What's Stopping You?


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"This personal witty and insightful book teaches us about the fears that drive failure and the self-awareness that can help us navigate it. The great point about this book is that it is both philosophical with regards the nature of fear and its impact on achievement, and practical. For those that may be paralysed by a fear of failure, it offers a way through." —Luke Johnson, serial entrepreneur, Financial Times columnist and Chairman of the RSA "This powerful, insightful book shows you how to unlock your unconscious brakes and step on the acceleration of your true potential!" —Brian Tracy, author of Maximum Achievement "Kelsey offers a successful and eloquent analysis of fear of failure as a mass condition in the modern world, and one we ignore at our peril." —Donald Kirkpatrick, psychoanalyst and a founder of the London Association for Counselling and Psychoanalysis Do fear and doubt hinder your progress in life? Are you paralyzed at key moments by your insecurities? Millions of smart people are held back from achieving their potential by a fear of failure. Many of them don't even realize that this recognized condition is limiting their progress. What's Stopping You? offers no quick-fix solution. Why? Because the key to unlocking you potential for success lies in understanding the root causes of the fears and insecurities that hold you back and in accepting who you are, rather than trying to become someone you are not. Based on extensive research, recognized science and stark reality, this book will help you navigate the barriers that hold you back: at work, with people and in life. "Robert Kelsey has combined thorough research, careful thought and the lessons of his own experience to produce a valuable, original and eminently readable book. I can strongly recommend it to anyone whose progress has been impeded by fear of failure." —John Caunt, author of Boost Your Self-esteem "Confidence is the ultimate secret weapon of any successful entrepreneur. If Robert's book can help you find yours then it will be worth its weight in gold." —Rachel Bridge, author of How I Made It




Get the Guy


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Most dating books tell you what NOT to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you CAN do. In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey—relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love—reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love. Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships that translate into professional success. Many of Matthew’s male clients pressed him for advice on how to apply his winning strategies not to just get the job, but how to get the girl. As his reputation grew, Hussey was approached by more and more women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance. From landing a first date to establishing emotional intimacy, playful flirtation to red-hot bedroom tips, Matthew’s insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth makes Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve a one-of-a-kind relationship guide and the handbook for every woman who wants to get the guy she’s been waiting for.




Overcome Insecurity and Fear in Your Relationship


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Overcome Insecurity and Fear in your Relationship Have you lost great relationships because of your insecurity? Are you heading to divorce just because you are unable to control your emotions or find yourself involved in a fear attachment in your relationship? Do you find that you are clinging in all your relationships even when you do not mean to because of the fear of abandonment? Let's face it, we want to enjoy our relationships and not endure it, so when we meet a great person that we want to be with, it is only natural for us to do things in our power to keep them, the problem for some of us is that no matter what we do and do not do, no matter what our best intentions are, we find that we end up doing things that not only drive these great people from our lives but also impact negatively on my self-esteem, mental health and personality. Even though on the outside, we try to put the blame on them and try to appear strong to our friends and family by saying things like, he/she wasn't meant for me anyway, we know deep in our heart that when the number of people in our lives who live for the same reason begins to increase, then something more serious is at play. Jealousy and insecurity in marriage and relationships are some of the problems faced by many people and not just you. It is for this reason that this book was written to guide you by the hand and take you away from such destructive behaviors so that you can replace it with new skill sets that will not only make you the desired person but also make you a great and attractive person. All of these you will able to do without significantly changing who you are. This book will show you: -How insecurity, anxiety, attachment, and fear feature in a relationship -Destructive effects of negative critical thoughts you may have inadvertently allowed to affect you -Positive ways of loving your partner without appearing clingy -Keeping and staying in a relationship without feeling bored or abused So, what are you waiting for? Hit that buy button and grab your copy Still not sure if this book is for you? Imagine you walk into a room and see that ex of yours who used to seem all moody when you were dating, having a cozy feeling with his new partner and looking really happy. Imagine you access this new partner and you notice that she doesn't even have the elegance that you have and yet she is able to hold down the very person you would want to be with? You know you should have been the one there. The problem is, even if you were given a second chance, you are likely to still blow it because you have not yet learned how to overcome your insecurities and face your fears. Relationship anxiety will continue to exist, but you must learn how to master your insecurities in a relationship in a natural way that does not drain you. The truth is that, unless we learn how to eliminate negative thinking we would continue to have difficulties overcoming our conflicts as couples, so by learning how to manage the anxiety in our relationships properly, many of the problems in our relationships can better be avoided or managed properly. So, now hit that button and buy one for yourself or for that friend, child, or family member of yours who is having problems keeping a relationship. This book is also a good gift to share with those who need it. You can even buy a bundle of them and share it to a congregation or group of people who require this form of help. Order your Copy Now




