. The book begins by debunking the myth that adoption is only for couples who can't have biological children. The author explains that adoption is a valid and loving choice for anyone who wants to expand their family, regardless of their ability to have biological children. The book goes on to explore the fact that love and attachment can be developed in adoptive families, providing a stable and nurturing environment for adopted children. Another myth addressed in the book is the belief that birth parents are selfish for choosing adoption. The author sheds light on the fact that birth parents make selfless decisions in choosing adoption, often putting the best interests of their child first. The book also tackles the misconception that adopted children will always have psychological issues, emphasizing that with proper support, adopted children can thrive and lead fulfilling lives. Adoption Myths Busted also addresses the misconception that adoption is a last resort. The author highlights that adoption is a valid and intentional choice made by many families, and it should not be seen as a last option. The book further explores the myth that all adopted individuals feel the need to search for their birth parents, explaining that not all adopted individuals have this desire. Throughout the book, the author emphasizes that adoptive parents are ordinary individuals providing love and care, debunking the myth that they are saviors. The book also challenges the belief that adopted children are more likely to have behavioral issues, highlighting that adopted children can have positive behavioral outcomes. In addition to debunking adoption myths, the book provides answers to frequently asked questions about the adoption process. Whether you are considering adoption or simply interested in learning more, Adoption Myths Busted: Separating Fact from Fiction is a valuable resource that will provide you with the knowledge and understanding you need. If you have any questions or comments about adoption, the book encourages you to reach out. The author is dedicated to providing support and guidance to those navigating the adoption journey. Don't miss out on this opportunity to gain valuable insights into adoption. Purchase Adoption Myths Busted: Separating Fact from Fiction today and receive a bonus gift: How To Be A Super Mom, absolutely free. Start your journey towards understanding adoption and debunking common myths today. This title is a short read. A Short Read is a type of book that is designed to be read in one quick sitting. These no fluff books are perfect for people who want an overview about a subject in a short period of time. Table of Contents Adoption Myths Busted: Separating Fact from Fiction Myth 1: Adoption is only for couples who can't have biological children Myth 2: Adopted children will never feel like part of the family Fact 1: Love and attachment can be developed in adoptive families Fact 2: Adoption can offer a loving and stable environment Myth 3: Birth parents are selfish for choosing adoption Fact 3: Birth parents make selfless decisions in choosing adoption Myth 4: Adopted children will always have psychological issues Fact 4: Adopted children can thrive with proper support Myth 5: Adoption is a last resort Fact 5: Adoption is a valid and intentional choice Myth 6: Adopted children will always search for their birth parents Fact 6: Not all adopted individuals feel the need to search for their birth parents Myth 7: Adoptive parents are saviors Fact 7: Adoptive parents are ordinary individuals providing love and care Myth 8: Adopted children are more likely to have behavioral issues Fact 8: Adopted children can have positive behavioral outcomes Myth 9: Adoption is always a long and complicated process Fact 9: Adoption processes can vary in length and complexity Myth 10: Adopted children will never know their true identity Fact 10: Adopted individuals can develop a strong sense of identity Myth 11: Adopted children are more likely to be troubled Fact 11: Adopted children can lead happy and fulfilling lives Myth 12: Adoptive parents cannot love an adopted child as much as a biological child Fact 12: Love for a child is not determined by biology Myth 13: Adopted children will always feel abandoned Fact 13: Adopted individuals can heal from feelings of abandonment Myth 14: Adoption is only for wealthy families Fact 14: Adoption is possible for families with various financial means Myth 15: Adopted children will always have a sense of rejection Fact 15: Adopted individuals can develop a sense of acceptance and belonging Frequently Asked Questions Have Questions / Comments?




The End of Gender


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"International sex researcher, neuroscientist, and frequent contributor to The Globe and Mail (Toronto) Debra Soh [discusses what she sees as] gender myths in this ... examination of the many facets of gender identity"--




Attaching in Adoption


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This classic text is a comprehensive guide for prospective and actual adoptive parents on how to understand and care for their adopted child and promote healthy attachment. It explains what attachment is and provides parenting techniques matched to children's emotional needs and stages to enhance children's happiness and emotional health.




In the Know


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Emotional intelligence is an important trait for success at work. IQ tests are biased against minorities. Every child is gifted. Preschool makes children smarter. Western understandings of intelligence are inappropriate for other cultures. These are some of the statements about intelligence that are common in the media and in popular culture. But none of them are true. In the Know is a tour of the most common incorrect beliefs about intelligence and IQ. Written in a fantastically engaging way, each chapter is dedicated to correcting a misconception and explains the real science behind intelligence. Controversies related to IQ will wither away in the face of the facts, leaving readers with a clear understanding about the truth of intelligence.




Gender in the Mirror


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In patriarchal cultures, people internalize cultural gender imagery that enshrines procreative heterosexuality and relations of domination and subordination between men and women. Once internalized, i.e. embedded in people's cognitive and emotional infrastructure, this imagery shapes, though it does not determine individual identity.




Picking up the Pieces


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Chowdhury describes the journeys to Canada of the first contingent of 15 war babies that were embraced by their adoptive parents when they reached their new homes in Canada in July 1972 breaking the racial boundaries and re-defining what a family could be. Products of one of the most outrageous crimes, these babies were conceived by Bangladeshi women victims of sexual crimes committed by the Pakistani military personnel in Occupied Bangladesh. Since it was a case of enforced pregnancy through penile penetration against the will of the victims, the undesirable newborns were seen as disposable or throw-away babies by both the birth mothers and the Bangladeshi society. Through sharp analysis, Chowdhury has illustrated with poignant vignettes an important fact of life that human beings desire and need close relationships. Using archival records International Social Service, International Planned Parenthood Federation, Library and Archives Canada, Department of External Affairs and Manpower and Immigration in Canada and the Department of Labour and Welfare of the Government of Bangladesh, Missionaries of Charity and the Families For Children, Chowdhury examined the well-being of the war babies and their parents through the years with anecdotes of their rearing, nurturing, and becoming adults in Canada, the country they call home.




The Unicorn Baby


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If you search the Internet for parenting tips and read a few parenting books you will most likely stumble across the mythical Unicorn Baby. This is the baby who feeds every four hours and sleeps through the night, sits at six months, pees pure gold and poops rainbows. Didn't get one of these? Don't worry, neither did clinical occupational therapist and mom of two 'Non-Unicorns', Roxanne Atkinson, which is why she's written this book. Combining her clinical and personal experience, Roxanne uses evidence-based facts to bust 10 anxiety-inducing parenting myths, including the myth that breastfeeding comes naturally and that you must get your baby into a perfect routine. Acknowledging that every baby is unique, this book helps new parents navigate the first year of their baby's life with their sanity – and sense of humour – intact. This book offers, among others: - A better understanding of your baby's brain and biology - Tried and tested activities that support your baby's development - A way to rid yourself of unrealistic expectations.