How Adoption Changed My Life Forever


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How Adoption Changed My Life Forever is a heartfelt and inspiring short read that explores the transformative power of adoption. This book takes readers on a journey through the author's personal experiences, offering a unique perspective on the profound impact adoption can have on an individual's life. In the first chapter, "Discovering My True Identity," the author delves into their own journey of self-discovery and how adoption played a pivotal role in shaping their sense of identity. They share the challenges and triumphs they faced in uncovering their true self and finding their place in the world. "The Power of Unconditional Love" explores the profound bond that forms between adoptive parents and their children. The author shares heartwarming stories of love, acceptance, and the unbreakable connection that adoption brings. "Building Trust and Attachment" delves into the process of building trust and forming secure attachments in adoptive families. The author provides valuable insights and practical advice for both adoptive parents and adoptees on how to navigate this crucial aspect of the adoption journey. "Embracing a Multicultural Identity" explores the unique experiences of adoptees who grow up in multicultural families. The author shares their own experiences of embracing their diverse heritage and the richness it brings to their life. "Breaking the Cycle" delves into the transformative power of adoption in breaking the cycle of generational trauma and providing a fresh start for both adoptive parents and children. The author shares their own journey of overcoming adversity and creating a new legacy of love and stability. "Providing Stability and Security" explores the importance of providing a stable and secure home environment for adoptive children. The author offers practical tips and advice for creating a nurturing and loving home that supports the emotional well-being of the entire family. "Creating Forever Families" celebrates the joy and fulfillment that comes from creating a forever family through adoption. The author shares heartwarming stories of families coming together and the profound impact it has on everyone involved. "Overcoming Challenges" addresses the unique challenges that adoptive families may face and offers practical strategies for navigating them. The author provides guidance on how to overcome obstacles and build resilience as a family. "Dealing with Identity and Belonging" explores the complex issue of identity and belonging that many adoptees face. The author shares their own experiences and offers guidance on how to navigate this journey of self-discovery. "Managing Loss and Grief" delves into the emotional aspects of adoption, including the loss and grief that may be experienced This title is a short read. A Short Read is a type of book that is designed to be read in one quick sitting. These no fluff books are perfect for people who want an overview about a subject in a short period of time. Table of Contents How Adoption Changed My Life Forever Discovering My True Identity The Power of Unconditional Love Building Trust and Attachment Embracing a Multicultural Identity Breaking the Cycle Providing Stability and Security Creating Forever Families Overcoming Challenges Dealing with Identity and Belonging Managing Loss and Grief Empowering Others Through My Story Advocating for Adoption Supporting Adoptive Families Embracing the Journey of Reunion Discovering Biological Roots Reconciling Dual Identities Creating a Loving Home Providing Stability and Support Understanding and Addressing Trauma Love Knows No Boundaries International Adoption: Cross-Cultural Connections Same-Sex Adoption: Love Makes a Family Single-Parent Adoption: One is Enough Continuing the Legacy of Love Passing on the Gift of Adoption Advocacy and Support for Adoptees Frequently Asked Questions Have Questions / Comments?




The Primal Wound


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Originally published in 1993, this classic piece of literature on adoption has revolutionised the way people think about adopted children. Nancy Verrier examines the life-long consequences of the 'primal wound' - the wound that is caused when a child is separated from its mother - for adopted people. Her argument is supported by thorough research in pre- and perinatal psychology, attachment, bonding and the effects of loss.




The Foster Care Survival Guide:


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Foster parenting is often seen as a calling and a mission of love. At the same time, foster parenting can be both very difficult and exhausting. When caring for children who have suffered abuse, neglect, and traumas, foster parents face their own set of unique challenges each day. The Foster Care Survival Guide is a must have for today’s foster parents. It is a guide to surviving the lifestyle of a foster parent filled with personal stories, practical tips and advice, and even humor and emotions, The Foster Care Survival Guide is an essential guide for both novice and experienced foster parents. Leading foster care expert Dr. John DeGarmo combines his own wisdom with that of fellow foster parents. Tackling issues such as helping children with disorders and anxieties, how to best manage the lifestyle of a foster parent, working with birth parents, getting the help you need, addressing your own marriage while caring for children in need, and balancing the needs of your biological children with your foster children, The Foster Care Survival Guide delivers experienced and sympathetic wisdom and advice that every foster parent, advocate, and professional needs today as they care for children in care.




