The Sting of Betrayal: A Three Part Healing Process to Freedom


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The topic of betrayal has always been shrouded in a form of mystery, suspense and even awe. We've seen it in movies, performance plays, and in peoples personal stories. Many have experienced deception at various times of their lives. The sting has crippled them and made them close up and shut people out. This book is for those who have been betrayed or even for those who have been the betrayer. In whatever situation you have found yourself in, know that the sting of betrayal is real. In this book I will help you to identify the wounds that you have been carrying from the sting and also show you the wounds that you may have inflicted on others. I will take you through a step by step process to see the bitterness, unforgiveness and hurt that you have held on to. You'll learn how to get unstuck and move beyond the sting of betrayal to freedom. Jesus is ready to heal you... Are you ready to journey with Him?




Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder


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Have you been traumatized by infidelity? The phrase "broken heart" belies the real trauma behind the all-too-common occurrence of infidelity. Psychologist Dennis Ortman likens the psychological aftermath of sexual betrayal to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in its origin and symptoms, including anxiety, irritability, rage, emotional numbing, and flashbacks. Using PTSD treatment as a model, Dr. Ortman will show you, step by step, how to: • work through conflicting emotions • Understand yourself and your partner • Make important life decisions Dr. Ortman sees recovery as a spiritual journey and draws on the wisdom of diverse faiths, from Christianity to Buddhism. He also offers exercises to deepen recovery, such as guided meditations and journaling, and explores heart-wrenchingly familiar case studies of couples struggling with monogamy. By the end of this book, you will have completed the six stages of healing and emerged with a whole heart, a full spirit, and the freedom to love again.




I Love Jesus, But I Want to Die


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A compassionate, shame-free guide for your darkest days “A one-of-a-kind book . . . to read for yourself or give to a struggling friend or loved one without the fear that depression and suicidal thoughts will be minimized, medicalized or over-spiritualized.”—Kay Warren, cofounder of Saddleback Church What happens when loving Jesus doesn’t cure you of depression, anxiety, or suicidal thoughts? You might be crushed by shame over your mental illness, only to be told by well-meaning Christians to “choose joy” and “pray more.” So you beg God to take away the pain, but nothing eases the ache inside. As darkness lingers and color drains from your world, you’re left wondering if God has abandoned you. You just want a way out. But there’s hope. In I Love Jesus, But I Want to Die, Sarah J. Robinson offers a healthy, practical, and shame-free guide for Christians struggling with mental illness. With unflinching honesty, Sarah shares her story of battling depression and fighting to stay alive despite toxic theology that made her afraid to seek help outside the church. Pairing her own story with scriptural insights, mental health research, and simple practices, Sarah helps you reconnect with the God who is present in our deepest anguish and discover that you are worth everything it takes to get better. Beautifully written and full of hard-won wisdom, I Love Jesus, But I Want to Die offers a path toward a rich, hope-filled life in Christ, even when healing doesn’t look like what you expect.




Riding the Wave of the Sting of Infidelity in a Marriage


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Marriage is under tremendous assault as never before. Will marriage survive? Can it survive? Infi delity is exploding, but why? In most cultures, infi delity has become a major part of entertainment. We all see it in popular television programs and movies. Infi delity to some is enjoyment and pleasure. Some men think if they are not slipping and cheating they are not being real men. Some individuals grew up in environments where cheating is a way of life. Some women think life is boring without the excitement of an outside affair. In spite of the reasons, God to His creation says No to infi delity. Become the good husband or wife you would like your spouse to be. Life has taught me that men and women get involved in an extramarital affair for many different reasons. Sometimes when you are unsatisfi ed with your relationship you start to think What is available out there? In a way it is an escape, people feel like they want to be out from the burden in their marriages. Grass is greener on the other side and so it seems. I have seen many starting to fl irter with others, innocently at fi rst. They start to THINK of what ifs situations such as what if Im married to this friend of mine? Many people forget that slowly they bring themselves into an extramarital affair and become trapped to another crisis. Let me remind you that trust is like a balloon. One pricks it, is gone! The fear of broken promises, cheating or betrayal can reduce the quality of your marriage. Marriage is a challenging an enterprise that requires hard work, determination and discipline. Creating a strong and satisfying marriage is possible, and it is defi nitely worth the effort! Recovery after infi delity is not an easy path, but if others could pull through, so can you!




After the Affair


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After the Affair teaches partners how to heal themselves and grow from the shattering crisis of an infidelity. Drawing on thirty-five years as a clinical psychologist, Dr. Spring offers a series of original and proven strategies that address such questions as: Why did it happen? Once love and trust are gone, can we ever get them back? Can I—should I—recommit when I feel so ambivalent? How do we become sexually intimate again? Is forgiveness possible? What constitutes an affair in cyberspace?




Healing the Wounded Heart


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First published in 1989, Dan Allender's The Wounded Heart has helped hundreds of thousands of people come to terms with sexual abuse in their past. Now, more than twenty-five years later, Allender has written a brand-new book on the subject that takes into account recent discoveries about the lasting physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual ramifications of sexual abuse. With great compassion Allender offers hope for victims of rape, date rape, incest, molestation, sexting, sexual bullying, unwanted advances, pornography, and more, exposing the raw wounds that are left behind and clearing the path toward wholeness and healing. Never minimizing victims' pain or offering pat spiritual answers that don't truly address the problem, he instead calls evil evil and lights the way to renewed joy. Counselors, pastors, and friends of those who have suffered sexual harm will find in this book the deep spiritual guidance they need to effectively minister to the sexually broken around them. Victims themselves will find here a sympathetic friend to walk alongside them on the road to healing.




