Outgrowing the Pain


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“Anyone who had a troubled childhood ought to read this book.”—Anne H. Cohn, D.P.H., Executive Director, National Committee for Prevention of Child Abuse Do you have trouble finding friends, lovers, acquaintances? Once you find them, do they dump on you, take advantage of you, or leave? Are you in a relationship you know isn't good for you? Are you still trying to figure out what you want to do when you grow up? Are you drinking too much, eating too much or trying to numb your pain with drugs of any kind? These are just a few of the problems abused children experience when they become adults. You may not realize you were abused. You may think your parents didn't mean it, didn't know better, or that others had it much worse. You may not even have made the connection between the past and your current problems. Outgrowing the Pain is an important book for any adult who was abused or neglected in childhood. It's an important book for professionals who help others. It's a book of questions that can pinpoint and illuminate destructive patterns. The answers you discover can lead to a life filled with new insight, hope, and love. “The best book available to help survivors cope and understand.”—Dan Sexton, Director, Childhelp's National Abuse Hotline “An invaluable aid for adult survivors of child abuse.”—Suzanne M. Sgroi, M.D., Executive Director, New England Clinical Associates




Healing the Harm Done


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THE PURPOSE: To answer the questions and address the concerns of parents whose children have been sexually abused, including information about obtaining appropriate therapy and dealing with parents' own emotional concerns. Internet resources are also provided. SPANISH EDITION ALSO INCLUDED: This book contains a full Spanish-language version as well as the English version. Specialized Internet links to Spanish-language websites are included in the Spanish test. Links for the Website of "Healing the Harm Done" Links to Resources Cited in the Book American Psychological Association www.apa.org National Register of Health Service Providers in Psychology www.nationalregister.org National Organization for Victim Assistance www.try-nova.org Alcoholics Anonymous, Al-Anon, and Ala-Teen www.aa.org Association for the Treatment of Sexual Abusers www.atsa.com MegaSkills (parenting and school achievement information) www.MegaSkillshsi.org National Organization on Male Sexual Victimization www.malesurvivor.org Effective Learning Systems (source for "Self Image for Children" relaxation audiotape) www.efflearn.com Enlaces en español American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (varios temas de interés) www.aacap.org/publications/apntsFam/index.htm (abuso sexual) www.aacap.org/publications/apntsFam/sexabuse.htm Arte Sano Recursos para sobrevivientes de la violación y la violencia sexual que buscan ayuda en español) www.arte-sana.com/recursos.htm Recursos para toda la familia www.familymanagement.com/facts/spanish/apuntes28.html Diez razones para no emplear castigo corporal www.familymanagement.com/espanol/razones.htm I Información del Dpto. de Educación de EE.UU. www.ed.gov/espanol/parents/academic/tareaescolar/tareaescolar.doc www.ed.gov/espanol/parents/academic/preescolar/part_pg9.html El sitio web de Centro Nacional de Salud Mental y Educación www.naspcenter.org/espanol/retencion.html Changing the FACE of Child Mental Health - New York City www.aboutourkids.org/aboutour/articulos_espanol.html Consejo para padres www.eduplace.com/parents/rdg/sp_succeed.html Texas Association Against Sexual Assault www.taasa.org/esp New York Online Access to Health (NOAH) www.noah-health.org/es/mental/disorders/violence Alianza Latina Nacional para Erradicar la Violencia Domestica www.dvalianza.org El Hogar de mi Hermana (My Sister's Place) Washington, D.C. www.mysistersplacedc.org/spanish/aboutussp.asp Centro de Mujeres del Area de Houston www.hawc.org Sitio del Albergue para Mujeres Maltratadas, Naples, Florida www.naplesshelter.org/spanish/index.htm Washington Coalition of Sexual Assault Programs (WCSAP) www.wcsap.org Alcoholicos Anónimos www.aa.org




Overcoming Childhood Sexual Trauma


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Go beyond the pain and fear of sexual abuse to heal the trauma Childhood sexual abuse (CSA) can be a physically and emotionally painful soul-shattering experience that can traumatize a person for a lifetime. The Wall of Fear: Crossing the Wall from Trauma to Recovery from Childhood Sexual Abuse is a unique exploration of the subjective experiences of both client and therapist as they together travel the path to recovery. Therapists get a clear illustration of the therapy process while CSA survivors are offered a gauge with which to judge their own progress toward recovery. New therapeutic concepts are clearly presented and extensively discussed while sensitively charting the experiences of clients on the journey toward healing. As Winston Churchill once said, If you’re going through hell, keep going. The Wall of Fear charts the arduous progress of a survivor from the initial understanding that they need help and guidance, to choosing the correct therapist, to the emotional roadblocks most clients face on their own personal recovery from the hell of CSA. The authors team up to courageously provide readers with a comprehensive and candid portrait of their experiences of CSA therapy while demonstrating the approaches which effectively enhance healing. Features include schematic drawings of the stages of therapy, the client’s own diary from her youth through her therapy in adulthood, client drawings illustrating progress in therapy, and effective art exercises that can be used at the beginning of therapy. The text includes extensive references, useful appendixes, and a helpful glossary of terms for the layperson. Topics in The Wall of Fear include: the nature of sexual trauma (the new concept of the World of Trauma) growing up traumatizedand its effect on friendships, sexual development, dating, and mate selection couples’ relationships and sexuality selecting a therapist the new concept of The Wall of Fear closure coping with the therapy process parenting by CSA survivors and the impact on the next generation the subjective experiences of both therapist and CSA survivor The Wall of Fear stands as a testament that no matter what sexual trauma a person may endure, there is hope for recovery. This is insightful, crucial reading for survivors of CSA and therapists at all levels of expertise.




