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The Professional Dominatrix Handbook

Author : Blonde Goddess

Publisher :

Page : 131 pages

File Size : 50,68 MB

Release : 2017-01-30

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ISBN : 9781520271286

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A handbook for BDSM specifically meant for professionals. Ladies who practice BDSM for pay encounter unique situations which are not discussed in other books about BDSM. Learn what to expect during the initial days as a Dominatrix, as well as information regarding important legal issues and safety issues, and business practices that will augment your professional practice. This book contains detailed discussions of submissive male psychology, types of sessions commonly requested of professional Dominants, a detailed discussion of types of equipment that you should be familiar with, as well as equipment care. Although it is meant as an introduction only, this book will provide invaluable information to any professional sex worker, as well as the lay person who would like access to information which can only be found in this book.



Pro-Domme

Author : Aleta Cai

Publisher : Independently Published

Page : 122 pages

File Size : 14,83 MB

Release : 2019-04-15

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ISBN : 9781794544680

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In this guide, you'll learn practical steps towards becoming a professional dominatrix. You'll learn how to brand yourself, how to advertise, how to vet clients as well as how to sustain your business. Additionally, there are 24 lessons that I, Aleta Cai, a well-known independent dominatrix in NYC learned through my experience in the industry over many years.



Dominatrix

Author : Danielle J. Lindemann

Publisher : University of Chicago Press

Page : 250 pages

File Size : 12,69 MB

Release : 2012-10-03

Category : Social Science

ISBN : 0226482596

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Our lives are full of small tensions, our closest relationships full of struggle: between woman and man, artist and customer, purist and commercialist, professional and client—and between the dominant and the submissive. In Dominatrix, Danielle Lindemann draws on extensive fieldwork and interviews with professional dominatrices in New York City and San Francisco to offer a sophisticated portrait of these unusual professionals, their work, and their clients. Prior research on sex work has focused primarily on prostitutes and most studies of BDSM absorb pro-domme/client relationships without exploring what makes them unique. Lindemann satisfies our curiosity about these paid encounters, shining a light on one of the most secretive and least understood of personal relationships and unthreading a heretofore unexamined patch of our social tapestry. Upending the idea that these erotic laborers engage in simple exchanges and revealing the therapeutic and analytic nature of their work, Lindemann makes a major contribution to cultural studies, anthropology, and queer studies with her analysis of how gender, power, sexuality, and hierarchy shape all of our social experiences.



Bow Down

Author : Lindsay Goldwert

Publisher : Tiller Press

Page : 304 pages

File Size : 48,80 MB

Release : 2021-01-19

Category : Self-Help

ISBN : 1982130512

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*One of Glamour’s Best Books of 2020* Popular podcast host and personal finance expert Lindsay Goldwert explores what professional dominatrixes can teach us about confidence, power, and happiness. Imagine, for a moment, a world where the usual power dynamic is turned on its head. Where women not only stop apologizing, but seize—and enjoy—control. This is the quickly mainstreaming world of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism)—and it has a lot to teach women about empowerment, negotiation, open-mindedness, and more. Journalist Lindsay Goldwert, intrigued by this seismic cultural shift, traveled across the United States to meet the stars of the subculture, who spoke frankly with her about their lives and work. In this “lively, funny, thoughtful channeling of wisdom” (Sara Benincasa, author of Real Artists Have Day Jobs), these Alpha women show you how you can reset the power dynamic in any situation to get what you want—whether it’s from a husband, a boss, or partner. They share strategies for revolutionizing not only your sex life, but your career, your relationships, and most importantly, your inner foundations. With bondage gear popping up on the big screen, the runway, the red carpet, and in celebrity lingerie lines, BDSM is officially moving out of the dungeon and into the sun. Let Bow Down help you learn how to use it. “Whether your fantasies lie in the bedroom or the boardroom, Lindsay will give you the courage to go forth and dominate.” (Sarah Cooper, author of How to Be Successful without Hurting Men’s Feelings).



