Different Loving Too: Real People, Real Lives, Real BDSM


Book Description

The long-awaited sequel to 1993's Different Loving, the book that introduced BDSM to the mainstream, Different Loving Too takes a deep dive into the secret world of BDSM and how it has changed in the 21st century. Often emotional, always intimate, people who told their stories back then have come back to bare their souls – sharing highlights, low points, lessons learned and their secrets to successful BDSM relationships. Intriguing anecdotes, in-depth interviews and Community Dialogues are skillfully stitched together with Dr. Brame's well-known insight and renowned sexological scholarship. Readers new to BDSM will find this a bracingly honest look at a still taboo subject. Experienced BDSMers will be amazed at the Scene luminaries they recognize and the true history they reveal. Advance praise for Different Loving Too Different Loving was a revolutionary and influential book, not just for me personally, but for how kink and BDSM was framed at an important time in our history. By including some of the same interviewees from the original book, as well as adding a whole new batch of kinksters, Different Loving Too continues the tradition. It explores how the kink community has evolved, along with the threads that still connect us to our past. All in all, it’s a fascinating book for anyone interested in BDSM from a personal or academic standpoint. -- Kali Williams, Founder of KinkAcademy.com If you think all people who practice BDSM are the same, think again. Different Loving Too illuminates the wide range of motivations, meanings, and practices of kinksters, and offers a fascinating look behind the dungeon (and bedroom) door. No matter how much experience you do or don’t have in the scene, you’re sure to learn something new. -- Rachel Kramer Bussel, Editor, Dirty Dates: Erotic Fantasies for Couples




Sadomasochism and the BDSM Community in the United States


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Sadomasochism and the BDSM Community in the United States: Kinky People Unite chronicles the development of sadomasochistic sexuality and its communities in the United States from the post-war period to the present day. Having evolved from scattered networks of sadomasochists to a coherent body bound by shared principles of "safe, sane, consensual," activists worked to transform popular perceptions of their community, end its routine harassment by law enforcement and win inclusion in American society. Often paralleling the work of LGBTQ activists, people who engaged in BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism) transformed both their own sexual practices and how outsiders perceived them, successfully changing popular perceptions of them from fascists, murderers, and outlaws to people living an alternative lifestyle. The development of this community highlights the interactions of people of different sexual orientations within a sexual community, the influence of various campaigns for sexual freedom, and the BDSM community's influence on popular perceptions of sexuality and sexual freedom. The text’s historical perspective gives depth and texture to a specific dimension of American history of sexuality. This book will be of interest to students and scholars in the history of sexuality. Its clear and direct approach offers an important and useful chronology of a movement that has long been neglected.




Enhancing Pleasure for Gay Men


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This book aims to help therapists understand the challenges gay men face in their sex lives, providing professionals and gay men with evidence-based interventions and clinical tools to help them heal and live overall healthier lives. Gay men have unique and debilitating issues that can get in the way of them having pleasurable sex. Instead of sex being a space to learn about themselves, heal, release, and receive joy, for many sex is fraught with shame, anxiety, self-hate, and feeling isolated. Written for both professionals and the clients they treat, this book aims to heal sex-related wounds through sex and, in turn, improve every aspect of gay men’s mental health. The book begins by exploring what is special about gay men and sex before looking at assessing and presenting medical issues impacting sexual functioning, such as childhood trauma, attachment styles, body issues, anxiety, depression, long-term relationships and parenting, and hookup apps. It then moves onto clinical interventions to address these issues, with intake questionnaires and information on how to adapt sensate focus exercises, neuroscience, narrative, CBT, and somatic modalities to provide sex therapy interventions specific to gay men. With special focus on marginalized communities within the LGBTQIA+ community, such as trans men, BIPOC, aging, disabled, and chronically ill voices, this book is essential reading for sex therapists and mental health professionals working with gay men, as well as gay men themselves looking to live authentically and happily in their sexual lives.




A True BDSM Love Story


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This book is created to show our true love for each other as truck drivers we living a fulltime BDSM Lifestyle over the road as Master and slave. Our lifestyle is based on Obedience and servitude and our point of view is that everyone create their lifestyle the way what feels comfortable for them. And we are comfortable the way how we living a fulltime BDSM Lifestyle




