Overcoming The Impostor


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Offering entrepreneurs and leaders a practical look at “impostor syndrome,” leadership consultant Kris Kelso explores that inner voice that downplays our own accomplishments while amplifying those of others. Kris gives readers powerful tools needed to expose The Impostor’s methods and emerge as more effective and confident leaders. Of the many challenges successful entrepreneurs and business leaders face, none may be as damaging or difficult to conquer as silencing their worst critics—their own negative nagging inner voices. If you’re a leader, innovator, or entrepreneur who’s ever told yourself … “I’m not supposed to be here …” “I only got lucky; but that leader has the real talent … ” “I don’t deserve an award. It should go to that other person …” “One of these days, everyone’s going to figure out that I’m in over my head …” … then you’ve met The Impostor who denigrates your own competencies while praising those of others. But, The Impostor’s voice doesn’t have to dominate your life or hold you back any longer from reaching your goals. Dealing with The Impostor is a mind game that you can win! In Overcoming the Impostor, Kris Kelso breaks down how founders and leaders can recognize impostor syndrome in their own lives. He gives practical ideas for silencing their inner critics and offers attainable solutions for effectively overcoming and defeating The Impostor. With reflection questions at the end of each chapter and practical how-to tips, Overcoming the Impostor gives you the tools and techniques to: Change your thinking and lead with confidence Disarm the inner critic and silence the nagging voice inside your head Shift your perspective on what defines failure Identify when The Impostor has been at work in your life and career in the past Manage effectively The Impostor’s appearance in the future See how The Impostor makes you feel unique for all the wrong reasons Understand how The Impostor leads you to self sabotage Recognize how fear of failure, not asking for help, and comparing yourself to others invites The Impostor’s influence Understand how community and vulnerability play vital roles in helping you succeed Use the 3 Ps—Progress, Passion, and Purpose—to define your success Create ten new habits that will help you overcome The Impostor Freeing yourself from the influence of The Impostor is not a one-time event; it’s an ongoing effort. You have to change the way that you think, make some conscious decisions that are not natural or comfortable, and step forward even when you’d rather stay in the background. Overcoming the Impostor is a practical guide for starting your journey toward freedom from the beliefs that hold you back and keep you down. It’s time to embrace the clarity and confidence needed to change your life and take your career to the next level.




The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women


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Learn to take ownership of your success, overcome self-doubt, and banish the thought patterns that undermine your ability to feel—and act—as bright and capable as others already know you are with this award-winning book by Valerie Young. It’s only because they like me. I was in the right place at the right time. I just work harder than the others. I don’t deserve this. It’s just a matter of time before I am found out. Someone must have made a terrible mistake. If you are a working woman, chances are this inter­nal monologue sounds all too familiar. And you’re not alone. From the high-achieving Ph.D. candidate convinced she’s only been admitted to the program because of a clerical error to the senior executive who worries others will find out she’s in way over her head, a shocking number of accomplished women in all ca­reer paths and at every level feel as though they are faking it—impostors in their own lives and careers. While the impostor syndrome is not unique to women, women are more apt to agonize over tiny mistakes, see even constructive criticism as evi­dence of their shortcomings, and chalk up their accomplishments to luck rather than skill. They often unconsciously overcompensate with crippling perfec­tionism, overpreparation, maintaining a lower pro­file, withholding their talents and opinions, or never finishing important projects. When they do succeed, they think, Phew, I fooled ’em again. An internationally known speaker, Valerie Young has devoted her career to understanding women’s most deeply held beliefs about themselves and their success. In her decades of in-the-trenches research, she has uncovered the often surprising reasons why so many accomplished women experience this crushing self-doubt. In The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women, Young gives these women the solution they have been seek­ing. Combining insightful analysis with effective ad­vice and anecdotes, she explains what the impostor syndrome is, why fraud fears are more common in women, and how you can recognize the way it mani­fests in your life.




