Dating the Older Man


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Some 12 million women have found happiness with older men - and you could be next. Dating the Older Man helps women get over all the judgment that comes with older/younger unions. Written by Dr. Laura Grashow and Dr. Belisa Vranich, the New York Daily News’s “Dear Doctor” columnist, this book deals with everything younger women coupled with older men go through on a daily basis. Complete with case studies and easy-to-reference Q&As, this book is the go-to guide for any younger woman looking to make her romance last.




Older Men's Lives


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The first comprehensive exploration on the subject of older men, Older Men's Lives offers a multidisciplinary portrait of men and their concerns in later life. Using both a life-course and gendered perspective, the contributors to this collection of original articles point out that the image and self-image of men are continuously reconstructed over the life cycle. They examine older men's position in society and the changes wrought in their status and roles over time. Their relationship with their spouses, children, grandchildren, and friends are also explored, as are policy implications of a gendered, life-cycle view of masculinity. This volume also discusses faith development in older men, masculinity identity from work to retirement, older men's sexuality, and older men's friendship patterns. Older Men's Lives will be of interest to professionals and students interested in gender, men's studies, gerontology, and sociology. "This book begins to remedy the lack of information and provides data and research on aging men. . . .The strength of this book is the specificity of its focus. By focusing solely on male concerns the book is able to identify issues in the male aging process and discuss them on their own terms rather than simply as a contrast to females." --Clinical Gerontologist




Younger Women/older Men


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Psychotherapy with Older Men


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Growing older can be a time of great joy and satisfaction for men as they look back on their accomplishments and gain more free time, but it can also be a challenging and distressing experience, especially for those men raised with the very traditional notions of what it means to be a "real man." This book will help practitioners working with older and aging men understand the eras in which these men were raised, how they view the world, the gender role conflicts they experience, and the physical, mental, and emotional challenges and problems they face during the later stages of their lives. The authors discuss theories of masculinity and aging and therapeutic considerations for working with this special population. Making use of many detailed case studies, they explore the psychological issues that are commonly faced by older men, such as depression, anxiety, cognitive impairment, and substance use and abuse, as well as effective screening and assessment techniques, and treatment approaches. They then conclude with a look at the future directions of psychotherapy with older men.




Abuse of Older Men


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Learn the causes of—and consequences from—elder abuse of men For the most part, often only women are considered the victims of elder abuse. However, men are also subject to this disturbing social problem. Abuse of Older Men examines the diverse aspects of this surprisingly widespread issue that includes sexual abuse, abuse by intimates, and benign neglect in the health care field, as well as effective treatment strategies. This unique resource provides the latest research and crucial discussions of why the problem is often invisible, under-studied, and under-treated. Detailed explorations include risk assessment, differential detection of abuse of one gender over the other, the risk of abandonment, economic exploitation, and the issues of older men who had been abused in childhood. In the past, elder abuse literature has—quite correctly—mainly focused on the abuse of women, who represent the majority of older persons. Abuse of Older Men expands the discussion of this distressing social challenge to include the other gender, reviewing the different types of abuse and the reasons why it is not readily apparent in today’s society. This compelling text examines in detail the causes and consequences of elder abuse of men. The under-reporting of abuse is addressed, along with suggestions on ways to better approach various problems. This insightful resource is extensively referenced and provides tables to clearly present data. Issues discussed in Abuse of Older Men include: intimate partner abuse perpetrated against older men sexual abuse of older men in nursing homes the impact of gender on the reporting of elder abuse neglectful aspects of osteoporosis in older men past relationships that increase the risk of the neglect of older fathers news accounts that repost the frequency and types of abuse against men identifying and treating victims societal forces that affect older men’s risk of mistreatment recommendations for structuring services to better meet victim’s needs the social construction of manhood as an important factor in understanding the abuse of older men Abuse of Older Men provides crucial information practitioners, educators, researchers, and students in social work, nursing, medicine, law, gerontology, adult protective services, criminal justice, sociology, psychology, domestic violence, counseling, ethics, public policy, and aging networks.




