Guide to BDSM


Book Description

You or your partner are fascinated by BDSM, but don't know how and where to start? Everything you need to know, you will find it in this book. Most of what people think about BDSM, is wrong. In reality BDSM is not degrading women or men and you will also understand that it's not as obscure as you think. And also the concept of "pain" we are talking about is not what people think. You will also understand that having the role of the Dom is not just about having pleasure, on the contrary, the Dom has the role of giving pleasure and discipline to the submissive. He must have pleasure in giving pleasure and not simply receiving what he wants. This book is intended for both Dominant and Submissive training. It's also perfect for those who haven't experience in this world. This is a taste of what you will find in this book: What is BDSM and Why? Introducing BDSM to your Partner What is Domination and Submission 8 Tips on how to get Started in BDSM 7 Mistakes New Submissives Make 10 must-have BDSM Toys for Beginners Bondage play Punishments Examples Types of Consents: SSC vs RACK Dominance Techniques Role-Play types SAFE WORDS: how to Choose them and why After reading this book you will have made your sex life richer and your partner will beg you for more. So... Scroll up, click the buy now button and get your copy of "Guide to BDSM" ! Check also the others "Sex Life Tips" books: 1 - Art of Seduction: Boost your Sexual Intelligence Learning How to Flirt with Techniques of Verbal Communication, Signal and Understand a Sex Desire for Woman and Man 2 - DIRTY TALK LANGUAGE: How to Learn with Examples of Phrases of Lust to Have a Great Sex with Your Man or Woman, Make It Wilder and Drive Your Partner Crazy 3 - Sex Games for Couples: Ways to Spice up your Relationship with Hot Quiz, Games and Sexy Conversation 4 - Guide to BDSM: to Have a Healthy and Mindful Dom / Sub Relationship, with Techniques of Dominance and How to be a Good Submissive for your Master




Dom's Guide to Bdsm


Book Description

"'Dom's Guide to BDSM" was specifically written for Doms/Masters. In Volume 3 of this series, we/re going to focus on advanced techniques that will set you apart from the fake/novice doms/masters who are just looking for someone to abuse. After finishing reading this book, you will be fully equipped to be the best Dom you can be. You will have complete dominance over your sub, and also have the option of helping to transform the sub sub into becoming the better version of herself that she really wants to be. Your knowledge as a disciplinarian, a Master, a dominant, an Alpha and a teacher, will always be a commodity and a great value that subs will find very attractive. You will be a true Master that any sub will respect & admire."--Back cover.




Submissive's Guide To BDSM Vol. 2


Book Description

Being a sub means this BDSM game is really all about your pleasure. The Dom’s goal is to provide you with the pleasure you crave and send you to a higher level of eroticism through very intensive sessions of bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism. During volume 1 we talked about trust; finding a Dom you can trust and one that meets your high standards. In this book, we are going to explain how you as a sub can develop a criteria for your Dom and ensure that each session is going to be enjoyable. Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 2 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM": - What is your "Ideal Scene"... - How and what you should tell your Dom, when he creates the scene... - How to create a mutually beneficial relationship with your Dom... - Etiquette on being a sub for the first time... - How to enjoy the pain as a sub... - How to work with multiple Doms... - How to reach a whole zenith of pleasure... - How to make your vanilla spouse enjoy BDSM with you... - And much more...




Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 1


Book Description

Much of what we’ve “heard” about BDSM and the lifestyle is wrong. Our opinions on this lifestyle and art form are oftentimes shaped by other people who have heard something about it and perhaps embellished it to the point of perpetuating myths. The truth is that BDSM is not degrading towards women, and it’s also a concept that you will find is not “scary.” And even the “pain” that is spoken of is not the type of pain people think it is. This book is written for Doms/Masters in training. It is written for you, the average guy or gal, who doesn’t already have a closet full of leather and whips, and who really has little idea about what BDSM is besides what they’ve heard about it. What you are going to find out, is that the Dom/Master actually has the more complicated role. The master has the task of giving pleasure and discipline to the slave or sub. A great deal of what you do as a Dom will be for the benefit of a sub. You must derive pleasure from giving, have a great desire to please a partner, and not simply take what you want. Still interested? Good. Now that we know you’re a REAL master in training, one that will respect the rules, respect the slave you have power over, and follow protocol, you can begin your Dom training. Only then can you truly earn the utmost respect and admiration from your sub. In Volume 1 of this series we are going to discuss: - How to think and act like a Dom - What the slave expects from you - What not to do and what instincts you do NOT want to follow - Your motivation and your goals - How to find out a sub’s taboo - How to negotiate, find agreement and ensure that game play is always safe - How to make a slave yearn for you and desire to be controlled by you - And much more...




