The ADHD Marriage Workbook: A User-Friendly Guide to Improving Your Relationship


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"The ADHD Marriage Workbook: A User-Friendly Guide for Improving Your Romantic Relationship" If you are one of the millions of people with adult attention deficit disorder, you ve probably noticed its adverse effects on your romantic relationships. For example, your spontaneity, which was so attractive at the start of your relationship, may later seem like a lack of dependability, straining the patience of your partner. Or maybe your partner is frustrated by your inability to communicate clearly. Or perhaps you suspect that your irritability and lack of interest in your partner s needs are the result of the difficulty you have staying focused. Psychotherapist Michael Bell understands. A professional counselor specializing in adult ADD, Bell has the disorder himself and has designed the skills-building steps in "The ADHD Marriage Workbook" especially for short attention spans. This concise and engaging workbook contains an array of solution- focused techniques that will help you stop avoiding the problems that sabotage your relationships, face the intimacy issues that frustrate your partner, and begin to do the work you need to do to build a happy, lasting love. Michael T. Bell, Ph.D., has been in private mental health practice since 1999, working primarily with adults and children with ADHD spectrum disorders. In "The ADHD Marriage Workbook, " he draws on his clinical experience as well as his personal history as an adult with ADD, helping him to develop the most useful and practical exercises. His goal in writing this workbook has been to help couples affected by ADHD spectrum disorders develop fulfilling relationships. Michael currently serves as the director of child, family, and prevention services at Rockbridge Community Services in Lexington, Virginia, and is adjunct professor of psychology at Northern Virginia Community College. He has been married to his wonderful wife, Anita since 1993. They live in Stafford, Virginia, with their two boys, Brady and Brice. "(The ADHD Marriage Workbook was originally published as You, Your Relationship and Your ADD)" "




The Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHD


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"More and more often, adults are realizing that the reason they are struggling so much in their relationship is that they are impacted by previously undiagnosed adult ADHD. The Couple's Guide to Thriving with ADHD gives concrete answers and strategies to those suffering from adult ADHD that couples can immediately use to improve their relationships. This book addresses questions from both ADHD and non-ADHD partners and provides straightforward advice arranged in a way that makes it easy to find the specific answers couples seek. It covers topics that include diagnosing adult ADHD, how to begin bringing about changes, communication techniques, dealing with anger and frustration, and rebuilding intimacy in a relationship. Part reference manual and part cheerleader, this is the go-to book for couples struggling with ADHD who want to actively work to improve their relationships"--




ADHD After Dark


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This pioneering book explores the impact of ADHD on a couple’s sex life and relationship. It explains how a better sex life will benefit your relationship (and vice versa) and why that’s especially important for couples with one partner with ADHD. Grounded in innovative research, ADHD After Dark draws on data from a survey of over 3000 adults in a couple where one partner has ADHD. Written from the author’s unique perspective as both an expert in ADHD and a certified sex therapist, the book describes the many effects of ADHD on couples’ sex lives and happiness, covering areas such as negotiating sexual differences, performance problems, low desire, porn, making time for sex, infidelity, and more. The book outlines key principles for a great sex life for couples with ADHD and offers strategies and treatment interventions where specific issues arise. Written in a readable and entertaining style, ADHD After Dark offers clear information on sexuality and relationships and is full of valuable advice on how to improve both. This guide will be an essential read for adults with ADHD, as well as their partners or spouses, and therapists who work with ADHD clients and couples.




Married to Distraction


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Are you more distant from your spouse than you’d like to be? Do you or your spouse waste time mindlessly viewing email or surfing the Web? Welcome to the club! Modern marriage is busy, distracted, and overloaded to extremes, with ever-increasing lists of things to do, superficial electronic connections, and interrupted moments. The good news is that there are straightforward and effective ways to restore communication and connection, resurrect happiness and romance, and strengthen—even save—a marriage. • Observe the natural sequence of sustaining love: attention, time, connection, and play. • Develop and nurture empathy—the essential building block to healthy communication. • Carve out small moments of uninterrupted attention for each other. • Identify the pressures that our crazybusy lifestyles put on love and marriage, and fight back with tenderness and appreciation. Complete with scripts, tips, communication techniques, and a detailed 30-day reconnection plan, as well as inspiring real-life stories, Married to Distraction will set couples on a course of understanding, healing, and love.




Understand Your Brain, Get More Done


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Offers solutions for parents and teachers such as how to help students with short attention spans and how to reduce disruptive behavior. Copyright © Libri GmbH. All rights reserved.




