A Practical Handbook for the Boyfriend


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Most dating books are written for women -- what a mistake that is. Women know how to date . . . It's men who need the help! At last: a blithe, bold, and bawdy guide to building a better boyfriend At some point, every guy -- player, geek, mama's boy, "regular Joe" -- meets a woman who makes him want to be a boyfriend. A good boyfriend. Problem is, unless he's had some first-rate training (by a previous girlfriend, a sister, a mom), he probably doesn't even know what that means. Felicity Huffman and Patricia Wolff come to the rescue with a rollicking -- and whip-smart -- handbook to navigating the minefield of male-female relationships. Directed at men (though of course it's women who'll buy it, then leave it at their boyfriend's place -- accidentally on purpose), A Practical Handbook for the Boyfriend lays out the many steps involved in becoming a good boyfriend, while still maintaining guy-dignity. It covers issues like: Who decides when you become a boyfriend (answer: She does.) How to look like you're listening, even when you're not (If you're busted, just say "You're so pretty, I'm distracted.") Ten things never to say on the first date (#4: "I just did that to freak you out.") Finding the middle ground between too cool (think third grade) and too eager (think surprise visits) Why becoming a good boyfriend is a lot like training for the A team Filled with humor, ribaldry, common sense, and assorted outdoor skills, A Practical Handbook for the Boyfriend is the next dating guide to dominate the bestseller lists.




Loving Someone With Attention Deficit Disorder


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Your partner’s attention deficit disorder (ADD) may not seem like a big deal at first, but eventually, the dynamics surrounding his or her impulsivity, forgetfulness, distractibility, and restlessness can really strain your relationship. You don’t want to act like a parent, yet you may feel like you can’t rely on your partner to get things done. Loving Someone with Attention Deficit Disorder is your guide to navigating a relationship with someone with ADD so you can create healthy boundaries while remaining sympathetic to your partner’s symptoms. An essential resource for every couple affected by ADD, this book will help you: • Understand medication and other treatments • Recover quickly when your partner’s symptoms frustrate you • Establish personal boundaries to avoid excessive caretaking • Identify and take care of your own needs so you can feel more relaxed




Loving Someone with PTSD


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Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) can present with a number of symptoms, including anxiety, depression, flashbacks, and trouble sleeping. If your partner has PTSD, you may want to help, but find yourself at a loss. The simple truth is that PTSD can be extremely debilitating—not just for the person who has experienced trauma first-hand, but for their partners as well. And while there are many books written for those suffering from PTSD, there are few written for the people who love them. In Loving Someone with PTSD, renowned trauma expert and author of I Can’t Get Over It!, Aphrodite Matsakis, presents concrete skills and strategies for the partners of those with PTSD. With this informative and practical book, you will increase your understanding of the signs and symptoms of PTSD, improve your communication skills with your loved one, set realistic expectations, and work to create a healthy environment for the both of you. In addition, you will learn to manage your own grief, helplessness, and fear regarding your partner’s condition. PTSD is a manageable disability. While it isn’t your responsibility to rescue your partner or act as his or her therapist, this book will help you be supportive and implement strategies for lessening the negative impact of PTSD—not just for your partner, but for your relationship, and, importantly, for yourself.




Loving Someone with Anxiety


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Dealing with an anxiety disorder is hard, but loving someone with an anxiety disorder can be equally as difficult. If your partner suffers from extreme anxiety, they may have panic attacks, constantly be voicing their worried thoughts, or may not be able to participate in social events because of a fear of social settings. No matter how compassionate you are, you may sometimes feel frustrated, unable to help, and even find your own life restricted—all of which can lead to conflict, resentment, miscommunication, and ultimately, an end to the relationship altogether. Loving Someone with Anxiety is one of the few books written specifically for the partners of people with anxiety disorders. The book is designed not only to aid you in helping your partner cope with anxiety and worry, but also to help you take care of your own needs. Inside, you’ll learn the importance of setting healthy boundaries, limiting codependent behaviors, and why taking over roles that make your partner anxious—such as answering the phone, driving, or doing the grocery shopping because your partner feels too anxious to be in public—can be extremely damaging for the both of you. Codependency in relationships with an anxious partner can lead to resentment, anger, and a sense of helplessness on your side. This book will help you and your partner overcome these negative behaviors, build better communication and a stronger personal connection. Written by a licensed professional counselor who specializes in helping the partners of those with mental illnesses, this book is the resource that you have been looking for to help you understand your anxious partner and keep anxiety from sabotaging your relationship.




The Thinking Girl's Guide to the Right Guy


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Why can't I get a guy to like me? Should I hook up with him? How can I make this relationship work?While young women today are more savvy and independent than ever, most still want a partner--someone to share a romance with, or maybe even a lifetime. But all too often, their relationships crash and burn. This empowering guide shows women how to shift focus, so instead of trying to be what he wants, they can figure out what they need to be happy and fulfilled--and whether he has what it takes. Vivid, realistic stories of diverse women in their 20s are interwoven with evidence-based tools designed to help readers build confidence and achieve their goals. An exciting, caring, and respectful relationship is possible--here's how to take control and make it happen.




