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Blindsided By His Betrayal: Surviving the Shock of Your Husband's Infidelity

Author : Dr. Caroline Madden, Marriage Therapist

Publisher : Train of Thought Press

Page : 91 pages

File Size : 23,97 MB

Release : 2016-05-15

Category : Family & Relationships

ISBN : 0986148520

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Your husband cheated on you, and now you don't recognize yourself. You feel crazy.You are NOT crazy! You are having a normal reaction to being blindsided by your husband's betrayal! Your reactions are completely rational and expected responses to such a painful experience. You're hurting, this book can help. Dr. Caroline Madden, infidelity expert and licensed marriage therapist describes: *12 Actions that will help you get back to the woman you were *Posttraumatic Affair Syndrome (PTAS) *7 Actions you want to take but should NOT (as They May Backfire Horribly) *Understand the thoughts that plague you *The stupid things your husband says and why he says it This book is geared towards helping you deal with your tumultuous emotions so that you make better, more rational decisions.



Fool Me Once: Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband?

Author : Dr. Caroline Madden, Marriage Therapist

Publisher : Train of Thought Press

Page : 52 pages

File Size : 36,89 MB

Release : 2014-12-05

Category : Self-Help

ISBN : 0990772845

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You always said if your man cheated, you'd leave him so fast his head would spin. But now that it's happened it's not so black and white, is it?Caroline Madden, MFT is an affair recovery specialist. She has over a decade of experience in helping couples challenged by infidelity in marriage and teaching women how to survive their husband's affair. In Fool Me Once, she shares the criteria she uses to determine if a man is truly remorseful and determined to save his marriage or if he will continue to cheat and hurt you.Here is some of the information she shares:* 5 Things That Look Suspiciously Like Your Spouse is Still Cheating (But He Probably Isn't)* 5 Signs You Should Consider Giving Him A Chance to Rebuild Trust & Intimacy After infidelity * 7 Signs He is Going to Cheat Again (And You Will Be Hurt Again)Infidelity is traumatic, and you need to take time to assess the situation. Fool Me Once will give you the tools you need to evaluate your relationship. It will help you determine whether you should trust your husband or not and decide if your marriage is worth saving.Don't Make a Decision Now That You'll Regret Later ! As they say "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."Infidelity, Divorce Advice, Affairs In Marriage, affair recovery



After a Good Man Cheats:

Author : Dr. Caroline Madden, Marriage Therapist

Publisher : Train of Thought Press

Page : 119 pages

File Size : 20,9 MB

Release : 2015-02-17

Category : Self-Help

ISBN : 0990772861

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This book is a practical action plan that will walk you through the first stages after your wife has discovered your infidelity.You'll learn the things your wife is going to feel, say, and do, giving you the following:* Insight into what she is thinking and why this is so hard for her to get over* Practical advice so you know exactly what to do at this important stage* Actual scripts so you know what to say in response to very specific situations* Clear explanations as to why certain words and actions you think will be helpful might be making this worse* Two self-administered quizzes to help you determine why you cheated so that you can get a better understanding of what triggered your affair. Included at the appropriate points are scripts of what to say and why you need to say those words at that time. Do not just memorize these words and parrot them back to your wife. You have already lost her trust; if you start using words you don't normally use, you'll sound like you're faking it. You will want to translate the scripts into your own natural wording, using the meaning of each script as a launching pad for productive, healing dialogue with your wife.Also, other these other questions are answered:* She doesn't know. I feel guilty. Should I tell her the truth?* We aren't married yet? How does that impact recovering from the affair?* I didn't have a physical relationship with my Affair Partner, why is my wife so upset?* What is an Emotional Affair?



Persuasive Acts

Author : Shari J. Stenberg

Publisher : University of Pittsburgh Press

Page : 472 pages

File Size : 13,95 MB

Release : 2020-03-03

Category : Language Arts & Disciplines

ISBN : 0822987511

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In June 2015, Bree Newsome scaled the flagpole in front of South Carolina’s state capitol and removed the Confederate flag. The following month, the Confederate flag was permanently removed from the state capitol. Newsome is a compelling example of a twenty-first-century woman rhetor, along with bloggers, writers, politicians, activists, artists, and everyday social media users, who give new meaning to Aristotle’s ubiquitous definition of rhetoric as the discovery of the “available means of persuasion.” Women’s persuasive acts from the first two decades of the twenty-first century include new technologies and repurposed old ones, engaged not only to persuade, but also to tell their stories, to sponsor change, and to challenge cultural forces that repress and oppress. Persuasive Acts: Women’s Rhetorics in the Twenty-First Century gathers an expansive array of voices and texts from well-known figures including Hillary Rodham Clinton, Malala Yousafzai, Michelle Obama, Lindy West, Sonia Sotomayor, and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, so that readers may converse with them, and build rhetorics of their own. Editors Shari J. Stenberg and Charlotte Hogg have complied timely and provocative rhetorics that represent critical issues and rhetorical affordances of the twenty-first century.



Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life

Author : Tracy Schorn

Publisher : Running Press Adult

Page : 242 pages

File Size : 13,30 MB

Release : 2016-05-10

Category : Family & Relationships

ISBN : 0762459050

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Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity -- but saving your sanity. When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters -- their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the-cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Combining solid advice that champions self-respect, along with hilarious cartoons satirizing the pomposity of cheaters, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on Stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, Rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, Why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more. Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.



The Secrets of Surviving Infidelity

Author : Scott Haltzman

Publisher : JHU Press

Page : 312 pages

File Size : 28,70 MB

Release : 2013-06

Category : Family & Relationships

ISBN : 1421409429

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Advocates against ending a relationship due to cheating, teaching both victims and perpetrators of infidelity how to deal with their feelings, reduce their sense of despair, and begin rebuilding a strong relationship.



After the Affair

Author : Janis A. Spring

Publisher : Harper Collins

Page : 306 pages

File Size : 42,49 MB

Release : 2008-07-08

Category : Psychology

ISBN : 0061734144

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After the Affair teaches partners how to heal themselves and grow from the shattering crisis of an infidelity. Drawing on thirty-five years as a clinical psychologist, Dr. Spring offers a series of original and proven strategies that address such questions as: Why did it happen? Once love and trust are gone, can we ever get them back? Can I—should I—recommit when I feel so ambivalent? How do we become sexually intimate again? Is forgiveness possible? What constitutes an affair in cyberspace?



Verity

Author : Colleen Hoover

Publisher : Grand Central Publishing

Page : 295 pages

File Size : 14,38 MB

Release : 2021-10-05

Category : Fiction

ISBN : 153872474X

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Whose truth is the lie? Stay up all night reading the sensational psychological thriller that has readers obsessed, from the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Too Late and It Ends With Us. #1 New York Times Bestseller · USA Today Bestseller · Globe and Mail Bestseller · Publishers Weekly Bestseller Lowen Ashleigh is a struggling writer on the brink of financial ruin when she accepts the job offer of a lifetime. Jeremy Crawford, husband of bestselling author Verity Crawford, has hired Lowen to complete the remaining books in a successful series his injured wife is unable to finish. Lowen arrives at the Crawford home, ready to sort through years of Verity’s notes and outlines, hoping to find enough material to get her started. What Lowen doesn’t expect to uncover in the chaotic office is an unfinished autobiography Verity never intended for anyone to read. Page after page of bone-chilling admissions, including Verity's recollection of the night her family was forever altered. Lowen decides to keep the manuscript hidden from Jeremy, knowing its contents could devastate the already grieving father. But as Lowen’s feelings for Jeremy begin to intensify, she recognizes all the ways she could benefit if he were to read his wife’s words. After all, no matter how devoted Jeremy is to his injured wife, a truth this horrifying would make it impossible for him to continue loving her.



Cheating in a Nutshell

Author : Wayne Mitchell

Publisher : Third Ghost Press

Page : 265 pages

File Size : 31,15 MB

Release : 2019-09-08

Category : Family & Relationships

ISBN : 1948158019

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Cheated on…Battered by emotion…You don't know where to turn. You feel betrayed, devastated, embarrassed, angry, and completely heartbroken. You ask yourself, "How can I stop infidelity from ruining my life?" "How do I cope with this nightmare? You don't realize there is a roadmap that explains what you are going through. That roadmap is Cheating in a Nutshell. Knowledge is Power and Understanding is Liberating. Whatever shade of infidelity you're dealing with, it is powerfully painful – and the feelings that come with it are hardly ever simple. Understanding your pain will change your way of thinking almost immediately. This book is for you if: --You just learned your partner cheated on you --You have been staying with a cheating partner --You were betrayed in a past relationship and seek a deeper understanding of your feelings In Cheating in a Nutshell, Wayne and Tamara Mitchell explain the source of your pain. There is a way out of this darkness, and the first step is to understand the structure of this awful experience. "The focus is on the betrayed, not the cheater, and if you've been cheated on, I agree with other reviewers: This is the best book, the only one you need." – Reader Review It's never too late to understand why you feel as you do. Read Cheating in a Nutshell.



Mended

Author : Rick Bulman

Publisher :

Page : pages

File Size : 48,57 MB

Release : 2018-12-31

Category :

ISBN : 9781943291717

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What would you do if your marriage was on the edge of collapse because of betrayal? What happens when your children discover a parent has been unfaithful? How do you handle moral failure within the pastorate? Mended is a powerful portrayal of God's grace and healing--a painful test-turned-testimony of relationship: broken beyond repair, but rebuilt by His mighty, merciful hand. Despite the emotional turmoil, Rick and Tiffany learned how to strengthen their marriage through the use of practical tools shared in this book. THERE IS HOPE. When God works a miracle, anything can be Mended.