Wired for Love


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"Invaluable for so many partners looking to reconnect and grow closer together." —Gwyneth Paltrow, founder and CEO of goop "Stan Tatkin can be entirely followed into the towering infernos of our most painful relationship challenges." —Alanis Morissette, artist, activist, and wholeness advocate The complete “insider’s guide” to understanding your partner’s brain, sparking lasting connection, and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust—now with more than 170,000 copies sold. “What the heck is my partner thinking?” “Why do they always react like this?” “How can we get back that connection we had in the beginning?” If you’ve ever asked yourself these questions, you aren’t alone, and it doesn’t mean that your relationship is doomed. Every person is wired for love differently—with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people’s minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and routines, making it possible to neurologically prime the brain for greater love and connection and fewer conflicts. This go-to guide will show you how. Drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this highly anticipated second edition of Wired for Love presents cutting-edge research on how and why love lasts, and offers ten guiding principles that can improve any relationship. This fully revised and updated edition also includes new guidance on how to manage disagreements, as well as new exercises to help you create a sense of safety and security, establish healthy conflict ground rules, and deal with the threat of the third—any outside source which threatens the harmony in your relationship, including in-laws, alcohol, children, and affairs. You’ll find proven-effective strategies to help you strengthen your relationship by: Creating and maintaining a safe “couple bubble” Using morning and evening routines to stay connected Learning how to see your partner’s point of view Meeting each other halfway in a fight Becoming the expert on what makes your partner feel loved By using simple gestures and words, you’ll learn to put out emotional fires and help your partner feel appreciated and loved. You’ll also discover how to move past a “warring brain” mentality and toward a more cooperative “loving brain.” Most importantly, you’ll gain a better understanding of the complex dynamics at work behind love and trust in intimate relationships. While there’s no doubt that love is an inexact science, if you understand how you and your partner are wired differently, you can overcome your differences, and create a lasting intimate connection.




Taking Charge of Adult ADHD


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For adults with ADHD, problems with attention, planning, problem solving, and controlling emotions can make daily life an uphill battle. Fortunately, effective help is out there. No one is a better guide to how to get the best care—and what sufferers can do for themselves—than renowned ADHD researcher/clinician Russell A. Barkley. Dr. Barkley provides step-by-step strategies for managing symptoms and reducing their harmful impact. Readers get hands-on self-assessment tools and skills-building exercises, plus clear answers to frequently asked questions about medications and other treatments. Specific techniques are presented for overcoming challenges in critical areas where people with the disorder often struggle—work, finances, relationships, and more. Finally, an authoritative one-stop resource for adults with ADHD who are ready to take back their lives. See also Dr. Barkley's bestselling resource on childhood ADHD, Taking Charge of ADHD, Third Edition: The Complete, Authoritative Guide for Parents.




More Attention, Less Deficit


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A guidebook designed for adults with ADHD reviews the history of the disorder and its symptoms, and provides evidence-based treatments.




ADHD Workbook for Adults


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If you want to know about different strategies to bring your ADHD symptoms under control, then keep reading... Looking for a comprehensive guide to help you through different daily challenges of ADHD? Then you are in the right place because this book is a complete encyclopedia of everything that you need to know about ADHD in adults. It not only includes all the latest findings in this field but also talks about some unique perspectives. Several of the popular questions have been addressed in this book. We all know that ADHD patients are unable to maintain a sustained focus on anything they do, but why does that happen? In this book, you will get to know the answers to several such unanswered questions. You will also learn how the ADHD brain is different from that of a normal person. Are you wondering whether ADHD has a treatment or not? Yes, it does. Even though ADHD is a lifelong condition, with advancements in modern medicine, there are so many ways in which you can control the symptoms of flaring up. Everything in this book has been explained in a way that is understandable to all. You will get to know which treatments are safe and which are not. If you are looking for a book that will help you debunk the common myths surrounding ADHD and look for scientific evidence, then this is it. You are going to find all of that here. There is valuable information in this book that every layman can understand from the diagnosis of this disorder to its management. In this book, you are going to learn from the experts what it means to live with ADHD. Do you have to bear the burden of the symptoms throughout your life, or are the coping strategies really helpful? The user-friendly format of the book will not bore you. The proven techniques mentioned in this book will help you overcome procrastination, self-blame, disorganization, time management, and so on. The simple and quick takeaways of this book make it engaging and easy to remember. Here is a list of all the major points that have been covered in this book: -Becoming productive with ADHD -How can mindfulness help ease the symptoms? -Can therapy really help? -Dealing with ADHD blame -And more... Even if you think your ADHD symptoms are beyond treatment, you need to give this book a try because it has been specially curated for adults suffering from ADHD. Written in an engaging style, the book will help you step in the right direction. This book is an indispensable source of information for all ADHD patients and their family members. It is a lifesaver for everyone, and its goal is to help you understand this disorder. If you are feeling puzzled by your symptoms, then this book will help you understand why they are happening.




What Does Everybody Know that I Don't?


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A guide for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder adults, friends and relatives to better understand how ADHD affects social behavior