Running on Empty


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A large segment of the population struggles with feelings of being detached from themselves and their loved ones. They feel flawed, and blame themselves. Running on Empty will help them realize that they're suffering not because of something that happened to them in childhood, but because of something that didn't happen. It's the white space in their family picture, the background rather than the foreground. This will be the first self-help book to bring this invisible force to light, educate people about it, and teach them how to overcome it.




Healing from the Trauma of Childhood Sexual Abuse


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The traumatic affects of childhood sexual abuse can remain and recur throughout life for women who have not healed emotionally. This book by a family therapist shares stories from 18 women abused as children, explaining that healing can occur at any stage of life, and that healing, itself, occurs in stages. The author offers guidance to recognize the long-lingering potential affects of childhood sexual abuse including depression, anxiety, dissociation, and chronic shock, and she explains steps to take for recovery. Also presented are letters from women who have healed or are in recovery. Sexual abuse by men, juveniles, and female perpetrators is discussed, as is how children may act out the abusive behavior taught by perpetrators. The incidence of abuse by family members is also addressed. Duncan explains the dual dilemma—moral and legal—that women face in exposing a sexual perpetrator within the family when not protected by the legal system due to statutes of limitations. She also discusses controversial topics including false memory and disclosure of memory to the perpetrator.




Child Neglect


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Overcoming Childhood Trauma


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This book will help the sufferer understand the links between past trauma and present difficulties and offers ways to gain control over these problems, allowing the individual to deal with intrusive memories, manage mood swings and build better relationships in adulthood.




The Courage to Heal


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Based on the experiences of hundreds of child abuse survivors, The Courage to Heal profiles victims who share the challenges and triumphs of their personal healing processes. Inspiring and comprehensive, it offers mental, emotional and physical support to all people who are in the process of rebuilding their lives. The Courage to Heal offers hope, encouragement and practical advice to every woman who was sexually abused as a child and answers some vital questions, including: -How do I know if I was sexually abused? -Where does the decision to heal start? -How can I break the silence and who will listen? -How can I re-build my self-esteem, intimacy and capacity to love? -What therapy, support groups, self-help programmes or organisations are available?




Think Unbroken


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The impact of childhood trauma and abuse can forever alter the course of history. Throughout generations, countless children have been hurt by those that are meant to care for them. Yet, in society once those children turn to adults the impacts of child abuse are often discounted and spoken to with the frame of 'that was years ago" or "it's time to get over it." The reality is that we are at the core a collection of all of our experiences leading up to this very moment. If the childhood trauma survivor's foundation is built atop a volcano, then sooner or later it will be engulfed. Childhood trauma and abuse is the elephant in the room of societies mental health epidemic, and most people don't know how to understand the role that trauma has played in their life.When I sat down to craft the baseline of The Think Unbroken book, I did so intending to create something that would be a testimony to the undeniable will of the human mindset. For generations, the world has been plagued by the ramifications of the effects of Child Trauma, and like millions of childhood trauma survivors, I was stuck in The Vortex. My life in a word was a disaster. I was an addict of undeniable proportions, I was morbidly obese and suffocating under the weight of my past. Think Unbroken is not only a guide to helping other Trauma Survivors find their way out of The Vortex, but it is also the cornerstone to how I changed my life. I am, in essence, a product of my product, and I believe that Think Unbroken is the key to taking the first steps in overcoming the effects of childhood trauma.This book will expose you to possibility through mindset, palatable understandings of self, and a step by step guide to discovering out how to place the first piece of the puzzle on the table. What you will find in Think Unbroken is not just my story, but a reflection of the possibilities that can become a reality when you understand that Mindset is Everything. Childhood trauma took everything from me, but I took everything back, and so can you."THOUGH TRAUMA MAY BE OUR FOUNDATION IT IS NOT OUR FUTURE."




Overcoming Child Abuse


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Published in 2000. Child abuse is endemic, it comes in many forms and its categories are not closed. This book looks at responses to aspects of child abuse in all five continents. The definitions are different, though not all that different, the legal emphases vary and so do management techniques. This book reveals the importance of culture and structure in the commitment to eradicate the problem.