A Handbook for Engaged Couples


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Through a series of discussion questions, Alice and Robert Fryling encourage open, honest communication in the light of Scripture. This isn't just a book you read--it's a book you experience. Its interactive style allows you and your future spouse to explore its biblically based counsel and challenging questions together or with a pastor.




How To Be A Better Boyfriend


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Discover How to Become Better 'Boyfriend Material' For a High-Quality Woman If you don't know how to be a good boyfriend or even how to make a woman fall in love with you (for good), then you probably feel a bit powerless when it comes to understanding women. But if you want to become an irresistible catch to your dream girl, you MUST do least two things: 1. You must become the kind of man she can respect, and... 2. You need to know how to keep her happy in a relationship. Someday you WILL meet that special girl who possesses everything you've ever wanted in a woman. And if she's a high-quality woman, you know...The Total Package, you're probably only going to get ONE CHANCE to impress her. Attracting a Total 10 woman is one thing, but keeping her happy (and well-behaved) in a relationship is a whole different ballgame. You need to know how to keep her interested in you before you meet her, because living with the unforgettable memory of that one great girl you let get away may haunt you for the rest of your life. This is the sad reality that most guys know all too well. How to Make Your Girlfriend Happy and Keep Her Attracted to You Even after you figure out how to get a girlfriend, you must learn how to make your girlfriend happy while in a relationship. Building a relationship with your dream girl is quite different than learning how to attract women, but sadly, most guys fail to make the distinction. In How To Be A Better Boyfriend, you'll learn how to be a good boyfriend to a high-value woman, the secrets to making your girlfriend happy, and how to understand women in relationships. This is the best relationship advice for men who want to become better boyfriend material. Because let's face it; if that one-of-a-kind woman you want and love doesn't see you as "Boyfriend Material", your chances of building and maintaining a fun and fulfilling relationship with her are next to zero. Here's a quick peak at what you'll learn inside: The keys to making a woman happy without becoming her doormat or losing her romantic interest. (This will help you to avoid getting dumped or ending up in the dreaded "FRIEND-ZONE"!) You'll discover how to stop giving your power away to women, and what to do to get more RESPECT and affection from your girlfriend. The nine simple words that can make your girlfriend AMAZINGLY happy if you use them often. How women think and what their emotional needs are in a relationship. How to understand women and the one thing you can improve about yourself to make your girlfriend want you more. (Hint: It has nothing to do with your looks or how much money you make!) The answer to the age-old question of "what do women want" and how to be the man who can deliver it! How to cultivate a more cheat-proof, drama free relationship where the woman you desire wants nothing more than to treat you like a king. How to effectively deal with arguments and disagreements with your girlfriend like a man, and earn her unwavering loyalty. How to learn your girlfriend's love language so that she feels much more loved and appreciated. The secret to staying true and devoted to her while maintaining her interest and affections. This is a great way to strengthen your relationship with the woman you love. How to make her want you more by learning how to be romantic. And much, much more... Would You Like to Know More? Get started right away and learn how to become an irresistible catch to the woman of your dreams. Scroll to the top of the page and select the 'buy button' now.




The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags


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You've done it before. Saw something wrong with him--whether it was suspect grooming habits or ridiculously childish behavior--but let it slide. It's not that big of a deal. Except it totally was. You wanted to fall in love, but ended up going insane. You swore you'd never do it again. But did. Don't beat yourself up. In the search for love, we've all either blatantly ignored or completely missed red flags. Instead, smarten up. It's time to figure out what you missed and learn how to avoid similar flagtastic fiascos in the future. If you raise your red flag awareness now, you'll be able to greenlight a real relationship down the road.




When the Man You Love Is Ill


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When the Man You Love is Ill is a woman's guide to living with a partner facing a medical crisis or chronic illness. How do you understand the male psyche? How do you manage your own feelings of fear and guilt? How do you deal with the loss and keep the family stable? This book helps to heal the relationship with their partners or spouses.




The Art Of Seduction


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Which sort of seducer could you be? Siren? Rake? Cold Coquette? Star? Comedian? Charismatic? Or Saint? This book will show you which. Charm, persuasion, the ability to create illusions: these are some of the many dazzling gifts of the Seducer, the compelling figure who is able to manipulate, mislead and give pleasure all at once. When raised to the level of art, seduction, an indirect and subtle form of power, has toppled empires, won elections and enslaved great minds. In this beautiful, sensually designed book, Greene unearths the two sides of seduction: the characters and the process. Discover who you, or your pursuer, most resembles. Learn, too, the pitfalls of the anti-Seducer. Immerse yourself in the twenty-four manoeuvres and strategies of the seductive process, the ritual by which a seducer gains mastery over their target. Understand how to 'Choose the Right Victim', 'Appear to Be an Object of Desire' and 'Confuse Desire and Reality'. In addition, Greene provides instruction on how to identify victims by type. Each fascinating character and each cunning tactic demonstrates a fundamental truth about who we are, and the targets we've become - or hope to win over. The Art of Seduction is an indispensable primer on the essence of one of history's greatest weapons and the ultimate power trip. From the internationally bestselling author of The 48 Laws of Power, Mastery, and The 33 Strategies Of War.