Submissive's Guide to Bdsm


Book Description

Being a sub means this BDSM game is really all about your pleasure. The Dom's goal is to provide you with the pleasure you crave and send you to a higher level of eroticism through very intensive sessions of bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism. During volume 1 we talked about trust; finding a Dom you can trust and one that meets your high standards. In this book, we are going to explain how you as a sub can develop a criteria for your Dom and ensure that each session is going to be enjoyable. Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 2 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM": What is your "Ideal Scene"--How and what you should tell your Dom, when he creates the scene --- How to create a mutually beneficial relationship with your Dom --- Etiquette on being a sub for the first time --- How to enjoy the pain as a sub --- How to work with multiple Doms --- How to reach a whole zenith of pleasure --- How to make your vanilla spouse enjoy BDSM with you --- And much more.




Submissive Training


Book Description

Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential. "Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life. Rushing into a relationship or service contract with a Dom without training puts the future of your time together at risk. All of the arguments, resistance, misunderstandings and hurt feelings that go with a new submissive’s experiences can be eradicated by a period designated for learning, listening, trial and error. Even if you have been with a previous Dom you will need to go through an abbreviated training time to ensure your patterns and understandings match one another. Training is a way to “get in the same rhythm” and find the perfect groove. If you are a Dom, this guide is the perfect gift to give to your new sub. If you are a sub, this guide will teach you how to go through your submissive training. As you go through these things on the journey to become the woman you were made to be, you will be tested but you will also be proud, joyful and, perhaps for the first time in your life, you will be at peace.




Submissive's Guide to BDSM Volume 1


Book Description

What does it really mean to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or Master, or "Top." However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don't understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience.That's what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle.Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 1 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM":- Why you want to experience punishment...- The science of pain & pleasure...- Type of Doms to beware of...- How to pick the right Dom just for you...- How to protect yourself from wannabe Doms and predators...- The right way to explore taboo fantasies in BDSM...- Type of limits and when & how to use them...- How to communicate with your Dom...- Common mistakes new subs make...- How to "train" your Master...- How to "fire" your Dom if it's not working out...- And much more...




Submissive's Guide to Bdsm


Book Description

"What does it really man to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or master, or "Top." However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don't understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience. That's what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle."--Back cover.




Dom's Guide To Submissive Training


Book Description

A Dom/sub relationship doesn’t just happen. It is a finely crafted and designed system of expectations and joys. In order for you and your submissive lady to “fit” one another and create a lasting, happy union there must be a period of training. It does not matter if your sub has thirty years of experience in submission or just read 50 Shades of Grey and decided to try it herself. She will need to be trained for the best relationship to emerge. "Dom's Guide to Submissive Training" was specifically written for doms/masters. It is designed to provide you with a step-by-step blueprint on how to train your new sub. It goes from preparation all the way down to the closing ceremony including advanced techniques & tips. Training can be one of the most exciting, challenging and fun parts of the relationship. A well-trained sub will not only serve you in the capacity you deserve, but will have built up the two most important elements in any BDSM relationship – trust and consistency. Following the instructions in this guide will allow you to show yourself as a worthy master, who is in control, experienced and able to guide you both to the best possible life.




Submissive's Guide To BDSM Vol. 3


Book Description

One thing we can all agree on in our “safe, sane and consensual” lifestyle is that punishment must feel good. Pain must ultimately be pleasurable. And any sort of masochism or sadism must work in the context of pleasing the sub. In BDSM culture, it seems relatively easy to get the hang of the attitude, the behavior and the words. But in terms of logistics, as in how to properly discipline or punish a sub, things do get a bit more complicated. And that’s why we’re devoting this entire book on how to play right and how to punish the sub so that she likes it, rather than the Dom abusing her and violating trust—the ultimate sin in the game of discipline. We’re also going to cover some of the more “fringe” topics of BDSM, including health risks, extreme pain, unique psychological states and how you as a sub can protect yourself. This will be of crucial interest to you as a sub or switch or Dom, since it’s best to understand the logistics and motivations of both roles before you fully submit. You may also discover that as you take precautions and grow in knowledge, more extreme practices may appeal to you. At the very least, you will always know what a Dom means by some of these code words and what they imply sexually or in punishment. It’s always a good idea to stay informed and never take chances—never assume anything! Because in BDSM, assuming anything of your Dom can be a big mistake. To get truly healthy and pleasurable BDSM experience, these are the topics you surely don't want to miss!