Summary of David Parker's The More You Do The Better You Feel


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Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book. Sample Book Insights: #1 The public’s attitude of What are you going to do. results in an acceptance that the most important matters of the day are beyond anyone’s control. This may seem to be a subtle form of procrastination, but it has a significant effect on how we feel. #2 Procrastinators feel separated from the rest of society, and they see other people as having an almost instinctive knowledge of how to take care of their tasks and responsibilities. They feel cold, remote, and detached from others. #3 The typical procrastinator lives in a self-contained and depressive world that consists of unrealistic expectations, broken self-promises, and frustration. We target ourselves with character assassination by placing unrealistic and unattainable demands upon ourselves. #4 Procrastination has affected my life in many ways. It has caused me a lot of turmoil, and I have often wondered why I do it. I have learned that it is because I fear getting things done, and I fear being judged.




The More You Do the Better You Feel


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The More You Do The Better You Feel: How to Overcome Procrastination and Live a Happier Life Paperback] David Parker (Author) This practical book is loaded with proven ideas to help you overcome procrastination and get more done. -Brian Tracy, Author of the International Bestseller: "Eat That Frog 21 Great Ways to Stop Procrastinating and Get More Done in Less Time" A well put together informative book that brings awareness to disabling and habitual procrastinating behavior patterns. This is the best self-help book I have read in years -Kenneth Reddan PhD, LCSW Are You A Human Ostrich? Do you stick your head in the sand at the thought of dealing with a task that seems boring, complicated, or unpleasant? Do you pay your bills late because the last time you balanced your checkbook was more than six months ago? While working on a task do you keep thinking you should be dealing with a different task? Is your living space messy and your life unorganized? Do you clean up only when family or friends will be visiting-only to let your place fall back into untidiness after they've gone? After you've cleaned for visitors, do you tell yourself "it doesn't count " because you weren't doing it for yourself? Have you stopped having visitors over because you're ashamed of your mess? Do you worry you'll feel embarrassed if the landlord, a plumber, or a repairperson needed to visit your place? Do you constantly compare yourself to people who seem to "have it together?" Does your habitual procrastination leave you feeling depressed and anxious? Do you know the 25 characteristics and behaviors of the human ostrich? Are you concerned that your child or someone you care deeply about is becoming a habitual procrastinator? The Solution To Your Habitual Procrastination Is Here Learn the golden rules of overcoming procrastination. Stop falling victim to the downward cycle of procrastination and depression. Stop feeling overwhelmed and immobilized with fear by learning how to effectively cope with your tasks and responsibilities. Become a "do"-er by learning easy to use and highly effective new tool - The J.O.T. Method . About the Author: David Parker suffered for years with depression and anxiety. During a particularly low point he recalled a friend's advice and started keeping a feeling's diary. As time passed, he saw a connection between the tasks that he avoided facing and his poor feelings and low self-esteem. Armed with this insight, David taught himself to face his tasks and the overwhelming feelings they brought by learning to focus on "Just One Task," which he incorporated into "The J.O.T. Method . ? David Parker has lived in London, San Francisco, and Brooklyn, New York. This book was previously published as: "How Many Procrastinators Does It Take to Change a Light Bulb: Take Control of Your Life and Defeat Immobilizing Depression " Unfortunately, some consumers found that title to be a bit too lighthearted and they questioned whether the book was serious. Its new title, "The More You Do The Better You Feel: How to Overcome Procrastination and Live a Happier Life," better reflects its serious nature. To find out more about this book and author, please visit our website at: www.DavidParkerAuthor.com. Paperback: 248 pages Publisher: Darwin Bay Publishing (March 4th, 2015) Language: English ISBN-13: 978-1-935880-01-1 Product Dimensions: 6 x 9 x 0.5 inches Shipping Weight: 16 ounces"




Slow Death:


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Never Trust a Chained Captive. That was one of the rules David Parker Ray posted on the isolated property where he and his girlfriend Cynthia Hendy lived near New Mexico's Elephant Butte Lake. They called their windowless trailer The Toybox. Over the years they lured countless young women into its chamber of unspeakable pain and horror--and filmed every moment. A Satanist, Ray was the center of a web of sadism, sex slavery, and murder. Authorities suspect he murdered more than 60 women. In October 2011, a flood of tips led to a renewed search for the remains of more possible victims. This updated edition reveals all the details, plus the inside story on the controversial movie based on these unforgettable events. "An eye-opening journey into the world of criminal sexual sadism." --Jim Yontz, Deputy District Attorney, Albuquerque, New Mexico 16 pages of haunting photos "Darkly fascinating. . .a shocker from beginning to end." --Gregg Olsen, New York Times bestselling author




Dear Mr. You


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This book "renders the singular arc of a woman's life through letters Mary-Louise Parker composes to the men, real and hypothetical, who have informed the person she is today. Beginning with the grandfather she never knew, the letters range from a missive to the beloved priest from her childhood to remembrances of former lovers to an homage to a firefighter she encountered to a heartfelt communication with the uncle of the infant daughter she adopted"--




I Can Make Good Choices - The Best Me I Can Be


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Presents various examples of making good choices and explains how to decide which choice is the best.