Free of Me


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We live in a culture that's all about self, becoming the best "me" I can be instead of becoming like Jesus. This me-centered message affects every area of our lives--our friendships, our marriages, even our faith--and it breaks each one in different ways. The self-focused life robs our joy, shrinks our souls, and is the reason we never quite break free of insecurity. In this book, Sharon Hodde Miller invites us into a bigger, Jesus-centered vision--one that restores our freedom and inspires us to live for more. She helps readers - identify the secret source of insecurity - understand how self-focus sabotages seven areas of our lives - learn four practical steps for focusing on God and others - experience freedom from the burden of self-focus Anyone yearning for a purpose bigger than "project me" will cherish this paradigm-shifting message of true fulfillment.




They F*** You Up


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Do your relationships tend to follow the same destructive pattern? Do you feel trapped by your family's expectations of you? Does your life seem overwhelmingly governed by jealousy or competitiveness or lack of confidence? In this ground-breaking book, clinical psychologist Oliver James shows that it is the way we were cared for in the first six years of life that has a crucial effect on who we are and how we behave. Nurture, in effect, shapes our very nature. James combines the latest scientific research with fascinating interviews to show that understanding your past is the first step to controlling your present.




Insecurity: How to Overcome Insecurity and How to Love and Embrace Yourself Fully


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Insecurity: How to Overcome Insecurity and How to Love and Embrace Yourself Fully Insecurity is a feeling or nervousness which is triggered by the perception of oneself to be inferior to others. Insecurities make us hold ourselves back from doing things. They tangle us for many reasons. Most of them start while we are still kids, like not being able to live up to parent's expectations. While almost all people might have been insecure at some point in their life, dwelling on them is where the problem starts. This eBook will speak all about insecurities, how to identify them, their tell tale signs and how you can overcome insecurity and how to love and embrace yourself completely.




Insecurity


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An Easy-To-Follow Guide To Overcome Insecurities Through Self-Love Practices Do you always feel anxious for no apparent reason, suffer from low self-esteem or social anxiety that keep you unable to take action towards the things you want in life because you are afraid to fail? If you answer is yes, then most likely it's time for a change! And the key to achieve this is to develop a higher compassionate self-awareness level in order to find the root of all our insecurities. Human beings have been created in a unique way such that they are able to adapt to different background settings, however, there are various factors that inhibit their well-being. Self-esteem, jealous, procrastination, being less confident, anxiety and relationship insecurities are some of them. Although there are hundreds of pieces written on these subjects, applying what is expected in real life can be an uphill task. This book contains proven steps and strategies on how you can improve your self-esteem, stop procrastination, stop being insecure and how you can apply them in today's life. Here Is A Preview Of What You Will Learn Essential Ways To Build Self-Confidence How To overcome Relationship Insecurity The Biggest Regret Is Not To Pursue What You Really Want In Life How To Deal With Social Anxiety Experience Real Connection With People Without Feeling Insecure You Will Be Able To Get Rid Of Jealousy Of Your Life Make A Good Use Of Your Thoughts I believe the information shared in this book will help you to be a better person after you finish reading.




