No More Mr. Nice Guy: the 30-Day Recovery Journal


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If you read the book No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover, you're going to want to order a copy of No More Mr. Nice Guy: The 30-Day Recovery Journal. At the end of No More Mr. Nice Guy, Dr. Glover included a list of 30 values and rules that had personally helped him on his journey toward integration. This has become a road map for self-determined living by Nice Guys all over the world. Chuck Chapman, Dr. Glover's personal assistant, took these 30 rules and developed them into a journal format. Each day presents one of the rules with a meditation, questions for deeper reflection, and a space to journal your own thoughts around the rule. The 30-rules are:1. IF IT FRIGHTENS YOU, DO IT. 2. DON'T SETTLE. EVERY TIME YOU SETTLE YOU GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU SETTLE FOR. 3. PUT YOURSELF FIRST. 4. NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, YOU WILL HANDLE IT. 5. WHATEVER YOU DO, DO IT 100%. 6. IF YOU DO WHAT YOU HAVE ALWAYS DONE, YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU HAVE ALWAYS GOT. 7. YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON ON THIS PLANET RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR NEEDS, WANTS, AND HAPPINESS. 8. ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT. 9. IF WHAT YOU ARE DOING ISN'T WORKING, TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT.10. BE CLEAR AND DIRECT. 11. LEARN TO SAY "NO. 12. DON'T MAKE EXCUSES. 13. IF YOU ARE AN ADULT, YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO MAKE YOUR OWN RULES. 14. LET PEOPLE HELP YOU. 15. BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF. 16. DO NOT LET ANYONE TREAT YOU BADLY. NO ONE. EVER. 17. REMOVE YOURSELF FROM A BAD SITUATION INSTEAD OF WAITING FOR THE SITUATION TO CHANGE. 18. DON'T TOLERATE THE INTOLERABLE -- EVER. 19. STOP BLAMING. VICTIMS NEVER SUCCEED. 20. LIVE WITH INTEGRITY. DECIDE WHAT FEELS RIGHT TO YOU, THEN DO IT. 21. ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS. 22. BE GOOD TO YOURSELF. 23. THINK ABUNDANCE. 24. FACE DIFFICULT SITUATIONS AND CONFLICT HEAD ON. 25. DON'T DO ANYTHING IN SECRET. 26. DO IT NOW. 27. HAVE FUN. IF YOU ARE NOT HAVING FUN SOMETHING IS WRONG. 28. BE WILLING TO LET GO OF WHAT YOU HAVE SO YOU CAN GET WHAT YOU WANT.v29. GIVE YOURSELF ROOM TO FAIL. THERE ARE NO MISTAKES, ONLY LEARNING EXPERIENCES. 30. CONTROL IS AN ILLUSION. LET GO; LET LIFE HAPPEN. Chuck Chapman is a Licensed Psychotherapist, Certified No More Mr. Nice Guy Coach, student of self-development, and the personal assistant to Dr. Robert Glover. Chuck has built his private practice by helping others recover from toxic shame and overcoming their Nice Guy Tendencies. He is a contributing writer for many popular online publications. See more at www.niceguyhelp.com.