How To Date Older Men (The Younger Women's Guide)


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ABOUT THE BOOK Michael Douglas shares a birthday with his wife, Catherine Zeta-Jones, and also happens to be 25 years her senior. As plucky, young, unlucky-in-love lawyer Ally McBeal, Calista Flockhart found herself suddenly a small screen star and soon thereafter, the leading lady in Harrison Fords life. He is 22 years older than her. And Beyonces 2008 anthem Single Ladies (Put A Ring On It) served as a how-to guide for bachelorettes everywhere. Perhaps it even helped reel in her rap mogul boyfriend, Jay-Z, to marry her months before the song even debuted. With a 12-year age difference between them, they manage to make it work. Older men and younger women. Long before Hugh Hefner emerged as the poster boy for snapping up all the Pretty Young Things, Men of a Certain Age chased their nubile counterparts. But as with all relationships, it takes more than animal attraction for these types of unions to succeed. If you have the chemistry and compatibility that keeps you enjoying each other in and out of bed and you both want the relationship enough, you bridge the gap and support each other, writes Dr. Laura Grashow on FOX News (Are Older Men "The New Catch?"). MEET THE AUTHOR An obsession with Chicago's vibrant dining and drinking scenes drove Audarshia Townsend to first write for respected publications like Essence, Chicago Reader and the Chicago Defender. And her foray into the online world began as one of the first two editors at metromix.com--where they set the tone for the successful entertainment site's cutting-edge style. She also has written lifestyle features for the Chicago Tribune, Los Angeles Times and Upscale magazine. EXCERPT FROM THE BOOK Of course shes not telling women to fill out an application for Harvard Law School, but showing an interest in world events, politics, the financial sector, or technology could work to the womans advantage. She should pick up a book, read periodicals and websites beyond gossip and fashion, and watch CNN, C-Span, and CNBC. Experts also recommend for her to just listen to him to learn his interests. Theres always the possibility that hes not interested in any of those topics and only wants to talk about NASCAR! The standard nightclub tops the list of places to avoidparticularly for matchmaker Patti Stanger. Older men hanging out where twentysomethings frequent likely suffer from mid-life crisis. Get Used To Him Treating You Differently Than Most Guys Your Age According to experts, mature guys certainly differ from their younger counterparts in that they offer years of experience, and younger women should be prepared for different treatment. Acts of chivalry come natural for most, and a woman seeking or in a relationship with an older man should get used to it, writes relationship expert Dr. Ronn Elmore of Finding Soulmate Success (Opening to Dating Older Men?)... Buy a copy to keep reading! CHAPTER OUTLINE How To Successfully Date Older Men + The Allure of the May-December Romance + So You’re Interested In Dating An Older Man, Now What?! + Common Mistakes To Avoid + Top Five Tips To Successfully Date An Older Man + ...and much more




The Young Woman’s Guide to Older Men


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Not Sure About An Age Gap Relationship? Are you a younger woman who's attracted to older men? Do you find yourself wondering if an age gap relationship is right for you? Look no further than this sizzling new book. In The Young Woman’s Guide you will learn: The one thing successful age gap couples say about their relationship. Why it’s natural for a woman to be drawn to older men. Whether there is an ideal age difference. The best way to tell family and friends about your age gap relationship. In The Young Woman’s Guide, you will hear the voices of flourishing age gap couples, not fictionalized stories, along with proven scientific research. You will also learn: --Is it true young woman with older men “have daddy issues?” --How to know if you should go forward in an age gap relationship. --Warning signs of bad age difference relationships. --Why others may oppose or feel threatened by your relationship. --How to feel comfortable in your own skin about your decision. Let successful couples tell you what it is like. Wayne & Tamara Mitchell are International Relationship Authors, who are also an age gap couple. They want you to feel this about your partner. “We were meant to be together.” Take action now! Pick up your copy today by clicking the Buy Now button .




An Older Man


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Moe Pearlman--once the twenty-something protagonist of Hard--is now over forty, overweight, and going gray. For someone used to being the adorable younger guy chasing after older men, that's not particularly easy. But Moe's whole conception of himself is challenged when he spends Bear Week in Provincetown, an event that brings thousands of mature gay and bi men to the tip of Cape Cod the week after Independence Day to revel and relax. Still singular in his focus and sexual appetites, Moe hopes he'll find a hot older guy and have an intense summer fling. Joining him on vacation is Moe's ex-lover Gene and Gene's new boyfriend Carlos, so Moe has no reason to feel lonely, but when the older objects of Moe's affection start looking right past him in favor of younger rivals, Moe is shaken to the core.




Men, Masculinities, and Aging


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Men, Masculinities, and Aging introduces readers to the gendered nature of aging men’s lives. Edward H. Thompson, noted for his work on men and aging, explores the intersections of ethnicities, class, geographies, generations, and masculinities. The book offers a fresh perspective on men’s experiences with bodily aging, growing older in an ageist society, and navigating the virtual absence of cultural guidelines for being an aging man. The book also provides a sociological theory framework on how men navigate their social aging as they experience later life and very late life. Turning points such as grandfathering, the changeover from work to retirement, and the onset of health problems or becoming a career are discussed at length as Thompson frames these natural occurrences as now ordinary experiences as aging masculinities are no longer rarities. The book will provide educators, students, researchers, and practitioners a means to question standard assumptions about aging men and discuss what underlies most later-life masculinities.




Beware of Older Men


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