Love and the Mystery of Betrayal


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What is it like to recover from betrayal of trust today in a culture that is blind to the trauma and impatient with grief? When her long-time partner suddenly left her shortly before their wedding, the author found nothing had prepared her for the depth and duration of the pain. Despite having lived through her husband's death years earlier, she was stunned by the intensity of the suffering and could not understand why this shock hit so hard. Her loss of faith in this one person precipitated an existential and spiritual crisis that called her very understanding of human nature into question, and she wanted to know why. As she wrested with what turned out to be a massive trauma, she began to keep careful notes of her inner life-hoping to capture the paradoxes of love, grief and longing mixed with bewilderment and post-traumatic stress. With fearlessness and bracing frankness, she succeeds. "Love and the Mystery of Betrayal" seamlessly blends research and reflection, love and heartbreak, rage and transformation, and the personal with the collective. The deep, engaging writing provides the type of solace only a kindred spirit who has been there can. This achingly moving chronicle and meditation on the mysteries of love and betrayal shows how faith and love can triumph even after the most life-shattering revelations and loss. "This story of heartbreak has a rare quality: it is absolutely honest." -Ginette Paris, PhD, "Heartbreak" ..".a powerful book that will serve many." -Tara Brach, PhD, "Radical Acceptance," "True Refuge" "Sandra Dennis does not sugar-coat the experience of abandonment and betrayal with easy tips on getting over it or with spiritual bypass sleight of hand.... A much needed contribution to our collective healing..." -Francis Weller, Founder of Wisdom Bridge, "Entering the Healing Ground" "What Sandra Dennis tells us about the transformative power of suffering is so important and so true. I hope many read this book; many surely are in need of it." -Fr. Richard Rohr, "Silent Compassion," "Breathing Underwater" ..".a rare and beautiful book...invaluable for anyone interested in harnessing the deepest human heartbreak as a crucible for spiritual awakening....a triumph of spirit." -Miranda Macpherson, "Boundless Love" ..".a powerful and thoughtful book right from the heart that will be a source of comfort and assistance to a lot of hurting people." -Lundy Bancroft, "Why Does He Do That?" ..".probes the subject of betrayal in an almost kinesthetic way, like a dance that is also superbly intelligent." -Charlie Fisher, PhD," Meditation in the Wild" and "Dismantling Discontent" "What a remarkable book Sandra Dennis has written! I celebrate her courage and discoveries, and welcome her home!" -Gangaji, "Hidden Treasure," "A Diamond in Your Pocket"




AS I WALK WITH SPIRIT: Hypnotherapy, Past Lives, Healing and Spirituality


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Hypnosis & Hypnotherapy ~ Past Life Regressions ~ Aura Cameras ~ Being Spiritual ~ Spirit Guides ~ Working With Your Inner Child ~ Healing With Spirit & Energy ~ Lost Souls ~ Life's PlanAnd just three from many other testimonials in this book:..."I would totally recommend Mike Wells and the use of PSTEC and because of him I now have my life back. I cannot thank him enough." Mike C..."I recommend this CD to anybody to try it, go with an open mind because it really works... Once again, thank you,AMAZING. Much Love." Debbie..."Hi Mike I just wanted to say thank you for your help. I am extremely grateful. Thanks a million bye for now." Chris




Divorce Busting


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A step-by-step approach to making your marriage loving again.




Getting Your Breath Back After Life Knocks It out of You


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Is anyone crying for help? God is listening, ready to rescue you. If your heart is broken, you'll find God right there; if you're kicked in the gut, he'll help you catch your breath. ~Psalm 34:1718, The Message translation Has grief knocked your breath out of you? Everybody experiences grief, loss, and life challenges throughout their lives. Most are unprepared for their grief and the impact it will have. Grief is brutal and has a way of making you feel as though everything good in your life is slowly being crushed, leaving you gasping for air. Although painful to experience, grief is one of the most powerful teachers you can learn from. When one goes through grief or loss, the invaluable opportunity to understand, love, and know God better immediately beginsHe is the key to creating a fuller, more purposeful life in spite of grief. In Getting Your Breath Back After Life Knocks It Out of You, K.B.H. Niles transparently shares her experiences with grief and loss. She reveals how her relationship with God helped her grieve multiple deaths, including the deaths of her sister, father, and grandparents, after she found God in the midst of her pain. How do you get your breath back after life knocks it out of you? K.B.H. Niles explains key "oxygens" God revealed to her as she studied His Word during times of intense grief. In Getting Your Breath Back After Life Knocks It Out of You, you will find how to: Develop a treasured relationship with God Regain your faith and hope Resolve bitterness, guilt, and regrets Find the encouragement you need during grief Understand the importance of relationships Value God's time through grief and life Realize the importance of grieving in your own unique way Develop gratefulness, thankfulness, and praise Experience wellness, traditions, and enjoyment Create a fuller, more purposeful life




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