Marriage Fitness


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Revolutionary step by step system marriage success.




What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love, and Marriage


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While observing exotic animal trainers for her acclaimed book Kicked, Bitten, and Scratched, journalist Amy Sutherland had an epiphany: What if she used these training techniques with the human animals in her own life–namely her dear husband, Scott? In this lively and perceptive book, Sutherland tells how she took the trainers’ lessons home. The next time her forgetful husband stomped through the house in search of his mislaid car keys, she asked herself, “What would a dolphin trainer do?” The answer was: nothing. Trainers reward the behavior they want and, just as important, ignore the behavior they don’t. Rather than appease her mate’s rising temper by joining in the search, or fuel his temper by nagging him to keep better track of his things in the first place, Sutherland kept her mouth shut and her eyes on the dishes she was washing. In short order, Scott found his keys and regained his cool. “I felt like I should throw him a mackerel,” she writes. In time, as she put more training principles into action, she noticed that she became more optimistic and less judgmental, and their twelve-year marriage was better than ever. What started as a goofy experiment had such good results that Sutherland began using the training techniques with all the people in her life, including her mother, her friends, her students, even the clerk at the post office. In the end, the biggest lesson she learned is that the only animal you can truly change is yourself. Full of fun facts, fascinating insights, hilarious anecdotes, and practical tips, What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love, and Marriage describes Sutherland’s Alice-in-Wonderland experience of stumbling into a world where cheetahs walk nicely on leashes and elephants paint with watercolors, and of leaving a new, improved Homo sapiens.




Equally Yoked


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Equally Yoked represents being on the same wave as your spouse, spiritually and physically. That includes living a healthy lifestyle. The word "equally" equates to being of the same importance or the same manner. "Yoke" refers to being coupled or attached. Marriage is togetherness; therefore, Equally Yoked describes the interconnection between husband and wife that requires them to work in harmony, spiritually and physically.




The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work


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Just as Masters and Johnson were pioneers in the study of human sexuality, so Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage. As a professor of psychology at the University of Washington and the founder and director of the Seattle Marital and Family Institute, he has studied the habits of married couples in unprecedented detail over the course of many years. His findings, and his heavily attended workshops, have already turned around thousands of faltering marriages. This book is the culmination of his life's work: the seven principles that guide couples on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward in their approach, yet profound in their effect, these principles teach partners new and startling strategies for making their marriage work. Gottman helps couples focus on each other, on paying attention to the small day-to-day moments that, strung together, make up the heart and soul of any relationship. Being thoughtful about ordinary matters provides spouses with a solid foundation for resolving conflict when it does occur and finding strategies for living with those issues that cannot be resolved. Packed with questionnaires and exercises whose effectiveness has been proven in Dr. Gottman's workshops, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the result of Dr. John Gottman's many years of closely observing thousands of marriages. This kind of longitudinal research has never been done before. Based on his findings, he has culled seven principles essential to the success of any marriage. Maintain a love map. Foster fondness and admiration. Turn toward instead of away. Accept influence. Solve solvable conflicts. Cope with conflicts you can't resolve. Create shared meaning. Dr. Gottman's unique questionnaires and exercises will guide couples on the road to revitalizing their marriage, or making a strong one even better.




43 Ways to Make a Good Marriage Great


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No psychobabble or complicated philosophy here---just 43 straight-forward practical easy-to-implement marriage activities guaranteed to energize your relationship. Mort Fertel has done it again. The author of the bestselling Marriage Fitness uses a dazzling array of fascinating stories, intriguing studies, brilliant insights, and personal reflections that will first make you laugh, cry, or pause; and then you'll roll up your sleeves and do something surprisingly simple but ridiculously effective for your marriage. Whether this book is for you, your spouse, or a friend; whether it's a wedding/anniversary gift or just because, you can't miss buying this book.




The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work


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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Over a million copies sold! “An eminently practical guide to an emotionally intelligent—and long-lasting—marriage.”—Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work has revolutionized the way we understand, repair, and strengthen marriages. John Gottman’s unprecedented study of couples over a period of years has allowed him to observe the habits that can make—and break—a marriage. Here is the culmination of that work: the seven principles that guide couples on a path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward yet profound, these principles teach partners new approaches for resolving conflicts, creating new common ground, and achieving greater levels of intimacy. Gottman offers strategies and resources to help couples collaborate more effectively to resolve any problem, whether dealing with issues related to sex, money, religion, work, family, or anything else. Packed with new exercises and the latest research out of the esteemed Gottman Institute, this revised edition of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential.