This is My Kink


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A standalone non-fiction BDSM book written by International Bestselling Author, Nikita Slater. All proceeds for this limited time release will go to the MVK (Metro Vancouver Kink Society), a non-profit organization.This is My Kink explores the lives and kinks of people who are part of the BDSM community. Each chapter is an interview with a different kinkster and looks at the types of kinks the interviewees love, how they integrate kink into their lives and relationships, how they maneuver within their local community, and what sort of things they want the world to know about them. These are real stories from real people living a kinky lifestyle, living life the way they choose; their thoughts, motivations and expectations. In the words of the kinky: "Another thing that drew me to the community was how much more empowered women seem in BDSM than in other places." - Mozart"The one thing I remember taking away from that experience was him licking my boot, his tongue caressing each toe through the boot. It was sensual, awkward, and one of the coolest things I'd ever done." - Whisper"A big thing for me was my collaring ceremony. Part of what stood out for me was it was a chance to make our commitments known within our community. Within polyamory you don't get a chance to always have those ceremonies, or public acknowledgment of those relationships, like a wedding." - Kitten"I love the sights, the sounds, the smells, the feeling. The joy that comes from kink. And I love the reactions I get from my partners, and being able to follow those reactions in a way that brings them ecstasy." - ZootAuthor note: Nikita is not an expert on this subject, but is interested in BDSM, community and how these things impact the lives of people in the BDSM lifestyle. These are candid interviews with a variety of people in the community.




Rougher BDSM Adult Erotic Collection of 150 Filthy Sex Short Stories


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A Real Bdsm Book


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This sexy collection of blokes being treated the way they need to be. Enjoy this photo journal that showcases blokes enjoying BDSM.




Love Writing


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'Thinking of writing Romance? You NEED this book' ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ reader review Love sells and sex sells and you can earn your living writing about them for novels, novellas and short stories as well as serials for magazines, anthologies and websites. This book holds the secrets of how to achieve success. Recommended by readers! 'A great guide to writing romance' ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ 'Genuinely useful . . . I recommend this one' ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ 'Packed with information . . . an illuminating book for anyone starting out in the field and well-worth the read' ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ 'Definitely a book to keep near to your keyboard! ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ 'As good as a paying for an expensive seminar. Excellent book' ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ .................................................... As well as drawing on her experience as a fiction writer and creative writing tutor, in this 'must-have' book Sue Moorcroft has included questions from aspiring writers - with illuminating responses from published writers and industry experts. Romantic fiction encompasses everything from chart-topping chick lit and romantic comedies, through gritty sagas, sweeping historicals and smouldering erotica to liver-twisting affairs with vampires. Bright, emotional, involving, intelligent storytelling about love and desire is what readers want and will pay for. Do you want to know how to create emotional punch? (Or even what emotional punch is?) How to control dual time lines? Spring your work out of the slush pile? Write a tender love scene that excites passion rather than hilarity? This book reveals all. .................................................... Sue Moorcroft is an award-winning novelist. Her emotionally compelling fiction has hit No. 1 on Kindle UK, top 100 on Kindle US and made her a Sunday Times bestseller. Her novels, short stories, serials, courses and writing guides have sold around the world. As a creative writing tutor, she has worked at the University of Leicester, the London School of Journalism, Adult Learning Services Northants, Writing School Leicester, Writing School East Midlands, Writers' News Home Study and various other organisations. She's also delivered workshops and courses in the US, Italy, France and Dubai.




People of Color Kinky and Loving It


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This book was written to be a guide for people new to the BDSM/kink lifestyle. You may find it to be an educational resource that will give an authentic look into our kink world as people of color. The people listed in this book are some of the best at what they do in the community. These individuals are independent trail blazers in the lifestyle. I probed the interviewees for their nuggets of wisdom that will help those new to the BDSM life find their way quicker and safer. Each person was asked to share some tips, tricks and tools on navigating through this wonderful lifestyle.




Sometimes I Think About It


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An essay collection by a writer who “may be writing under . . . the influence of genius” (Vanity Fair) In Sometimes I Think About It, Stephen Elliott gathers personal essays, reportage, and profiles written over fifteen years to tell a powerful story about outsiders and underdogs. Moving from the self to the civic, the book begins with a series of essays that trace Elliott’s childhood with an abusive and erratic father, his life on the streets as a teenager, and his growing interest in cross-dressing and masochism. These stories, which range from a comic portrait of a week spent hosting his younger brother to a brutal depiction of depression, provide a context for the essays that follow. Stepping out into the world, Elliott tells of a man who loses his family in a rock slide in Southern California, explores the vexing realities of life in Palestine, and paints a chilling picture of a young man caught in the prison-industrial complex. The last section, “The Business of America Is Business,” shows Elliott’s abiding interest in the spectacle of money in America, from pop music to pornography to publishing, and it concludes with an off-kilter account of the tech industry’s assault on West Los Angeles. Building on the extraordinary storytelling that characterized his breakout book, The Adderall Diaries, Elliott’s search for dignity and happiness leads him to tell with great sympathy the stories of those who are broken and seek to be whole.