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Why Is My Kid Doing That?

Author : Cindy Utzinger

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Page : 165 pages

File Size : 49,4 MB

Release : 2019-11-12

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ISBN : 9781698468693

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If you've ever asked yourself "Why is my kid _________?", you are not alone. We have all found ourselves desperate at one time or another to figure out what to do to help our child. Is your child a picky eater? Does your child avoid wearing certain things and will only wear his favorites? Does your child have meltdowns, fears, or anxiety that you can't seem to explain? Do you get reports from your child's teacher that she can't focus and get her work done? Does your child bump or hit other children but you know he isn't a mean child? Does your child hate loud things or places? Is your child always on the go? Does your child seem to lag behind his peers in certain motor skills? Does your child hate to get dirty or LOVE getting dirty? Every single one of us has our own set of "unique" or "quirky" behaviors. In "Why Is My Kid Doing That? you will discover the why behind your child's quirks and get to the root of things once and for all. You will find yourself with many "Aha!" moments as Cindy Utzinger helps you get to the root of your concerns as she shares information, including the following: An in-depth, yet easy to understand, explanation of the sensory system An explanation of the sensory system's role in behavioral and emotional regulation and motor skill development A look at the immature sensory system as opposed to other diagnoses as the answer to the why The sensory system's role in ADD/ADHD, Sensory Processing Disorder, and Autism Spectrum Disorder Easy to use tools to use to help your child develop a strong sensory system and a bag of tricks to use in the heat of the moment for children with and without a diagnosis both at home and in the classroom There is no handbook for how to parent each one of our one-of-a-kind children. The understanding that you will gain in "Why is My Kid Doing That?" will empower you with the tools that you need to help your child gain the confidence and success that each one of us longs to see them achieve.



Why Is My Child in Charge?

Author : Claire Lerner

Publisher : Rowman & Littlefield

Page : 219 pages

File Size : 29,96 MB

Release : 2021-09-02

Category : Family & Relationships

ISBN : 153814901X

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Solve toddler challenges with eight key mindshifts that will help you parent with clarity, calmness, and self-control. In Why is My Child in Charge?, Claire Lerner shows how making critical mindshifts—seeing children’s behaviors through a new lens —empowers parents to solve their most vexing childrearing challenges. Using real life stories, Lerner unpacks the individualized process she guides parents through to settle common challenges, such as throwing tantrums in public, delaying bedtime for hours, refusing to participate in family mealtimes, and resisting potty training. Lerner then provides readers with a roadmap for how to recognize the root cause of their child’s behavior and how to create and implement an action plan tailored to the unique needs of each child and family. Why is My Child in Charge? is like having a child development specialist in your home. It shows how parents can develop proven, practical strategies that translate into adaptable, happy kids and calm, connected, in-control parents.





Are My Kids on Track?

Author : Sissy MEd Goff, LPC-MHSP

Publisher : Bethany House

Page : 312 pages

File Size : 45,91 MB

Release : 2017-02-14

Category : Religion

ISBN : 1441230793

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Tools for Identifying and Developing Spiritual, Social, and Emotional Growth From birth to adulthood, our children's physical and intellectual development is carefully tracked and charted. But what about their hearts? After all, how our children develop emotionally, socially, and spiritually will determine who they become as husbands and wives, fathers and mothers, friends and co-workers. Are My Kids on Track? helps you identify and measure 12 key emotional, social, and spiritual milestones in your children's lives. Moreover, you will discover practical ways to guide your kids through any stumbling blocks they might encounter and help them reach the appropriate landmarks. Along the way the authors pinpoint the different ways boys and girls develop, so you can help your child flourish in his or her own way. Filled with decades of experience from three practicing counselors, speakers, and writers, this book provides you with valuable, current research and user-friendly, hands-on practices to make supporting your kids' soul development a seamless part of family life. Don't just raise smart kids--raise courageous, compassionate, resilient, empathetic, and smart kids.



Grown and Flown

Author : Lisa Heffernan

Publisher : Flatiron Books

Page : 291 pages

File Size : 26,26 MB

Release : 2019-09-03

Category : Family & Relationships

ISBN : 1250188954

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PARENTING NEVER ENDS. From the founders of the #1 site for parents of teens and young adults comes an essential guide for building strong relationships with your teens and preparing them to successfully launch into adulthood The high school and college years: an extended roller coaster of academics, friends, first loves, first break-ups, driver’s ed, jobs, and everything in between. Kids are constantly changing and how we parent them must change, too. But how do we stay close as a family as our lives move apart? Enter the co-founders of Grown and Flown, Lisa Heffernan and Mary Dell Harrington. In the midst of guiding their own kids through this transition, they launched what has become the largest website and online community for parents of fifteen to twenty-five year olds. Now they’ve compiled new takeaways and fresh insights from all that they’ve learned into this handy, must-have guide. Grown and Flown is a one-stop resource for parenting teenagers, leading up to—and through—high school and those first years of independence. It covers everything from the monumental (how to let your kids go) to the mundane (how to shop for a dorm room). Organized by topic—such as academics, anxiety and mental health, college life—it features a combination of stories, advice from professionals, and practical sidebars. Consider this your parenting lifeline: an easy-to-use manual that offers support and perspective. Grown and Flown is required reading for anyone looking to raise an adult with whom you have an enduring, profound connection.



