The Submissive Female's Workbook


Book Description

Are you a female with a submissive sexual side who is new to BDSM and doesn't know exactly where to go & what to do with this aspect of who you are? Would you like a more formalized way of exploring this submissive sexual side of yourself and the BDSM lifestyle and relationship dynamics and getting properly oriented in it all? Well now finally there is a unique Submissive Female's Workbook that will help you to engineer and build your Submissive Female Sexual Identity, Dom/sub Relationship Structure, Submissive Training and BDSM Lifestyle all together in one book! This is perfect for getting yourself properly oriented and self actualized as the submissive woman that you are, but will also serve as the definitive blueprint for you to give to your Dominant, or prospective Dominant, to ensure that they will have the best understanding of who you are and what you want and how to treat and train you, and structure your D/s relationship and life together. Combining a highly specialized and technical blend of Logotherapy (Identity work), Personality Typeology, Social Science, Sexual Education and Kink/BDSM, this book is the ultimate submissive resource for you to have that will make sure that you are able to become the person that you want to be and get exactly what you want out of the BDSM Lifestyle (and not get what you don't want.) Finally all the different confusing aspects of your BDSM Identity, Roles, Dynamics and Lifestyle can be sorted out and the navigation and negotiation of everything with your Dom(s) will be completely simplified and made totally easy! No more disorientation or miscommunication! With this simple, easy to use, fun, sexy workbook you will be able to self actualize as your ideal submissive self and the submissive Goddess that you want to be, and develop the sex life of your wildest dreams and fantasies! A must have for any woman who has recently discovered the BDSM Lifestyle on her sexual journey and really wants to find herself as a submissive and reveal her submissive side to the fullest extent, and fulfill all of her deepest desires with BDSM. Become the sexual being and get the sexual reality you want right now with this very special work book! Discovering yourself has never been so orgasmic! Don't miss out on all the pleasures the submissive role and lifestyle has in store for you!




The Big Workbook for Submissives


Book Description

The Big Workbook for Submissives provides a large number of essays, journaling exercises, research assignments, and play assignments to help explore your submissive side. This book is great both for the person new to submission and for the person who has been practicing for some time and wants to deepen their submission. It is written for all genders and sexual orientations and accommodates both monogamous couple and poly relationships. The workbook is based on the class "Deepening Your Submission" taught by the author around the United States. This book takes you on a journey exploring your idealized version of submission to your practice and helps identify what you desire and need in your submission. This workbook may be used alone or with a partner.




Female Submission


Book Description

Claudia Varrin chronicles the true story of her time spent in London as a sexual female submissive to a well-known British Master. Unlike Erotic Surrender, the first book of this two book set which was written to educate and empower the female submissive, Femal Submission relates the day-to-day experiences of a true submissive in a through-the-looking glass revelation of female submission, written for women by women. Culled from actual journal entries, it is detailed and vivid, exposing Madeleine's wildest experiences and most humiliating moments.




The Sexually Dominant Woman


Book Description

Since its first publication over six years ago, tens of thousands of women, men and couples have learnt the fundamentals of safe, fun, erotic female-dominant play. This friendly non-threatening book is the perfect starting point for the woman who has fantasized about erotic power play, explaining the fundamentals of bondage, sensation and control games. Also included a script to inspire and support the reader through her first scene.




Care and Nurture for the Submissive


Book Description

Submission can be described by a lot of words but “easy” isn't one of them. Discovering and honoring your desire to submit takes courage, strength and passion. Learning to follow the lead and rhythm set by another, and stretching your limits to accommodate training and service can challenge and exhaust you. The discipline to hold your tongue, retrieve your paddle, or wait around endlessly while knot after knot is being tied as part of a bondage ritual drains your energy. Submission stretches, taxes, pushes, and exposes your body and soul to the whim and desire of another. Submissive women need support, care and nurture to continue on this journey in a healthy fashion. "Care and Nurture for the Submissive" offers tips, understandings, and pathways to tend the fragile and beautiful souls of submissive women. Self-care is not selfish; it is essential. Only when you are taking care of yourself as a healthy, whole being can you give that self to another with a full heart and free joy.




