Locked-In Love: How Two Weeks in Chastity Can End the Barter System, Renew Courtship and Make a Better Husband.


Book Description

Author Key Barrett started out writing a journal for chastity. He decided that he wanted to be locked up in chastity for seven days in order to better understand the motivation behind chastity and the emotional aspects so he could write about it with greater understanding in both his fiction and nonfiction. So he spoke with his wife and she agreed to let him go seven days in chastity with her holding the key, only unlocking him if he needed it for safety reasons, to make sure everything is working properly, or if she had sexual interest in freeing him. What started as a simple one week journal quickly blossomed into something else entirely. By the third day he was feeling butterflies just when his wife touched his hand. By day four, she noticed he was much more engaged in their household and being an active and proactive partner. What started as a week for him quickly became two weeks for them both to journal. Through chastity and communication, they identified a sexual trade-off that existed in their marriage, a 'barter system' wherein every action he engaged in had an undercurrent of sexual pressure, a literal tat-for-tit. Freed from it through a chastity device, they were able to enjoy each other on a more meaningful and trusting level. And in lowering the quantity of sex, they raised the quality. This book takes what they learned, plus surveys and research derived from male chastity users, and shows couples how they too can end the barter system, increase communication and bring back the courtship phase, butterflies and all. Learn what you can do to improve your marriage, increase intimacy, feel more connected emotionally, and make her daily life easier with a simple, sexy, fun exercise in chastity.




Surrender, Submit, Serve Her.


Book Description

What is 'Female Leadership'? It's accepting that 'She knows best' in all matters. From the finances to the household to how best to accomplish long-term goals. It's trusting in Her judgement to run things and embracing 'Her way'. This doesn't make the man weak, just the opposite, because men are the best at 'getting things done' when the task is clearly defined but difficult to do. A Female Dominant Household plays to both side's strengths and minimizes weaknesses, leading to Female empowerment, greater satisfaction in the relationship, trust, bonding and yes, mind-blowing sex.Surrender, Submit, Serve Her seeks to help implement your Female Led household through tools like the Command and Conquer meeting (commanding and conquering tasks and roadblocks, not people), laying out the contract of servitude (clearly defining her dominion and removing unnecessary confusion) and crafting your own pledge that personalizes and empowers the act of his submission.Surrender, Submit, Serve Her has been nominated for the BDSM Writers Con 2017 Golden Flogger Awards for BEST BDSM Book of the Year in the Non-fiction category.Updated for 2018! Better formatting and new content.




The Female Quixote


Book Description

The Female Quixote completely inverts the adventures of Don Quixote. While the latter mistook himself for the hero of a Romance, Arabella believes she is the fair maiden. She believes she can fell a hero with one look and that any number of lovers would be happy to suffer on her behalf.




Male Chastity


Book Description

A non-threatening, female-friendly introduction to the topic of male chastity, ideal for nervous keyholders or as a love-offering from a would-be-chastened male.




Worshipping Your Wife


Book Description

Six Steps for Turning Marriage Back Into Passionate Courtship: WORSHIPPING YOUR WIFE recommends a return to courtship, that time when a man and woman find each other most mysterious and magnetic. Husbands, by elevating their wives, find themselves becoming romantically obsessed again. Marriages, even after years of dormancy, begin to pulse with a new and potent eroticism.The ideal book for men to introduce their female partners to Loving Female Authority or Female Led Relationships — and for women to hand-deliver to the men in their lives, with salty or salient passages highlighted.




A New Conscience and an Ancient Evil


Book Description

Much of the material has been published in McClure's magazine. cf. Pref.




