Helping Couples on the Brink of Divorce


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Foreword -- Introduction -- I. Overview, Theory, and Research -- Chapter 1. Background and Overview of Discernment Counseling -- Chapter 2. Theory and Research -- II. Methods of Discernment Counseling -- Chapter 3. Communicating With Clients Before Starting Discernment Counseling -- Chapter 4. First Session Protocol -- Chapter 5. Middle Sessions Protocol -- Chapter 6. Handling Transitions to Path 3: Couples Therapy -- Chapter 7. Handling Transitions to Path 2: Divorce -- Chapter 8. Handling Transitions to Path 1: Status Quo -- III. Common Scenarios in Discernment Counseling -- Chapter 9. When One Partner Has an Affair -- Chapter 10. When the Feelings Are Gone -- Chapter 11. When Neither One is Leaning in -- Chapter 12. Shifting From Couples Therapy to Discernment Counseling -- IV. Implementing Discernment Counseling in Your Practice -- Chapter 13. Learning Discernment Counseling -- Chapter 14. Managing Critical Incidents in Discernment Counseling -- Chapter 15. How to Build a Practice in Discernment Counseling -- Appendix: Applications for Lawyers, Mediators, and Clergy -- References -- About the Authors







Preparing Couples for Love and Marriage


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Good preparation enables couples to take a first step together in facing their future challenges. While no one can smooth away all the rough spots in the marital road ahead, couples can be coached to pay attention to warning signs, see the bumps before they hit them, and deal more skillfully with inevitable conflicts. This book provides pastors with a framework and tools for this ministry. The good news is that you don’t need any formal background in counseling, because the kind of work we’re talking about isn’t counseling—it’s coaching—a coach who can help couples to respond positively to the differences between them. It’s not about having the answers; but is it about helping couples manage difficulties before they become serious threats to the marriage.




Couples


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In this superbly helpful and informative guide to strengthening your relationship and streamlining disagreements, marriage counselor Dr. Carlfred Broderick shares honest, straightforward, and comprehensive tips to help cope while struggling in relationships. Couples is a richly informative, warm, and helpful book aimed at aiding couples of all stages, from those who are married to those recently united. In this “sensitive and psychologically able” work (Publishers Weekly), Dr. Carlfred Broderick covers topics ranging from emotional space and dependency to infidelity, children, and bisexuality. Dr. Broderick includes discussions from actual counseling sessions, as well as exercises for developing the skills and habits necessary for you and your partner to solve problems.




Recovering Intimacy in Love Relationships


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The loss of intimacy is one of the most difficult—but also one of the most common—factors in the destruction of any relationship. Recovering Intimacy in Love Relationships lays out practical, evidence-based guidelines on which clinicians can depend as they wade through the intense emotions and fragile bonds of couples in crisis. With care and sensitivity, the book's authors analyze the increasingly complex context in which the cycle of intimacy develops, wanes, and recovers. The chapters delve into diverse populations' attitudes toward intimacy and provide an entire section on cultural, gender and religious issues. Clinicians looking for a research-based, practical take on the many facets of intimacy in the twenty-first century need look no further than this book.




The Premarital Counseling Handbook


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In any endeavor, dreams and goals not backed by concrete plans and preparations can result in failure. And marriage is no exception, claims H. Norman Wright. In fact, without solid planning and forethought by engaged couples, we will surely see a continuation of the startling divorce rate among Christians and non-Christians alike. On the other hand, thorough premarital counseling and preparation can result in lifelong marriages that are fulfilling and God honoring. That's where the church comes in. More and more churches are realizing that their responsibility lies not only in pronouncing men and women 'husband and wife,' but also in making sure the proper foundation is laid so that marriages have a better chance of standing strong under pressure. Since its introduction in 1977 as Premarital Counseling, this book has been used by literally thousands of churches throughout the country as both a guide and reference tool. Now Dr. Wright has added new material to cover some perplexing issues that have come into prominence only recently. Among those special concerns are: Interracial marriages Second marriages Marriages of persons from dysfunctional families Writing for both pastors and other premarital counselors, H. Norman Wright sets you at ease about the counseling process, even if you've had only limited counseling experience. As the author of the popular Before You Say I Do and numerous other books on marriage, H. Norman Wright documents in The Premarital Counseling Handbook methods hat have proved successful. These will help insure that the marriages performed in your church will resist the pressures that are destroying today's married couples.




Counseling Women


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In this signal volume, Christie Neuger offers a new feminist paradigm for radical, effective, empowering counseling for women. She contends that pastors must take up the challenge of pastoral counseling, especially in light of the revolutionary pastoral implications of gender studies and feminist theology, as well as the continuing personal and social effects of sexism. Neuger's work promises to aid counselors "to help women resist and transform the negative effects of a woman-unfriendly culture" and so to reclaim their stories, their strength, and their lives.




Take Back Your Marriage


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All couples walk to the altar dreaming of happily-ever-after, but many forces in our society work against healthy lifelong commitment. Renowned family therapist William J. Doherty reveals how cracks can develop in even a rock-solid marriage, and what steps you can take to keep your love strong. Learn ways to break free of common traps like confusing desires with needs, comparing your spouse to your fantasies of other relationships, or becoming overtime parents instead of full-time partners. You'll get suggestions for creating relationship rituals--from mundane to celebratory, sexy to silly--that build closeness and connection every day. The updated second edition incorporates Dr. Doherty's ongoing experience counseling couples, plus the latest information on marriage and health, how divorce affects kids, the impact of new technologies on family life, and more. Winner--Best Self-Help Book, ForeWord Magazine's Book of the Year Awards




Clinical Applications of Bowen Family Systems Theory


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One look inside Clinical Applications of Bowen Family Systems Theory, and you’ll see that your most current clinical dilemmas are not as difficult to solve as you think. You’ll find plenty of information to assist you in treating a vast audience of populations--the elderly, college students, troubled couples, remarried families, and children with severe medical problems. You’ll also find that you’re able to apply the Bowen systems theory to nearly every clinical situation--emotional dysfunction in children, alcoholism, incest, divorce, depression, phobias, and obsessive-compulsive disorders. Clinical Applications of Bowen Family Systems Theory is an ideal companion for family therapists, clinical psychologists, clinical social workers, psychiatrists, psychiatric nurses, and counselors. You’ll find your working comprehension of Murray Bowen’s work will grow, and you’ll become more adept at applying what you read in real-life clinical situations, especially in these related areas: family systems assessment based on the Bowen Theory marital fusion and differentiation bridging emotional cut-off from a former spouse dealing with a child-focused divorce case studies of alcoholism and family systems Clinical Applications of Bowen Family Systems Theory is the first book to collect, illustrate, and walk you through a full application of this highly effective treatment method in any number of clinical settings. Both beginning and experienced therapists will find interesting reading in the history of the theory, and the result will be interested clients who begin to create functional, thriving personal histories for themselves.




A Typology of Domestic Violence


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Reassesses thirty years of domestic violence research and demonstrates three forms of partner violence, distinctive in their origins, effects, and treatments