Book Description

As someone who works with victims of Narcissistic abuse and a survivor of Narcissistic abuse myself, I wanted to write a book that will help you spot and stop Narcissistic abuse, then heal and recover from it and learn how to fight back. This book takes a totally original approach and shows you how to not only reclaim your life but never be abused again. It has already been described as a self-defence manual for the mind.So if you suspect that you are being abused by a Narcissist, or are you concerned that one of your friends or family is? Of if you have ever experienced Narcissistic abuse yourself, then I wrote this book for you. Working as a clinical therapist and in the mental health recovery field for over a decade I have witnessed the cruel and devastating effects which Narcissistic abuse can have. It is one of the vilest forms of abuse that a person can suffer and the long term effects can be very damaging to all areas of our lives. Narcissists will damage self-esteem, emotional health and mental health, destroy our confidence; drain our finances, energies and ruin our chances of ever becoming our best selves.If you have ever encountered a Narcissist you will know just how impossible they are to deal with and for some people even harder to break away from and defeat. So I have assembled all of my practical and clinical knowledge of helping others to break away and heal from abuse and put it into this book. I created it to help guide you to safety, teach you to heal and also to be that self-defence manual for your mind. As a therapist I have worked with and helped dozens of people to spot if they are in abusive relationships, then empowered them to stop the abuse, heal and move on from it. The main problems with Narcissist abuse is we are all vulnerable to it and do not always realise that it is happening. This book can reach a range reach of people who are already be suffering from this horrific abuse but may be unaware of it.Section 1. How to spot a Narcissist and the types of abuse they inflict, including hidden abuse. It also focuses on the kind of person who may be ripe for abuse themselves and what to do to change if you are being abused. Section 2. How to break away from a Narcissist and to start to find your inner confidence again. Section 3. How to heal from abuse and help you to answer those difficult to understand areas of your mind, such as why we return to abusive people and how to stop this ever happening again.Section 4. Covers how to be mentally strong and defend your mind against Narcissist people. This section is a great read for anyone even if you have not been a victim of abuse. As we will always encounter Narcissists in life and this section looks at the mindset of a Narcissist, psychological warfare and how to defeat them every time. I have also devoted a section of the book to what I call verbal Ju-jitsu. This section teaches you how to verbally and mentally defeat Narcissists when you are under attack from them in social and private situations. Finally, we look at the types of Narcissists you could encounter, from covert Narcissist to Narcissist managers, dates and even family members.This book goes way beyond Gaslighting and it will challenge your thinking, as this is the only way you will ever grow and develop and become strong again. I have filled the book with various self-help and healing techniques, which I have developed over the years to help others heal, move away from abuse and fully recover so they can start to no longer see themselves as victims or weak, but as strong survivors.There are also personal accounts of my own life and how I show you how I overcame the worst Narcissistic abuse of my self-healed and learned to fight and become mentally strong again.There is no need for this abuse to happen to anyone. We need to open our eyes to the realities of the Monsters Who Live Amongst us. This book will show you how.