Chastity Control and Correction for Men


Book Description

This fascinating, detailed study of the techniques and effects of male chastity is a really comprehensive study of this very popular disciplined regime which can be used for pleasure or punishment, or both. Keeping the male deprived of satisfaction, often for long periods, can give the woman GREAT satisfaction! When orgasm for the man is delayed - or completely denied - the focus is shifted from HAVING an orgasm (often involving anxiety) to NOT having an orgasm (involving humility, patience, and loving attention to the dominant female). This exciting new book looks at topics like choosing and fitting his device (metal or transparent plastic), asking permission to be released and then being made to wait longer, using edging techniques, causing the male embarrassment in front of others, having to sit down to urinate, learning not to question the Mistress' decisions, and accepting hard corporal punishment when needed as part of the overall lifestyle of abstinence, denial and discipline. (See chapters list for much more.) Jade Greenaway (Mistress Jade) and Mark Maguire have both written numerous books on adult discipline and punishment as part of consensual, loving relationships - all still currently available - and here they collaborate on this comprehensive look at this rapidly "trending" topic. Mistress Jade says "Life nowadays is very stressful. You can achieve peace of mind by giving away control over your genitals and ejaculations. Yes, the chastised male will certainly experience the most overwhelming frustration when prevented from having an orgasm for very long periods, but he can learn to please his woman rather than himself." Mark Maguire agrees. "The Mistress makes all decisions on behalf of the man, so the sub male is freed from all responsibility in that respect. However, there are severe consequences for any kind of disobedience as far as Jade and I are concerned. She uses a hard backed wooden hairbrush to spank me when necessary, and when I've deserved a bit more discipline, she has her favourite whippy, rattan cane which is always to hand. Wow does that cane of hers STING!" Read right now about the intense bond of intimacy and respect that can grow out of an adult consensual chastity and discipline lifestyle in "Chastity, Control and Correction for Men" by Mark Maguire (with Mistress Jade).




The Salt Cellars


Book Description

The salt of proverbs is of great service if discreetly used in sermons and addresses; and I have hope that these SALT-CELLARS of mine may be resorted to by teachers and speakers, and that they may find them helpful. There are many proverb books, but none exactly like these. I have not followed any one of the other collections, although, of necessity, the most of the quaint sayings are the same as will be found in them. Some of my sentences are quite new, and more are put into a fresh form. The careful omission of all that are questionable as to purity has been my aim; but should any one of them, unknown to me, have another meaning than I have seen in it, I cannot help it, and must trust the reader to accept the best and purest sense which it bears; for that is what it meant to me. It is a pity that the sale of a proverb should ever be unsavory; but, beyond doubt, in several of the best collections, there are very questionable ones, which ought to be forgotten. It is better to select than indiscriminately to collect. An old saying which is not clean ought not to be preserved because of its age; but it should, for that reason, be the more readily dropped, since it must have done harm enough already, and the sooner the old, rottenness is buried the better. My homely notes are made up, as a rule, of other proverbial expressions. They are intended to give hints as to how the proverbs may be used by those who are willing to flavor their speech with them. I may not, in every case, have hit upon the first meaning of the maxims: possibly, in some instances, the sense which I have put upon them may not be the general one; but the meanings given are such as they may bear without a twist, and such as commended themselves to me for general usefulness. The antiquary has not been the guide in this case; but the moralist and the Christian. From what sources I have gleaned these proverbs it is impossible for me to tell. They have been jotted down as they were met with. Having become common property, it is not easy to find out their original proprietors. If I knew where I found a pithy sentence, I would acknowledge the source most freely; but the gleanings of years, in innumerable fields, cannot now be traced to this literary estate or to that. In the mass, I confess that almost everything in these books is borrowed — from cyclopedia’s of proverbs, “garlands,” almanacs, books, newspapers, magazines — from anywhere and everywhere. A few proverbs I may myself have made, though even this is difficult; but, from the necessity of the case, sentences which have become proverbs are things to be quoted, and not to be invented.




A History of Celibacy


Book Description

What causes people to give up sex? Abbott's provocative and entertaining exploration of celibacy through the ages debunks traditional notions about celibacy--a practice that reveals much about human sexual desires and drives.