Book Description

If individuality is what makes relationships interesting, compatibility becomes a key factor. "We need extended research on what's considered compatible." It's not as simple as a positive and a negative making a perfect pair. When we consider the personalities of individuals, the probability of compatibility is endless. We all draw a line in the search for a partner when we find a personality that matches our taste. However, it's not the personality but the mysteries within us that determine compatibility. It's the things we don't share that create compatibility, not the things we do. If we want to make ourselves compatible, we need to learn about our true craze first. Our true craze is delicate and often hidden from our consciousness. Learning about "what am I" in a relationship is more important than the type of personality we look for in our partners. Saying "I want my man to be caring and funny" is the wish of an inexperienced genie who doesn't realize she can rub herself for more wishes. I'm no genie, but as a former womanizer, my confessions are intended to attend to those unattended mysteries in women. Let's dissect this a bit. In a gender-neutral debate, the question of "Who is the base of a relationship?" arises. While some men and some fools may argue otherwise, I would assert that women are the foundation. Women's mysteries are strong and interesting, making them powerful and capable of holding a relationship. They are also intriguing enough to keep even a promiscuous man interested for a long time. On the other hand, men's mysteries are often invisible, cloaked in our pride and left undiscovered by themselves. Perhaps some exceptional men are able to embrace their own inner selves, but for the most part, men have an important role to play in relationships: pursuing the mysteries of their woman without ever revealing what was uncovered. It's a pursuit and not a race. This process starts with ignoring the misquoted quotes that imply 'Try to understand your woman' and make it sound like a project. It's a common misconception about understanding women. The respect for her true self is more relevant than understanding them. Darlings, we understand you're a mystery, but who would love a solved mystery? The right advice is that men who want to be in a happy relationship need to love her mystery and leave them unattended. Sometimes the woman is her mystery herself, and she would like to keep it that way. Anyhow, it's impossible to teach, "How to understand women?" Not that there is an answer to that question either. Scripting a part of my life experience with relationships with women is a moral suasion to tickle the subconscious mind at the right time in a relationship journey. In the questionable life choices of a womanizer, many mysteries I have unraveled were also a collection of knowledge. For the woman who understands, they are the base: In the many relationships I have had, some of your interesting mysteries unraveled! Every woman is different, and so are her mysteries. It would be moronic of me to think it applies to all; I'm not a moron but I may be wrong.