His Leading Lady

Author : Jenny Nordbak

Publisher : Catlins Press

Page : 346 pages

File Size : 43,27 MB

Release : 2021-09-28

Category : Fiction

ISBN : 1956447008

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Alex is America’s wholesome heartthrob, but he's ready to take his career in an edgier direction. He’ll do whatever it takes to get the coveted role of the villainous Lucas Steel right, even if that means agreeing to a fake relationship with a mysterious consultant, who will roughen up his public image and teach him how to portray the dark and ruthless character. Elena thrives on control, never letting anyone get too close, but her well-ordered life is upended when superstar Alex Chase swaggers in one night with an offer too tempting to ignore--no matter how much she wants to wipe the smug grin off his face. All Alex and Elena have to do is make it through a month in the spotlight without killing each other or crossing professional boundaries, but the fake dating handbook fails to mention how to proceed when the attraction is all too real. Elena discovers there are hidden depths to this Hollywood Pretty Boy, and her steely control melts in his presence, making her want to surrender to him completely. Alex falls fast for the intimidating woman who's challenging him to explore his dark side, but he struggles to trust it's real when he's used to everyone catering to his fame. With a secret from Elena’s past hanging between them and both of their careers on the line, they'll have to decide whether their singular connection is worth risking it all.



Edge Play

Author : Jane Boon

Publisher : Simon and Schuster

Page : 326 pages

File Size : 45,3 MB

Release : 2020-06-30

Category : Fiction

ISBN : 1682451348

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“Masters of the Universe have a new mistress—a protagonist who learns to wield power in the excessive, fascinating cultures of Wall Street and BDSM-for-hire. BOW DOWN.” —WEDNESDAY MARTIN, #1 New York Times Bestselling Author of Primates of Park Avenue and Untrue EDGE PLAY by Jane Boon National Leather Association's Pauline Reage Novel Award, Finalist CORRECTION: Amy Lefevre’s second language is risk. A gorgeous young investment banker, she navigates Wall Street’s toxic culture with ease—until the stock market collapses. CRISIS: Amy starts investigating the failed deals her boss engineered. Drawn to a treacherous ride on the edge, will her efforts to expose him cause her to lose it all? CONSENT: Amy’s best friend is a dominatrix with an offer: take over her elite S&M dungeon, catering to the pervy needs of millionaires and billionaires and learn the true nature of power. EDGE PLAY is a universe beyond Fifty Shades of Grey and The Big Short, set in the most elite, twisted circles of Wall Street mega-power and S&M. Amy Lefevre dives into an underground realm of Big Swinging Dicks only to find that, in this arena, the women wield the whips and the men submit. “Edge Play explores obsession and ambition with a fetishist's eye for detail. From the sleek Syren latex to the sexy Louboutins, to power moves found in both the dazzling hustle of high finance and the darkness of the dungeon, this book delivers.” —LILY BURANA, Author of Strip City “This is such a fun book! Smart, sexy, and full of surprises. It's also full of stingingly authentic details of Wall Street and the BDSM culture simmering just below it. It's a New York where everyone wants to come out on top, and power is a skill that can be learned.” —JO WELDON, Author of Fierce: The History of Leopard Print and The Burlesque Handbook



The Tax Domme's Guide for Sex Workers and All Other Business People

Author : Mistress Lori St. Kitts

Publisher : Booksurge Publishing

Page : 0 pages

File Size : 40,22 MB

Release : 2013-02-13

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ISBN : 9781439251065

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Essential tax information for the small business owner in every industry that will bring their tax liability to its knees. Written in language that everyone can understand, this well-rounded guide offers essential business basics and tax information that all small business owners need to know to set up, maintain and grow a successful business. Some of the hot topics discussed are: Office & file organization Record, file and tax return recovery W-2, 1099-Misc and the new 1099-K Business expenses Incorporation, Partnership and LLC basics Health and retirement benefits for the self-employed Talking to the IRS and responding to notices What to expect in an audit In an honest and frank discussion about sex work, business and taxes, Tax Domme also addresses those issues specific to people working in the Adult Industry such as: How any type of sex worker can prepare and file their tax return legally Handling income from various sex work properly Deductions specific to the different types of sex work demystified This guide was inspired by questions from business owners, client tax issues encountered and discussions with colleagues and the IRS.