Elevating Child Care

Author : Janet Lansbury

Publisher : Rodale Books

Page : 177 pages

File Size : 33,20 MB

Release : 2024-04-30

Category : Family & Relationships

ISBN : 0593736168

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A modern parenting classic—a guide to a new and gentle way of understanding the care and nurture of infants, by the internationally renowned childcare expert, podcaster, and author of No Bad Kids “An absolute go-to for all parents, therapists, anyone who works with, is, or knows parents of young children.”—Wendy Denham, PhD A Resources for Infant Educarers (RIE) teacher and student of pioneering child specialist Magda Gerber, Janet Lansbury helps parents look at the world through the eyes of their infants and relate to them as whole people who have natural abilities to learn without being taught. Once we are able to view our children in this light, even the most common daily parenting experiences become stimulating opportunities to learn, discover, and connect with our child. A collection of the most-read articles from Janet’s popular and long-running blog, Elevating Child Care focuses on common infant issues, including: • Nourishing our babies’ healthy eating habits • Calming your clingy, fearful child • How to build your child’s focus and attention span • Developing routines that promote restful sleep Eschewing the quick-fix tips and tricks of popular parenting culture, Lansbury’s gentle, insightful guidance lays the foundation for a closer, more fulfilling parent-child relationship, and children who grow up to be authentic, confident, successful adults.



Bright Kids Who Can't Keep Up

Author : Ellen Braaten

Publisher : Guilford Publications

Page : 224 pages

File Size : 41,80 MB

Release : 2014-07-14

Category : Psychology

ISBN : 1462515886

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Do you find yourself constantly asking your child to "pick up the pace"? Does he or she seem to take longer than others to get stuff done--whether completing homework, responding when spoken to, or getting dressed and ready in the morning? Drs. Ellen Braaten and Brian Willoughby have worked with thousands of kids and teens who struggle with an area of cognitive functioning called "processing speed," and who are often mislabeled as lazy or unmotivated. Filled with vivid stories and examples, this crucial resource demystifies processing speed and shows how to help kids (ages 5 to 18) catch up in this key area of development. Helpful practical tools can be downloaded and printed in a convenient 8 1/2" x 11" size. Learn how to obtain needed support at school, what to expect from a professional evaluation, and how you can make daily routines more efficient--while promoting your child's social and emotional well-being.



Why We Do What We Do

Author : Edward L. Deci

Publisher : Penguin

Page : 241 pages

File Size : 43,11 MB

Release : 1996-08-01

Category : Self-Help

ISBN : 0140255265

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What motivates us as students, employees, and individuals? If you reward your children for doing their homework, they will usually respond by getting it done. But is this the most effective method of motivation? No, says psychologist Edward L. Deci, who challenges traditional thinking and shows that this method actually works against performance. The best way to motivate people—at school, at work, or at home—is to support their sense of autonomy. Explaining the reasons why a task is important and then allowing as much personal freedom as possible in carrying out the task will stimulate interest and commitment, and is a much more effective approach than the standard system of reward and punishment. We are all inherently interested in the world, argues Deci, so why not nurture that interest in each other? Instead of asking, "How can I motivate people?" we should be asking, "How can I create the conditions within which people will motivate themselves?" "An insightful and provocative meditation on how people can become more genuinely engaged and succesful in pursuing their goals." —Publisher's Weekly



What to Do When You Feel Like Hitting

Author : Cara Goodwin PhD

Publisher : Sourcebooks, Inc.

Page : 50 pages

File Size : 13,47 MB

Release : 2021-06-15

Category : Family & Relationships

ISBN : 1638076731

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Teach toddlers safe ways to express big feelings Toddlers are still learning how to speak, socialize, and understand their emotions. It's common for them to react with their hands when they get frustrated—but hitting is never okay. What to Do When You Feel Like Hitting helps toddlers understand why hitting is not allowed and shows them how to react to their feelings with actions that are safe and kind. This illustrated entry into no hitting books for toddlers features: Alternatives to hitting—Kids will learn how to use "gentle hands" to squeeze a stuffed animal when they feel upset, scribble a picture to get out their frustration, and practice taking deep breaths to calm down. A light touch—The language is kid-friendly and positive, encouraging toddlers to understand and communicate their feelings, not just keep their hands to themselves. Engaging illustrations—Big, beautiful pictures help kids see the ideas in action and keep their attention on the page. Get the best in no hitting books for toddlers with a storybook that helps them learn empathy and compassion.



Doing Life with Your Adult Children

Author : Jim Burns, Ph.D

Publisher : Zondervan

Page : 188 pages

File Size : 50,59 MB

Release : 2019-03-26

Category : Religion

ISBN : 0310353793

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Are you struggling to connect with your child now that they've left the nest? Are you feeling the tension and heartache as your relationship dynamic begins to change? In Doing Life with Your Adult Children, bestselling author and parenting expert Jim Burns provides practical advice and hopeful encouragement for navigating this tough yet rewarding transition. If you've raised a child, you know that parenting doesn't stop when they turn eighteen. In many ways, your relationship gets even more complicated--your heart and your head are as involved as ever, but you can feel things shifting, whether your child lives under your roof or rarely stays in contact. Doing Life with Your Adult Children helps you navigate this rich and challenging season of parenting. Speaking from his own personal and professional experience, Burns offers practical answers to the most common questions he's received over the years, including: My child's choices are breaking my heart--where did I go wrong? Is it OK to give advice to my grown child? What's the difference between enabling and helping? What boundaries should I have if my child moves back home? What do I do when my child doesn't seem to be maturing into adulthood? How do I relate to my grown child's significant other? What does it mean to have healthy financial boundaries? How can I support my grown children when I don't support their values? Including positive principles on bringing kids back to faith, ideas on how to leave a legacy as a grandparent, and encouragement for every changing season, Doing Life with Your Adult Children is a unique book on your changing role in a calling that never ends.