Overcoming Imposter Anxiety


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Start living with greater courage, confidence, and authenticity! Do you ever worry that you aren’t good enough or capable enough, despite your many accomplishments? Have you achieved high levels of success, yet still feel as though you’re just “faking it?” If so, you might be dealing with imposter anxiety—a persistent fear of being exposed as a fraud, even in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. Remember, you are not alone. Too often, highly talented individuals allow imposter anxiety to distort their views of themselves. So, how can you embrace your boundless potential and forge ahead with confidence? In Overcoming Imposter Anxiety, you’ll find strategies grounded in liberation psychology and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to help you stand up to self-doubt, alleviate fear of failure, and live with authenticity. You’ll also identify the root cause of your self-sabotaging behaviors, and shift your mindset to honor your achievements and affirm your strengths. If you’re ready to move beyond self-limiting beliefs and start living life with greater courage and self-worth, this book will help guide you, step by step. Discover tools to help you: Manage self-doubting thoughts and feelings Overcome your fear of failure Leverage your unique qualities Build an encouraging support network




Own Your Greatness


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Stop letting impostor syndrome hold you back! This guided workbook of interactive exercises and research-backed activities will help you conquer self-doubt, realize your true worth, and enjoy your success. How many times have you thought that everyone is crushing it except you? How often have you looked at one of your accomplishments and attributed it to luck or the help of others? It can be difficult to acknowledge our own successes and skills, and overcome the feeling of being an impostor. But moving past that feeling is crucial to continuing down the path to even greater success and happiness. Own Your Greatness will give you all the tools you need to recognize and overcome the impostor syndrome that is holding you back. Packed full of research- and therapy-backed exercises, prompts, and activities, this interactive workbook will help you: Identify the root causes of your impostor syndrome Recognize your natural skills and strengths Gain the confidence to lead Speak up for yourself Feel comfortable receiving and giving praise With this book, you’ll acknowledge the skills you bring to the table, understand that you truly deserve your success, and take steps to a successful, happy, and fulfilled life.




Pretty Weird


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A series of true stories that are at once relatable, funny, and heart-wrenching, join lauded writer Marissa Miller on a journey of battling imposter syndrome and learning to be proud to stand out. Acclaimed writer and editor Marissa Miller was born into what you would call a nice Jewish family. But she somehow grew into anything but a Nice Jewish Girl. From openly discussing any and all bodily functions with whoever would listen, to encouraging her peers to join her in undressing in the hallways at school for no reason other than to fight the oppressive institution of modern academia, she was continuously scolded by members of the Jewish community for exploring her identity and pushing the boundaries of what a “nice girl” is allowed to do. To make sense of being the odd one out, she did what any confused teenager would do: she wrote. She wrote poems on MySpace, articles for her school newspaper, extra credit English assignments to compensate for her complete and utter lack of math skills, and eventually, reported pieces for many of the world’s most prestigious media publications. But the transition to a lucrative journalism career didn’t come without is growing pains. Getting anywhere past the school newspaper stage and being asked to provide journalism lectures around the city inspired a sense of panic, dread, and most notably, impostor syndrome—the sense that success is a product of coincidence and luck as opposed to hard work and talent. No fellow journalists she idolized growing up seemed to have had a history of behavior so crude it would make your Rabbi blush. Surely, the Universe was thisclose to taking everything away from her. And to some extent, it did. In Pretty Weird—a series of true stories that are at once relatable, funny, and heart-wrenching—you’ll learn about why, like Miller, you’re worthy of success by virtue of you thinking you’re not, about why there’s no such thing as being “not sick enough” to deserve help, and that living in that liminal space of being too normal to stand out, yet too weird to fit in, is truly where all the magic happens.