Unbound

Author : Kasia Urbaniak

Publisher : Penguin

Page : 306 pages

File Size : 18,40 MB

Release : 2021-03-09

Category : Self-Help

ISBN : 0593084535

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The ultimate guide to owning your power--and mastering how to use it. How can so many women feel "good and mad" yet still reluctant to speak up in a meeting or difficult conversation? Why do women often feel like they're too much--and, at the same time, not enough? What causes us, at the most critical moments in our lives, to freeze? Kasia Urbaniak teaches power to women--and her answers to these questions may surprise you. Based on insights from her experiences as a dominatrix, her training to become a Taoist nun, and the countless women she has taught to expand their influence, this book offers precise, practical instruction in how to stand in your power, find your voice, and use it well. Learn how to: Embrace your desires as the pathway to your destiny. Ask for--and get--what you need in your life, work, and in the bedroom. Skillfully navigate hearing "no" and any resistance, even your own. Flip power dynamics when someone crosses your boundaries and puts you on the spot. Create new and expanded roles for the people in your life with precise, targeted asks. Whether you're getting crystal clear on exactly what you want, or turning the tables on a man who has shut you up and shut you down, Urbaniak's methods teach women to stand for themselves in every interaction. Part manual, part manifesto, part behind the scenes look, Unbound is a how-to guide to the impossible, the outrageous, the unimaginable--a field guide to living your wildest, best, and most satisfying life.



Femdom

Author : Alexandra Morris

Publisher :

Page : 274 pages

File Size : 27,42 MB

Release : 2020-06

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ISBN : 9789198604764

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There's no secret formula to the perfect FLR. Every FLR is different, just like any other relationship. You need to have a deep understanding of both your own and your partner's needs, desires, and deepest fantasies to build and maintain a fulfilling FLR. By having that, you can gradually mold your FLR into the most rewarding experience ever; there all your dreams become a reality. Femdom: Serve and be Served is a 300-page book that will equip you with the best information about the FLR lifestyle, both from men's and women's perspectives. It will give you tons of useful information, even if you are a beginner, intermediate, or expert in the lifestyle. The two books in this 2-in-1 book are: Submissive Men: Being a Submissive Man in the Modern World. This section of the book focuses on the men's perspective, which most of the time boils down to: HOW DO I FIND A MISTRESS IN THE FIRST PLACE?! I cover that in detail, including a detailed online dating guide. When you have found your mistress, I guide you and prepare you for serving all types of Dominas, from non-sexually serving to be her slave. I also talk about how to know yourself, how to serve without being needy, and why communication is such an as a critical aspect in every FLR. Next is the female's book Dominant Women: The Dominant Women's and Submissive Men's Handbook for Amazing Relationships, which highlights FLR from the female's perspective, including: -Being a Dominant woman -Performing the act of dominating a man -Questions to ask your submissive men -Understanding Male sexuality -And much more! I've also included a few seductive femdom short stories to put you in the right mood. My favorite one is Punishment at the Mall. Scroll up, buy the book, and let me know if I can help you in any way. Best Alexandra



Femdom for Nice Girls

Author : Lucy Fairbourne

Publisher :

Page : 106 pages

File Size : 11,47 MB

Release : 2017-10-20

Category : Family & Relationships

ISBN : 9781905605521

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Book Description

A female-friendly guide to the erotic domination of the male by the female in a way that will benefit both. Each chapter is followed by a self-guided journal section, where you are encouraged to explore and clarify your feelings and responses to the themes being explored, thus helping both lovers illuminate mutual desires, needs and boundaries.