Author : Lucy Fairbourne
Publisher :
Page : 106 pages
File Size : 41,50 MB
Release : 2017-10-20
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781905605521
A female-friendly guide to the erotic domination of the male by the female in a way that will benefit both. Each chapter is followed by a self-guided journal section, where you are encouraged to explore and clarify your feelings and responses to the themes being explored, thus helping both lovers illuminate mutual desires, needs and boundaries.
Author : Lucy Fairbourne
Publisher :
Page : 58 pages
File Size : 34,29 MB
Release : 2017-01-27
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781905605514
This book is a rich resource of ideas for the woman who has embarked upon a femdom journey with her man and is hungry for new kinky territory to conquer. The material is arranged across twelve monthly sections, with 52 varied entries offering a different idea or scenario for each week of the year.
Author : Lady Sas
Publisher : Independently Published
Page : 258 pages
File Size : 18,99 MB
Release : 2021-02-17
Category :
ISBN :
The private Mistress Lady Sas lives BDSM. She writes one of the most popular Femdom blogs in Germany and shares her BDSM expertise in this course. This book is aimed at Femdoms and subs, singles and couples, beginners and advanced, who are looking for a contemporary course and guide to BDSM. With many helpful tips and countless practical ideas for great sessions and shining eyes. "Femdom Academy" goes far beyond BDSM basics and is also aimed at advanced players who are open to fresh impulses. Content Foreword - 7 Introduction - 9 About the Author - - 9 How Did the Femdom Academy Come About? - - 11 Contemporary SM Instead Clichés from the 90s - - 12 Everyone Has to Find Their Own SM Style - - 14 Lesson 1. The Mindset of a Femdom and a Sub - - 15 Understanding and Living the Femdom Role - - 17 The Intonation of a Femdom - - 19 Why Does a Man Submit? - 20 The Silence Challenge - - 24 The Femdom Mindset - - 28 The Malesub Mindset - - 30 The SSC Principle - 31 The RACK Principle - 33 Short Theory Section - - 35 Lesson 2. The Relationship Between Mistress and Sub - - 38 Rules Help to Distinguish Between Everyday Life and BDSM - - 41 Create Your Own Role - - 45 Lesson 3. Prepare the Session - - 52 The Location - - 52 What Should I Wear? - 55 Lesson 4. Start the Session - - 57 Greeting the Mistress - 58 Practical Tips - - 60 Practical Examples - - 62 A Mistress Needs No Reason - - 63 Topping from the Bottom - - 66 Lesson 5. The Language of a Mistress - 68 Practical Exercise - - 68 Role Models Are Not Always Easy to Find - - 69 The Art of Verbal Eroticism - 72 Lesson 6. One Session and 1,000 Possibilities - - 78 The Most Important SM Practices - - 81 Lesson 7. How to Come up with Creative Ideas for Your Session - - 143 The Mechanics of Imagination: "Carrot and Stick" - - 144 The Idea of a "Challenge" - - 146 The Idea of a "Surprise" - - 147 Lesson 8. Concrete Ideas for Your Session - - 161 Lesson 9. Your Equipment - - 156 Lesson 10: Safety and Communication During the Session - 163 Saying No - - 167 Slave Questionnaire - - 169 Golden SM Safety Rules - - 176 Covering - - 179 Lesson 11: Sexual Gratification - 181 The Orgasms of the Femdom - - 181 The Ruined Orgasm - 185 Forced Orgasms - 186 Prostate Milking - - 187 Lesson 12: Ending the Session - 191 The Follow-up Conversation - - 193 Hygiene - - 197 Lesson 13: Personal Development - 198 Goals for Femdoms - - 200 The Session Log - - 201 The Slave Contract - - 202 Lesson 14: Finding a Play Partner - 220 Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Malesubs - 223 Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Femdoms - - 227 Lesson 15. Happiness in BDSM - 232 Glossary/Terms - 237 Bonus - 249 Reader comments "A great book that has given me many new ideas and impulses." - Dominatrix Lisa "Very interesting, worth reading for beginners and advanced. Even we, who have been active in this genre for many years, found new inspiration. Clearly structured and logically built, the book is a pageturner." - Manuela "The book describes very sensitively and in detail how a femdom relationship can work best. It reveals secrets of the experienced, charming Lady Sas and encourages the open-minded readers to experience something new on the further way. Very well done and incredibly rich in advice." - Fluffy "Certainly the best book I have read so far on the subject of BDSM. And I have read many." - Mistress Emma
