Author : Brenda McCreight
Publisher : New Harbinger Publications
Page : 0 pages
File Size : 27,6 MB
Release : 2002
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9781572242845
This comprehensive guide provides specific parenting strategies for the growing number of people who adopt children over two years old. Parents learn to identify their child's needs, meet such challenges as aggressive behavior and attention deficit disorder, and create a sense of belonging.
Author : Trish Maskew
Publisher :
Page : 283 pages
File Size : 49,24 MB
Release : 2003
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780966970159
Based on personal experiences, research, and interviews, the author presents "practical tips, advice, and real-life stories for anyone who is adopting, or hopes to adopt, an older child."--Cover.
Author : Patty Cogen
Publisher : ReadHowYouWant.com
Page : 418 pages
File Size : 42,95 MB
Release : 2011-05-14
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 145876883X
Parenting Your Internationally Adopted Child guides adoptive parents in promoting a child's emotional and social adjustment, from the family's first hours together through the teen years. It explains how to help an adopted child cope with the ''Big Change,'' bond with new parents, become part of a family, and develop a positive self-image that incorporates both American identity and ethnicity origins. Parents waiting to meet their adoptive children will appreciate Cogen's advice about preparing for the trip and handling the first meeting. The author's main focus, though, is the child's adaptation over the next months and years. Cogen explains how to deal with the child's ''mixed maturities''; how (and why) to tell the child's story from the child's point of view; how to handle sleep problems and resistance to household rules; and how to encourage eye contact and ease transitions and separations. The reassuring narrative tone and the breadth and depth of information make this the most substantive and accessible book available and an indispensable resource for parents who adopt, professionals who advise adoptive parents, and teachers of adoptive children
Author : Claudia Jarrett
Publisher : Harvard Common Press
Page : 325 pages
File Size : 33,97 MB
Release : 1978-09-16
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 1558326251
The practical classic on adopting an older child.
Author : Stephanie Bosco-Ruggiero
Publisher :
Page : 240 pages
File Size : 39,59 MB
Release : 2014
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780882824826
Are you thinking of adopting an older child? There are 200,000 plus hoping for families in the U.S. alone and more worldwide. Adopting an older child, though, presents a unique set of parenting issues as well as rewards. Adopting Older Children highlights the most significant challenges when parenting older adoptees who face mental health, behavioral and educational issues. Included is critical information about developmental issues that may arise for the adoptee, issues related to the adoptee's emerging sense of self, sexual orientation and cultural identity and other special needs that an adoptee may have.--Page 4 of cover
Author : Grace Robinson
Publisher : Crossroad
Page : 196 pages
File Size : 24,4 MB
Release : 1998
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN :
This book is a very helpful tool for those who are planning to adopt an older child. The interviews and stories present a realistic picture of the challenges and opportunities that adoptive parents of older children must face,
Author : Gregory Keck
Publisher : Tyndale House
Page : 186 pages
File Size : 20,9 MB
Release : 2014-02-27
Category : Religion
ISBN : 161521447X
Without avoiding the grim statistics, this book reveals the real hope that hurting children can be healed through adoptive and foster parents, social workers, and others who care. Includes information on foreign adoptions.
Author : Holly Van Gulden
Publisher : Crossroad Publishing Company
Page : 279 pages
File Size : 35,57 MB
Release : 1993
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 9780824513689
A leading authority on adoption and an award-winning writer bring wisdom and clarity to situations important to all adoptive parents. Real Parents, Real Children goes beyond the question of when to tell children they are adopted with practical advice for parents on how to talk with their children about adoption - not just once but throughout childhood, adolescence, and into young adulthood - and how to help them through the rougher points of growing up adopted. Authors Holly van Gulden and Lisa Bartels-Rabb offer insight into how adopted children at each age commonly think and feel about being adopted. They also explain how and why adopted children grieve for their birth parents and suggest ways adoptive parents can help them come to a healthy resolution of this grief. For prospective parents, the authors discuss ways to prepare themselves and the child they are about to adopt for the new family union. Throughout, the special concerns and challenges of interracial, international, and older-child adoptions are also addressed. Though written with parents in mind, Real Parents, Real Children provides the clinical information that professional therapists, counselors, and placement workers must have if they are to truly be of help to adoptive families at every stage of their lives. Real Parents, Real Children fills a real gap in adoption literature and offers confidence and assurance as well as sought-after answers to lifelong question.
Author : Sherrie Eldridge
Publisher : Delta
Page : 242 pages
File Size : 45,72 MB
Release : 2009-10-07
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 0307570819
"Birthdays may be difficult for me." "I want you to take the initiative in opening conversations about my birth family." "When I act out my fears in obnoxious ways, please hang in there with me." "I am afraid you will abandon me." The voices of adopted children are poignant, questioning. And they tell a familiar story of loss, fear, and hope. This extraordinary book, written by a woman who was adopted herself, gives voice to children's unspoken concerns, and shows adoptive parents how to free their kids from feelings of fear, abandonment, and shame. With warmth and candor, Sherrie Eldridge reveals the twenty complex emotional issues you must understand to nurture the child you love--that he must grieve his loss now if he is to receive love fully in the future--that she needs honest information about her birth family no matter how painful the details may be--and that although he may choose to search for his birth family, he will always rely on you to be his parents. Filled with powerful insights from children, parents, and experts in the field, plus practical strategies and case histories that will ring true for every adoptive family, Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew is an invaluable guide to the complex emotions that take up residence within the heart of the adopted child--and within the adoptive home.
Author : Kate Cremer-Vogel
Publisher : Mountain Ridge Publishing
Page : 287 pages
File Size : 29,43 MB
Release : 2008-05-01
Category : Family & Relationships
ISBN : 0615188451
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