No More Mr. Nice Guy: the 30 Day Recovery Journal


Book Description

If you read the book No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover, you're going to want to order a copy of No More Mr. Nice Guy: The 30-Day Recovery Journal. At the end of No More Mr. Nice Guy, Dr. Glover included a list of 30 values and rules that had personally helped him on his journey toward integration. This has become a road map for self-determined living by Nice Guys all over the world. Chuck Chapman, Dr. Glover's personal assistant, took these 30 rules and developed them into a journal format. Each day presents one of the rules with a meditation, questions for deeper reflection, and a space to journal your own thoughts around the rule. The 30-rules are:1. IF IT FRIGHTENS YOU, DO IT. 2. DON'T SETTLE. EVERY TIME YOU SETTLE YOU GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU SETTLE FOR. 3. PUT YOURSELF FIRST. 4. NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, YOU WILL HANDLE IT. 5. WHATEVER YOU DO, DO IT 100%. 6. IF YOU DO WHAT YOU HAVE ALWAYS DONE, YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU HAVE ALWAYS GOT. 7. YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON ON THIS PLANET RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR NEEDS, WANTS, AND HAPPINESS. 8. ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT. 9. IF WHAT YOU ARE DOING ISN'T WORKING, TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT.10. BE CLEAR AND DIRECT. 11. LEARN TO SAY "NO. 12. DON'T MAKE EXCUSES. 13. IF YOU ARE AN ADULT, YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO MAKE YOUR OWN RULES. 14. LET PEOPLE HELP YOU. 15. BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF. 16. DO NOT LET ANYONE TREAT YOU BADLY. NO ONE. EVER. 17. REMOVE YOURSELF FROM A BAD SITUATION INSTEAD OF WAITING FOR THE SITUATION TO CHANGE. 18. DON'T TOLERATE THE INTOLERABLE -- EVER. 19. STOP BLAMING. VICTIMS NEVER SUCCEED. 20. LIVE WITH INTEGRITY. DECIDE WHAT FEELS RIGHT TO YOU, THEN DO IT. 21. ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS. 22. BE GOOD TO YOURSELF. 23. THINK ABUNDANCE. 24. FACE DIFFICULT SITUATIONS AND CONFLICT HEAD ON. 25. DON'T DO ANYTHING IN SECRET. 26. DO IT NOW. 27. HAVE FUN. IF YOU ARE NOT HAVING FUN SOMETHING IS WRONG. 28. BE WILLING TO LET GO OF WHAT YOU HAVE SO YOU CAN GET WHAT YOU WANT.v29. GIVE YOURSELF ROOM TO FAIL. THERE ARE NO MISTAKES, ONLY LEARNING EXPERIENCES. 30. CONTROL IS AN ILLUSION. LET GO; LET LIFE HAPPEN. Chuck Chapman is a Licensed Psychotherapist, Certified No More Mr. Nice Guy Coach, student of self-development, and the personal assistant to Dr. Robert Glover. Chuck has built his private practice by helping others recover from toxic shame and overcoming their Nice Guy Tendencies. He is a contributing writer for many popular online publications. See more at www.niceguyhelp.com.




No More Mr Nice Guy


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Originally published as an e-book that became a controversial media phenomenon, No More Mr. Nice Guy! landed its author, a certified marriage and family therapist, on The O'Reilly Factor and the Rush Limbaugh radio show. Dr. Robert Glover has dubbed the "Nice Guy Syndrome" trying too hard to please others while neglecting one's own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness. It's no wonder that unfulfilled Nice Guys lash out in frustration at their loved ones, claims Dr. Glover. He explains how they can stop seeking approval and start getting what they want in life, by presenting the information and tools to help them ensure their needs are met, to express their emotions, to have a satisfying sex life, to embrace their masculinity and form meaningful relationships with other men, and to live up to their creative potential.




Codependent No More


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In a crisis, it's easy to revert to old patterns. Caring for your well-being during the coronavirus pandemic includes maintaining healthy boundaries and saying no to unhealthy relationships. The healing touchstone of millions, this modern classic by one of America's best-loved and most inspirational authors holds the key to understanding codependency and to unlocking its stultifying hold on your life. Is someone else's problem your problem? If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to someone else's, you may be codependent--and you may find yourself in this book--Codependent No More. The healing touchstone of millions, this modern classic by one of America's best-loved and most inspirational authors holds the key to understanding codependency and to unlocking its stultifying hold on your life. With instructive life stories, personal reflections, exercises, and self-tests, Codependent No More is a simple, straightforward, readable map of the perplexing world of codependency--charting the path to freedom and a lifetime of healing, hope, and happiness. Melody Beattie is the author of Beyond Codependency, The Language of Letting Go, Stop Being Mean to Yourself, The Codependent No More Workbook and Playing It by Heart.