Author : Lindsay Goldwert
Publisher : Tiller Press
Page : 304 pages
File Size : 23,91 MB
Release : 2021-01-19
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 1982130512
*One of Glamour’s Best Books of 2020* Popular podcast host and personal finance expert Lindsay Goldwert explores what professional dominatrixes can teach us about confidence, power, and happiness. Imagine, for a moment, a world where the usual power dynamic is turned on its head. Where women not only stop apologizing, but seize—and enjoy—control. This is the quickly mainstreaming world of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism)—and it has a lot to teach women about empowerment, negotiation, open-mindedness, and more. Journalist Lindsay Goldwert, intrigued by this seismic cultural shift, traveled across the United States to meet the stars of the subculture, who spoke frankly with her about their lives and work. In this “lively, funny, thoughtful channeling of wisdom” (Sara Benincasa, author of Real Artists Have Day Jobs), these Alpha women show you how you can reset the power dynamic in any situation to get what you want—whether it’s from a husband, a boss, or partner. They share strategies for revolutionizing not only your sex life, but your career, your relationships, and most importantly, your inner foundations. With bondage gear popping up on the big screen, the runway, the red carpet, and in celebrity lingerie lines, BDSM is officially moving out of the dungeon and into the sun. Let Bow Down help you learn how to use it. “Whether your fantasies lie in the bedroom or the boardroom, Lindsay will give you the courage to go forth and dominate.” (Sarah Cooper, author of How to Be Successful without Hurting Men’s Feelings).
Author : A. M. Homes
Publisher : Penguin
Page : 266 pages
File Size : 40,91 MB
Release : 2007
Category : Biography & Autobiography
ISBN : 9780670038381
A woman who was adopted as a newborn recounts her experience of meeting her birth parents, describing how adoption affected her sense of identity, her efforts to learn about her late birth mother's personal life, and her discouragement with her birth father's unwillingness to invite her into his family.
Author : Sharyn Ferns
Publisher :
Page : 145 pages
File Size : 11,66 MB
Release : 2019-12-27
Category :
ISBN : 9781673462517
"My submissive won't do what I want!" This is a common complaint, especially for new femdoms. This guide will help.Whether your submissive forgets to do things you've asked of them, or doesn't complete tasks you set, or thinks it's fun to disobey, or outright says 'no' when you ask something of them, this guide is for you. As a new Domme, disobedience can shake your confidence and leave you struggling because you just aren't sure what to do. Maybe you've tried a bunch of things to get your dynamic back on track, but it hasn't worked out as you'd hoped.This short, sharp, practical 'How To' femdom guide is for you.Discover why your submissive disobeys, what makes them obey, and how you can build a dynamic that makes them want to fall over themselves to obey you. Far past the basics of building a relationship where obedience is a given, this guide presents an actionable strategy for handling your submissive's disobedience: SLAPS*.SLAPS is an acronym that describes 5 practical steps that will not only help you handle your submissive's disobedience, but that will also strengthen your dynamic while you're at it. S - Seek Clarity L - Listen A - Agree P - Punish (optional) S - Start fresh SLAPS is not just going to help you to deal with an instance of disobedience, but will help you use the experience to better understand your submissive, to improve communication, to increase intimacy, and to make your dynamic and your relationship better. The toolset and strategies in this guide reach wider than simple disobedience and you can apply them more broadly, but if you just want to deal with your submissive not doing what you want, it will absolutely help you. *This guide contains no actual slaps!