The Empowered Wife, Updated and Expanded Edition


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Can a wife single-handedly bring a boring or broken marriage back to life? This improved and expanded edition of Laura Doyle's acclaimed First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors features real-life success stories from empowered wives who have done just that—and provides a step-by-step guide to revitalizing your own marriage. Laura Doyle's marriage was in trouble, and couples counseling wasn't helping. On the brink of divorce, she decided to talk to women who'd been happily married for over a decade, and their advice stunned her. From it, she distilled Six Intimacy Skills—woman-centric practices that ended her overwhelm and resentment, restoring the playfulness and passion in her marriage. Now an internationally-recognized relationship coach, Doyle has shared her secrets with women around the globe, saving thousands of marriages with her fresh, revolutionary approach. Practical and counter-intuitive, the Six Intimacy Skills are about focusing on your own desires and transforming your own life—not bending over backwards to transform your husband. Incorporating these skills will empower you to: Attract his attention like a magnet when you relax more and do less Receive affection not because you told him to make more of an effort, but because he naturally seeks you out Feel more like yourself—and like yourself more If you've been trying to "fix" your relationship and it's not working, maybe the problem was never you, or your husband, or even the two of you as a couple. Maybe the problem is that nobody ever taught you the skills you need to foster respect, tenderness, and consideration. With humor and heart, The Empowered Wife shows you how to improve your relationship in ways you hadn't thought possible. You'll join a worldwide community of over 150,000 empowered wives who finally have the marriages they dreamed of when they said "I do."




Marriage Fitness


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MARRIAGE FITNESS THERAPYApart from the marriage ritual process, marriage is a union of two unknown individual soul.Anything's mismatched or unfitted cannot stay long even minute.So, we development new mindset knowledge therapeutic approach to give shape (or Reshape) to the newly proposed marriage couples and post married couples.CONTENTSThis book contents the following topicsMarriage and Fitness Physical and Psychological FitnessStages of Marriage Fitness TherapyPre marriage Fitness TherapyPurpose of premarital therapyGoals and Objectives of Premarital TherapyCommon Issues Addressed in Premarital TherapyBenefits of Premarital TherapyDifferent types of Premarital TherapyMSK Couple Relationship Analysis & Development TherapyIntimacy & its types Physical intimacyDifferent Stages of a RelationshipPost marital TherapyIndirect TherapyMarriage-Friendly TherapyMindset knowledge re-organizing TherapyMSK Mind Partnership TherapyMSK Love Therapy for couplesCouples interaction types and their behaviorInteresting Marriage Psychology FactsCouples conflict free interactionCouple Beware before dealing problemCouples Solution-Focused TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)How Can Marriage Therapy Help Marital Issues?Couples therapeutic relationship assessment inventoriesTherapy for Incompatible CouplesCompatibility Couples Relationship: Warning Signs of Failing RelationshipSexually compatible couple's relationshipCouples Chemistry of loveTypes of Compatibility in RelationshipsHappy Marriage & Mindset factorThe Difference between Casual Sex and IntimacyThe Benefits of Couples IntimacyRegaining Intimacy in couples RelationshipCellphone addiction and couples relationship issuesPhones & sleeping deprivationPhysical Effects of cellphone AddictionPsychological Effects of Cell Phone AddictionConclusion




Making Marriage Simple


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Draws on extensive research, counseling workshops with couples and the authors' own 30-year relationship to distill basic, provocative truths about marriage and provide essential tools for rendering a marriage more rewarding and positive. 50,000 first printing.




Marriage Boot Camp


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From the stars of WE tv’s Marriage Boot Camp comes a definitive guide to creating and maintaining a healthy marriage. Marriage is hard work. After the fairy-tale “I Dos” come chores, bills, fights, and plain weariness. Many couples are unsure how to fix their problems and wonder if their relationships really have what it takes to go the distance. (Hint: They do!) Luckily, relationship experts Elizabeth and Jim Carroll have created a program proven to mend marriages, revive relationships, and make the happily-ever-afters come true. After twenty years of resuscitating thousands of marriages, the Carrolls bring their wisdom directly to readers through this do-it-yourself relationship bible. Filled with advice, exercises, quizzes, and games, Marriage Boot Camp will teach couples to fight the Top Ten Marriage Killers by: • Keeping the heat in the bedroom • Arguing effectively instead of fighting dirty • Managing money • Creating—or rebuilding—trust • And much more! Through each time-tested exercise, couples will discover what matters to them as individuals and as part of a pair, and learn why marriage is not 50/50 but 100/100 at all times. With the right skills, any couple can create the marriage they’ve always dreamed of.