The Impostor Phenomenon


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Imposter Syndrome


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If you are tired of feeling like a fraud, tired of doubting yourself and ready to own your achievements, then keep reading... Imposter syndrome is a pattern of behavior where people doubt their accomplishments. Many successful people feel like complete frauds and that their accomplishments are the result of luck. It is estimated that 70% of the United States population suffers from the imposter phenomenon. A lack of self-confidence, doubting yourself, anxiety, feelings of inadequacy, negative self-talk, not feeling good enough and dwelling on past mistakes are all signs of imposter syndrome, which can affect all types of people, including successful people, men and women of all ages, races, and orientations. There isn't one single answer to why people experience imposter syndrome, but it feeds on your deepest fears and knows your doubts. If you don't know the signs, it can negatively impact your professional and personal life. Turn self-criticism into an asset, discover why capable people suffer from imposter syndrome and how to thrive in spite of it. Escape the mind-trap, build confidence and finally feel 'good enough'. You can stop self-sabotaging and learn how to express your true self. Your limiting beliefs shouldn't stop you from achieving your goals. Once you learn how to change your mindset, you will be able to improve your self-esteem and get what you want. This book will cover: Different types of imposter syndrome Real-life examples and stories of people Tests to perform self-analysis and discover signs of imposter syndrome Exercises to help you regain your power and confidence Group activities Strategies and practical solutions to help overcome imposter syndrome Even if you lack confidence and are feeling down, don't run away! This book will give you the tools and easy steps you need in order to develop confidence in your daily life. You can start taking steps to change your life from the comfort of your home! If you want to feel strong and confident If you are ready to leave doubt and fear behind If you are ready to own everything that you deserve and have achieved... Then scroll up and press the 'Buy Now' button to start making positive changes. Do you want better value for your money? With every paperback, you will receive a free eBook copy!




Be Mighty


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You are stronger than your anxiety—you are mighty. In this empowering guide, you’ll find practical tools to help you shed the shackles of worry and fear and embrace a more vibrant life. In a culture where women are still paid less for doing the same jobs, expected to juggle family and career effortlessly, and faced with the harsh realities of misogyny and sexism daily, it’s no wonder you’re also twice as likely to experience issues related to anxiety and trauma. But there are real tools you can use now to build personal resilience in a difficult world, move past anxious thoughts, and conquer your worries and fears. This book will help guide the way. Be Mighty leads you on a bold quest to gain a deeper understanding of your anxiety by exploring your own “origin story”—how your early experiences led to thoughts and behaviors that may have offered comfort and protection at one time, but are now keeping you from living your best life. Using practical tools and experiential exercises based in mindfulness and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), you’ll learn to respond to present-day triggers in a new way, making choices from a more conscious, values-driven place. So, drop that outdated armor and dive headlong into this book. You’ll emerge fresh and fierce, with the confidence to stand up for the life you want to live and the power to face life’s complexities as your best, most authentic self. It’s time to be who you truly want to be. It’s time for you to be mighty!




Imposter Syndrome: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome With Courage and Clarity (Techniques for Overcoming Imposter Syndrome and Live the Life of Your Dreams)


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This book will not turn you into a perfect human being who’s free of self-doubt, anxiety, insecurity, or fear. That would be unrealistic given how our brain works. Rather, this book serves as a roadmap for real behavioral change, a new way of acting in which you manage your life according to your own values and what’s important to you without feeling trapped by your most troubling thoughts. Feelings of unworthiness, lack of confidence, and the constant self-doubting that once appeared as obstacles in your life will now serve as a source of creativity, inspiration, and insight. Discover powerful strategies: • Overcoming impostor syndrome: uncover the deceptive grip of impostor syndrome and master proven strategies to recognize, challenge, and conquer it. • Fear mastery techniques: explore three essential techniques for mastering fear and propelling yourself toward a purpose-driven career. • Harmonizing passions with purpose: align your passions with your career using five powerful methods for enduring success. • Crafting your purpose-driven career: follow four transformative steps to craft a career that aligns with your authentic self. This book isn't just another self-help guide. It's a claims-free, toolbox packed with practical strategies, compelling stories, and transformative exercises. Remember, the voice of self-doubt doesn't have to dictate the course of your life. You can choose to drown it once and for all and step into the glorious power that you've always had inside you.




The Imposter Cure


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