Author : Conner Hayden
Publisher : Psion Publishing
Page : 119 pages
File Size : 32,40 MB
Release : 2020-01-06
Category : Self-Help
ISBN :
The #1 thing men secretly desire of women, yet typically won't admit it. Are you the one who likes to be in control, especially when it comes to making decisions for you and your partner? Do you and your significant other naturally fall into the dominant female and submissive male roles in your relationship, yet do not feel as if you utilize this couple dynamic to its fullest potential? Have you heard of or seen your friends in a female led relationship, the idea peaking your interest, but do not know how to implement this lifestyle into your own daily routine? Through years on end, men have always been the dominant one in relationships, telling the woman what to do, taking care of finances, and typically taking the lead in the bedroom. Because women are quickly becoming more and more aware of the influence they can have on the world and thus breaking out of their shells, female led relationships are becoming increasingly popular in today's modern times, and for a good reason. According to Her Way, having the woman be the dominant partner in a relationship has many benefits, some of which include: A better sex life Improved communication Less pressure on the man to make sure his wife or girlfriend is happy Increased satisfaction in the relationship A relationship based on female dominance isn't solely about the control, but also about how it sets a stronger foundation for both sides of the party. In Female Led Relationship Guide, you will discover: Why a female led relationship doesn't necessarily mean BDSM, and how you can make it work for both you and your partner The key to finding the right balance between the dominant and submissive, and if it's even possible How this couple dynamic can be the solution to intimacy issues, as well as build the foundation for a healthy relationship The #1 thing you must do before beginning a female led relationship, or else it will do you and your partner more harm than good The major topics of concern to address with your significant other, and how to go about discussing them The shocking reason why men seek out dominant women to take charge in a relationship -- it may not be what you think! The varying degrees of dominance that can cater to anyone's comfort zone and lifestyle And much more. Don't worry, if you and your partner are interested in adopting a relationship built on female dominance but don't want this aspect of your life to be public, you don't have to. How you approach this lifestyle is completely up to you, whether it be something you do only behind closed doors or something you carry out regardless of where you are. Ladies, even if you're unsure about being the dominant one in the relationship and don't know if it suits your personality, the degree in which you dominate your partner depends on your wants and needs. Female led relationships aren't black or white, you can easily form your own perfect combination that will satisfy any and all of your desires. Do your relationship a favor and join the modern version of relationships where women are the ones who take charge. Keep up -- the times are changing! If you want to explore the powers of female dominance and experience another level of connection with your partner, then scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" button right now.
Author : Aleta Cai
Publisher : Independently Published
Page : 122 pages
File Size : 31,5 MB
Release : 2019-04-15
Category :
ISBN : 9781794544680
In this guide, you'll learn practical steps towards becoming a professional dominatrix. You'll learn how to brand yourself, how to advertise, how to vet clients as well as how to sustain your business. Additionally, there are 24 lessons that I, Aleta Cai, a well-known independent dominatrix in NYC learned through my experience in the industry over many years.
Author : Lucy Fairbourne
Publisher :
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 27,95 MB
Release : 2007-07
Category : Masculinity
ISBN : 9781905605149
A non-threatening, female-friendly introduction to the topic of male chastity, ideal for nervous keyholders or as a love-offering from a would-be-chastened male.
Author : Elise Sutton
Publisher : Lulu.com
Page : 320 pages
File Size : 34,89 MB
Release : 2007-01
Category : Self-Help
ISBN : 9781430304647
An experience is the process of personally participating in an activity, event or lifestyle. Fantasy does not always translate over to reality because reality must contend with the bodily limitations of the physical world, whereas fantasy enjoys the unlimited boundaries of the imagination. Nevertheless, fantasy is often the product of reality. For one person'TMs fantasy is another person'TMs reality. ; ;Notable FemDom author Elise Sutton examines the Female Domination lifestyle by taking the reader into the personal relationships and sexual practices of everyday people who live astonishing secret lives. ; ;Elise adds her insight and commentary as she examines what constitutes a successful FemDom relationship.