Be Happily Married


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ARE YOU READY TO? Feel Closer and More Connected to Your Partner? Stop Having the Same Argument Over and Over? Be Happier and Finally Make Changes that Stick? It's not too late. You can reclaim your relationship AND your happiness. You just need to have the right tools to finally make it happen. Over the last 30 years I've helped thousands of people like you create connection and happiness in their relationships. Combining my hands-on experience and the latest research, I've created a proven system to transform any relationship into a connected, communication machine. My goal is, above all, to provide practical, usable tools that WORK -- not unproven ideas or pie-in-the-sky theories that sound good but do little to help you in your day-to-day life. You can create the relationship of your dreams, even if you're partner won't do a thing! In this book, you'll learn: The secret to why your past attempts at change haven't lasted. Effective tools to get your relationship unstuck, quickly and easily. How small, simple steps can get you BIG results, no matter how long you've struggled. The keys to creating a happy and connected relationship. The level of happiness in your life is DIRECTLY related to the level of happiness in your relationship. This is the last relationship book you'll ever have to read because I'll show you exactly how to get there.




F#*ck the Insecurities


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Have a Heart-to-Heart With Your Insecurities and Make Them get Off For Good. For as long as humans have existed, they have been preyed upon by a powerful enemy. One that targets both males and females, old and young. It doesn't care how much money you have, where you live, or how successful you are. It can sicken your mind, make your day a living hell, and hinder your career. And it affects every single person on the planet. Yes, we're talking about self-doubt. It is one of the strongest feelings in the world, one that can take down even the most powerful individuals and can cause mayhem in anyone's life. There are many causes of insecurity, and it doesn't manifest the same in everyone. Some people hide themselves behind baggy clothes because they don't feel pretty enough. Others stay at home and avoid social events, worried that they might say something "stupid" and embarrass themselves. No matter what form your insecurity takes, the result is always the same: you are missing out on life. You could be out there, making friends, finding love, getting promoted, if your self-doubt wasn't holding you back. It's a tough rival to beat. But just like any other predator, self-doubt has a natural enemy, one that conquers it every time: confidence. Yes, confidence is the king of the jungle. Once you arm yourself with it, you're ready for the battle, and insecurities have no chance against this power. But becoming a strong, confident individual is easier said than done. Or is it? In this book, you'll discover: Simple techniques to break free from those hardwired negative thoughts that are poisoning your mind How to stop comparing yourself to others and eliminate destructive pangs of jealousy Why being perfect sucks, and how you can use your imperfections to your advantage Shocking revelations on self-sabotage, and how to recognize when you're doing it (hint: prepare to be surprised) How to use powerful tools such as CBT and self-talk to fight social anxiety, and rejoin the world How you are unconsciously projecting your insecurity to others by acting a certain way Strategies for boosting your defense mechanism and creating a shield of confidence no insecurity can penetrate And much more. A healthy dose of self-doubt has never hurt anyone. In fact, research suggests it can even help you progress and make you a better, more confident individual. But insecurities are subtle. They start slow, like you hiding your tummy on a beach, or avoiding public speaking. If left unchecked, they can grip you extremely fast and leave you vulnerable, self-conscious, and unsure in your own abilities. But if you react in time and employ confidence as your ally, self-doubt doesn't stand a chance. If you're ready to meet your insecurities on the battlefield, and emerge victorious, then scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" button right now.




Why Am I So Jealous and Insecure


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Have you been in search for information on how to deal with jealousy? Well, you do not have to look any further because the book you are about to read now is a comprehensive guide on how to sweep out jealousy and insecurity from your life. "Why am I so jealous and Insecure: The blueprint to overcoming it" is a life-changing book that starts by explaining what jealousy and insecurity is, how you generate or build it in you, the effects it has on your life and the many things you can do to eliminate the bad behavior. You need to take control of your relationship because we know living with these feelings are not comfortable at all, and since it is an emotional problem, you require guided solutions such as the ones described in this book. You were not meant to lead a life full of disappointing feelings, and because you are now ready to set yourself free, we offer the solution that will eliminate the chaos and drama that comes from your reactions. Get this book and enjoy the most complete information that will help you to stop being jealous and insecure. Whether you are in the initial stages of this bad behavior or it has entrenched itself in your system, "Why am I so jealous and Insecure: The blueprint to overcoming it" is the ultimate solution that will emancipate you from the chains of jealousy and insecurity.