Dominant Women


Book Description

Dominant Women is a guide for novice and semi-experienced women who are into the FLR-lifestyle. It covers everything from being and acting as a Domina, understanding male sexuality, the importance of communication (and how to do it well), and giving inspirational stories of FLR role-playing sessions, and much more. When you have read the book, you will have everything you need to express your desire to be in charge and start dominating your man. Ready to start your Femdom training?




Submissive Female Collection


Book Description

WARNING: Mature Readers Only - This Book Contains Taboo Adult Content. BOOK 1 Karen works in her parents bar; she has done so for years and is perfectly capable of running it by herself. She has big plans for the bar; her parent's vacation is her chance to put some of these plans into action. But, as with all good plans, there is always something to distract you. A relatively normal evening erupts into violence and is the catalyst to a seemingly chance meeting with an older stranger. Jack is old enough to be her father and yet the connection Karen feels with him is undeniable. But as mysteriously as he arrives, he also disappears; leaving Karen obsessed with what could have been. Fortunately she doesn't have to wait for long, he returns to the bar and Karen seizes the opportunity to find out more about him. Instead, she tells him her innermost secrets, things that she has never told anyone else; she simply can't resist the hold he has over her. Jack takes her down the path that she has fantasized about for years, but when she stumbles across some new information she is left to question everything she has learnt. Now she must decide, submit and find out if it really is the life for her; or carry on, never knowing what could have been. BOOK 2 Marie is not normally used to taking orders from others; she has worked hard to achieve success, and is intending to move a lot higher in the business. She is used to the attention she gets from others, and she is more than aware of how to use her body to get what she wants. Yet one colleague has the ability to get her to do anything. He doesn't reduce her to an emotional wreck, or ever say anything nasty, in fact, under different circumstances she might even find him attractive. But, no matter what he asks she finds herself doing it; without any complaints. Finally she has had enough, she might not know why she drops everything to help him but she is going to put her foot down! She tells Daniel, in no uncertain terms, that she is not his doormat. Instead of the expected response, she starts a chain of events which quickly lead her down a new path BOOK 3 It is difficult keeping a relationship secret when you work together. At some point it is almost inevitable that your colleagues will find out what is going on, especially when both Tina and Justin love the thrill and risk of being caught. It is even more complicated when Tina discovers Justin in a compromising situation with Karen, a young, gorgeous trainee who is rapidly climbing the corporate ladder; and using her body to assist her progress. Despite Justin's protests, Tina knows it's over, the trust has gone. But life is never that simple, Justin and Tina are bound to see each other every day, worse, Tina is set to see a lot more of Karen, but she can't react, because her and Justin's relationship should never have happened! Justin is not prepared to give up that easily, he tries every trick he knows to convince Tina that he deserves another chance. Ready for an adventure? Secure Your Copy Today!




FemDom Relationship Guide


Book Description

So you want to have a FemDom relationship or want to know how that would even work?You are a man and want to convince your wife to become your future mistress?You are a woman and want to understand submissive men or train one?Then this is your book. You should not read this book, if you're interested in any 'hot' FemDom sex stories - you won't find them there. You will find a complete manual for a FemDom relationship, however.So much of the websites out there are focusing on the sexual elements of FemDom, and almost no one talks about FemDom as a relationship model. Needless to say that it seems all of the writings are from men, and they really don't understand women [and especially not Dominant women].I have been in a FemDom relationship for almost 10 years now, and yes, it works - it's the best lifestyle ever, I love it! But getting there wasn't easy.The stuff on the internet, for instance, was worthless. I received lots of help, but I have to admit that much of this was sheer luck.The first step was understanding my submissive husband and his desire to be dominated. It was by accident that I discovered my husband's visits to a Dominatrix close by. How was I supposed to understand that? If I would have had access to a book like this one, I would've understood him much better. But back then this book didn't exist....Instead, I invested lots of time to understand submissive men and went on a journey.After some time, we introduced FemDom. I learned to Dominate. I learned to command. I learned to own him.He's mine now. And both of us love it. But even today, 10 years later, there still is no adequate book or guide out there which teaches the two most basic things:- Accepting and understanding submissive men as a woman- Dominanten a man and living a FemDom relationship in the long run.That's why I decided to write this book. It's not only a collection of thoughts - it's a through handbook guiding you on your journey towards total FemDom. Here is an overview of what you will find inside:Chapter 1: Why I Became A Mistress (Understanding Submissive Men, On Femdom And Relationships: Femdom Is Love)Chapter 2: The Benefits Of Female DominationChapter 3: The Mistress - And How To Become OneChapter 4: Finding A Submissive Male Or Creating OneChapter 5: Train A Submissive Male To Be A SlaveChapter 6: Establishing Your Authority: Ways To Make Him ObeyChapter 7: Managing A Femdom RelationshipChapter 8: How To Make Him Obey With Rituals And Things Chapter 9: The Art Of Discipline: Advice, Technique And ImplementsChapter 10: Femdom ExamplesChapter 11 Frequently Asked QuestionsChapter 12: Last StepsIt's a 170 page book and contains years of experience. What do you need more?Here are the two FemDom rules:1. Mistress is always right.2. When Mistress is wrong, Rule #1 applies.