Love What Matters


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In the bestselling tradition of The Five People You Meet in Heaven and Humans of New York comes a collection of authentic, emotional, and inspiring stories about life’s most important moments, as curated by the editors at Love What Matters. “90% of the reads bring me to tears. I just can't believe the love this world truly has when all we see is hate. This is so uplifting.” —Shelsea Where do you go when you want to feel inspired? When you want to forget about the divisiveness and the anger? For over five million people, that place is Love What Matters, a digital platform dedicated to finding and sharing the daily moments of kindness, compassion, and love that so often go overlooked. This curated collection of powerful stories features first person accounts and photographs that perfectly capture each moment: A husband learning he’s about to be a dad. A new mom embracing her body. A cashier inadvertently teaching a young girl a lesson about patience. A bagel from a stranger that saved a homeless man’s life. From long overdue adoptions to military heroes returning home; from a fireman’s touching 9/11 tribute to what an old dinner plate found at a bake sale can teach us all about life—these are the moments that matter. They are genuine. Authentic. Raw. And they are perfect in their imperfection—just like all of us. You will no doubt experience goosebumps and tears, but this mosaic of life’s moments will leave you with something even more profound: a reminder that, in the end, love always wins. “This really is the best page on Facebook. It renews your love of humanity. There are still good people. We need more reports of acts of kindness.” —Johnny




Adoption Detective


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A passionate love affair between high school sweethearts creates an accidental pregnancy during a sultry night on the shore of Lake Michigan. Rebecca's unforgiving parents banish her to an unwed mother's home where she secretly gives birth to a baby girl. Her daughter Judy is placed in the loving care of foster parents before being callously given to Mario and Rosella Romano for adoption on her first birthday. Reoccurring visions and fantasies of her birthmother plague Judy's consciousness for three decades until a life-changing passage into adulthood causes her to question why she was abandoned. What begins as a simple investigation into her medical and ancestral history slowly evolves into a passionate quest to discover her roots. Through good timing, perseverance, and a few small miracles, Judy eventually solves the mystery of her origins. But will the woman she has been seeking welcome Judy back into her life? About the Authors Judith and Martin Land live in Colorado and Arizona. They told the entire story of Judith Land's adoption, from her birth through adulthood, to provide the reader with unique insights into the mind of an adoptee at various stages of her life.




Foster the Family


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There are great rewards that come along with being a foster parent, yet there are also great challenges that can leave you feeling depleted, alone, and discouraged. The many burdens of a foster parent's day--hurting children, struggling biological parents, and a broken system--are only compounded by the many burdens of a foster parent's heart--confusion, anxiety, heartache, anger, and fear. With the compassion and insight of a fellow foster parent, Jamie C. Finn helps you see your struggles through the lens of the gospel, bringing biblical truths to bear on your unique everyday realities. In these short, easy-to-read chapters, you'll find honest, personal stories and practical lessons that provide encouragement and direction from God's Word as you walk the journey of foster parenting.




Choosing to SEE


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I've told my kids for years that God doesn't make mistakes," writes Mary Beth Chapman, wife of Grammy award winning recording artist Steven Curtis Chapman. "Would I believe it now, when my whole world as I knew it came to an end?" Covering her courtship and marriage to Steven Curtis Chapman, struggles for emotional balance, and living with grief, Mary Beth's story is our story--wondering where God is when the worst happens. In Choosing to SEE, she shows how she wrestles with God even as she has allowed him to write her story--both during times of happiness and those of tragedy. Readers will hear firsthand about the loss of her daughter, the struggle to heal, and the unexpected path God has placed her on. Even as difficult as life can be, Mary Beth Chapman Chooses to SEE. Includes a 16-page full color photo insert.




The Lucky Few


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When life looks radically different than the plan we have for ourselves, it's the lucky few that recognize God's plan is best. That's what adoptive mom Heather Avis learned, and that's the invitation of this book. As the mother of three adopted children - two with Down syndrome - Heather Avis has learned that it's truly the lucky few who get to live a life like hers, who actually recognize that God's plans are best, even when they seem so radically different from the plans we have for ourselves. When Heather started her journey into parenthood she never thought it would look like this, never planned to have three adopted children, and certainly never imagined that two of them would have Down syndrome. But like most things God does, once she stepped into the craziness and confusion that comes with the unknown and the unplanned, she realized that they were indeed among the lucky few. Discover in this book what 70,000+ followers of Heather's hit Instagram account @macymakesmyday already know: the power of faith and family can help us stay strong in the toughest times. This book will also be especially touching to those with adopted family members or children with Down syndrome in their lives.




Chosen for Greatness


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A book to challenge the status quo, spark a debate, and get people talking about the issues and questions we face as a country!




The Problem of Pain


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For centuries people have been tormented by one question above all – ‘If God is good and all-powerful, why does he allow his creatures to suffer pain?’ And what of the suffering of animals, who neither deserve pain nor can be improved by it?