What Really Makes You Ill?


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This book will explain what really makes you ill and why everything you thought you knew about disease is wrong. "Doctors are men who prescribe medicines of which they know little, to cure diseases of which they know less, in human beings of whom they know nothing." Voltaire. The conventional approach adopted by most healthcare systems entails the use of 'medicine' to treat human disease. The idea encapsulated by the above quote attributed to Voltaire, the nom de plume of Fran�ois-Marie Arouet (1694-1778), will no doubt be regarded by most people as inapplicable to 21st century healthcare, especially the system known as modern medicine. The reason that people would consider this idea to no longer be relevant is likely to be based on the assumption that 'medical science' has made significant advances since the 18th century and that 21st century doctors therefore possess a thorough, if not quite complete, knowledge of medicines, diseases and the human body. Unfortunately, however, this would be a mistaken assumption; as this book will demonstrate.




You Are Now Less Dumb


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The author of the bestselling You Are Not So Smart shares more discoveries about self-delusion and irrational thinking, and gives readers a fighting chance at outsmarting their not-so-smart brains David McRaney’s first book, You Are Not So Smart, evolved from his wildly popular blog of the same name. A mix of popular psychology and trivia, McRaney’s insights have struck a chord with thousands, and his blog--and now podcasts and videos--have become an Internet phenomenon. Like You Are Not So Smart, You Are Now Less Dumb is grounded in the idea that we all believe ourselves to be objective observers of reality--except we’re not. But that’s okay, because our delusions keep us sane. Expanding on this premise, McRaney provides eye-opening analyses of fifteen more ways we fool ourselves every day, including: The Misattribution of Arousal (Environmental factors have a greater affect on our emotional arousal than the person right in front of us) Sunk Cost Fallacy (We will engage in something we don’t enjoy just to make the time or money already invested “worth it”) Deindividuation (Despite our best intentions, we practically disappear when subsumed by a mob mentality) McRaney also reveals the true price of happiness, why Benjamin Franklin was such a badass, and how to avoid falling for our own lies. This smart and highly entertaining book will be wowing readers for years to come.




I Love Jesus, But I Want to Die


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A compassionate, shame-free guide for your darkest days “A one-of-a-kind book . . . to read for yourself or give to a struggling friend or loved one without the fear that depression and suicidal thoughts will be minimized, medicalized or over-spiritualized.”—Kay Warren, cofounder of Saddleback Church What happens when loving Jesus doesn’t cure you of depression, anxiety, or suicidal thoughts? You might be crushed by shame over your mental illness, only to be told by well-meaning Christians to “choose joy” and “pray more.” So you beg God to take away the pain, but nothing eases the ache inside. As darkness lingers and color drains from your world, you’re left wondering if God has abandoned you. You just want a way out. But there’s hope. In I Love Jesus, But I Want to Die, Sarah J. Robinson offers a healthy, practical, and shame-free guide for Christians struggling with mental illness. With unflinching honesty, Sarah shares her story of battling depression and fighting to stay alive despite toxic theology that made her afraid to seek help outside the church. Pairing her own story with scriptural insights, mental health research, and simple practices, Sarah helps you reconnect with the God who is present in our deepest anguish and discover that you are worth everything it takes to get better. Beautifully written and full of hard-won wisdom, I Love Jesus, But I Want to Die offers a path toward a rich, hope-filled life in Christ, even when healing doesn’t look like what you expect.




This Year You Write Your Novel


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"A straightforward, friendly guide for aspiring writers" (Los Angeles Times): No more excuses. With award-winning author Walter Mosley as your guide, you can write a novel now. "Let the lawn get shaggy and the paint peel from the walls," bestselling novelist Walter Mosley advises. In this invaluable book of tips, practical advice, and wisdom, Mosley promises that the writer-in-waiting can finish their novel in one year. Intended as both inspiration and instruction, this book provides the tools to turn out a first draft painlessly and then revise it into something finer. Mosley teaches you how to: Create a daily writing regimen to fit any writer's needs -- and how to stick to it. Determine the narrative voice that's right for every writer's style. Hook readers with dynamic characters. Get past those first challenging sentences and into the heart of a story. And much more. "No-nonsense advice that is sure to set beginning writers along the righteous path to real authorhood." --Seattle Post-Intelligencer




Consequences


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David Parker Ray was a serial criminal sadist whose crime spree ran unchecked for 45 years and may have included as many as 100 murders. This well-documented book, written from the law enforcement point of view, begins with the crime scene discovery and takes the reader through the convoluted judicial process to its final resolution and unanswered questions.