Erotic Surrender


Book Description

In a world of almost enforced liberation and independence, the sexually submissive woman feels overlooked, misunderstood, and even despised because of her brand of sexuality. Much attention has been given to what sexually submissive men need from dominant women. Meanwhile, sexually submissive women have been ignored -- their needs and feelings not addressed in any meaningful way. Claudia Varrin fills that void. And she knows what she's talking about -- having been a dominatrix by profession and yet a sexual submissive in her personal life. Erotic Surrender guides the reader on her way to feeling more comfortable in her sexual skin, secure in the knowledge that many other women share her submissive fantasies. The author relates her personal experience as she introduces the general D&S (dominance and submission) vocabulary and emphasizes the emotional and physical benefits that can be derived from erotic surrender. As with all things in D&S, there is more to "bottoming" than is apparent to the casual observer. Being submissive is fulfilling and romantic. The book covers such topics as how to plan scenes to live out fantasies, role-playing, bondage, pain and discipline, positions, and water sports, among other things, and includes sample sessions as well as a "playtime checklist". An extensive reference section directs players to D&S booksellers, publications, and support groups. While the book is instructional, it is not simply a how-to but also a sensitive exploration of the positive emotional aspects of sensual submission as well as the beauty and trust that is possible to achieve in a consensual D&S relationship. Erotic Surrender reveals to the nascent submissive that her sexualpreference is a rare and precious gift, to both herself and her partner.




We Are Not Born Submissive


Book Description

A philosophical exploration of female submission, using insights from feminist thinkers—especially Simone de Beauvoir—to reveal the complexities of women’s reality and lived experience What role do women play in the perpetuation of patriarchy? On the one hand, popular media urges women to be independent, outspoken, and career-minded. Yet, this same media glorifies a specific, sometimes voluntary, female submissiveness as a source of satisfaction. In philosophy, even less has been said on why women submit to men and the discussion has been equally contradictory—submission has traditionally been considered a vice or pathology, but female submission has been valorized as innate to women’s nature. Is there a way to explore female submission in all of its complexity—not denying its appeal in certain instances, and not buying into an antifeminist, sexist, or misogynistic perspective? We Are Not Born Submissive offers the first in-depth philosophical exploration of female submission, focusing on the thinking of Simone de Beauvoir, and more recent work in feminist philosophy, epistemology, and political theory. Manon Garcia argues that to comprehend female submission, we must invert how we examine power and see it from the woman’s point of view. Historically, philosophers, psychoanalysts, and even some radical feminists have conflated femininity and submission. Garcia demonstrates that only through the lens of women’s lived experiences—their economic, social, and political situations—and how women adapt their preferences to maintain their own well-being, can we understand the ways in which gender hierarchies in society shape women’s experiences. Ultimately, she asserts that women do not actively choose submission. Rather, they consent to—and sometimes take pleasure in—what is prescribed to them through social norms within a patriarchy. Moving beyond the simplistic binary of natural destiny or moral vice, We Are Not Born Submissive takes a sophisticated look at how female submissiveness can be explained.