Believarexic


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Asking for help is only the first step Jennifer can’t go on like this—binging, purging, starving, all while trying to appear like she’s got it all together. But when she finally confesses her secret to her parents and is hospitalized at the Samuel Tuke Center, her journey is only beginning. As Jennifer progresses through her treatment, she learns to recognize her relationships with food, friends, and family—and how each relationship is healthy or unhealthy. She has to learn to trust herself and her own instincts, but that’s easier than it sounds. She has to believe—after many years of being a believarexic. Using her trademark dark humor and powerful emotion, J. J. Johnson tells an inspiring story that is based on her own experience of being hospitalized for an eating disorder as a teenager. The innovative format—which tells Jennifer’s story through blank verse and prose, with changes in tense and voice, and uses forms, workbooks, and journal entries—mirrors the protagonist’s progress toward a healthy body and mind.




No More Christian Nice Guy


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Revised and Expanded Edition of a Life-Changing Book Recovering "nice" guy Paul Coughlin points the way for all men who yearn to live a life of boldness and conviction--like Jesus. Using anecdotes from his own life, powerful and poignant stories, and vivid examples from our culture, Coughlin shows how men can say no to the "nice guy" syndrome and yes to a life of purpose, passion, and vitality. This radical and hopeful message elevates the true biblical model of manhood and now includes testimonials from men--and women--whose lives have been altered by this book.




Why Does He Do That?


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In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft—a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men—uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued, and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship. He says he loves you. So...why does he do that? You’ve asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men—and change your life. In Why Does He Do That? you will learn about: • The early warning signs of abuse • The nature of abusive thinking • Myths about abusers • Ten abusive personality types • The role of drugs and alcohol • What you can fix, and what you can’t • And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely “This is without a doubt the most informative and useful book yet written on the subject of abusive men. Women who are armed with the insights found in these pages will be on the road to recovering control of their lives.”—Jay G. Silverman, Ph.D., Director, Violence Prevention Programs, Harvard School of Public Health




Models


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"You can become irresistibly attractive to women without changing who you are." So says Mark Manson, superstar blogger and author of the international bestseller, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck, a self help book that packs a punch. Mark brings the same approach to teaching men what they need to know about attracting women. In Models he shows us how much it sucks trying to attract women using the tricks and tactics recommended by other books. Instead, he says, men need to focus on seduction as an emotional process not a physical or social one. What matters is the intention, the motivation, the authenticity. To improve your dating life you must improve your emotional life - how you feel about yourself and how you express yourself to others. Funny, irreverent and confronting, Models is a mature and honest guide on how a man can attract women by giving up the bullsh*t and becoming an honest broker. "A detailed guide to modern sexual ethics" Sydney Morning Herald "There's nothing subtle about Mark Manson. He's crude and vulgar and doesn't give a f*ck . . . He's as painfully honest as he is outrageously funny" Huffington Post




Love Has Forgotten No One


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Join Gary Renard, the best-selling author of The Disappearance of the Universe and Your Immortal Reality, for the final installment of his trilogy: a fascinating roller-coaster ride to the mysterious truth behind the modern spiritual masterpiece A Course in Miracles. His teachers, Ascended Masters Arten and Pursah, will take you on a whirlwind tour of the afterlife; teach you a method that will, with practice, melt away all of your past bad karma; and reveal the “missing ingredient” to the popular self-help techniques of today. This book will blow your mind and hand you the key to enlightenment . . . at the same time! In the end, you will discover that, indeed, Love has forgotten no one.




NOT "Just Friends"


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One of the world’s leading experts on infidelity provides a step-by-step guide through the process of infidelity—from suspicion and revelation to healing, and provides profound, practical guidance to prevent infidelity and, if it happens, recover and heal from it. You’re right to be cautious when you hear these words: “I’m telling you, we’re just friends.” Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.