The Real Reasons Men Commit


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I need my space. We need to slow down. I’m just not ready to settle down yet. Single women have heard all these excuses and more from the men in their lives. And with a growing number of people choosing not to marry at all, women who do want to get married are increasingly frustrated by men who, in the end, refuse to make that commitment. In this book, women will learn: how men really view commitment; what factors influence their decision to commit; the difference between cold feet and an intractable single-forever stance; which men are most likely to go the distance; strategies to persuade commitment-phobic men to take the chance on love and marriage; and more. With this book, women looking for commitment from their men can push them off the fence - and into the wedding chapel. Or, if they’re found wanting, simply cut them loose with that other famous line: Maybe we should see other people.




Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others


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A groundbreaking book--based on years of the same thorough research that made the "Dress For Success" books national bestsellers--about how women can statistically improve their chances of getting married.




The Truth About Men


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The New York Times bestselling author of The Wait and “spiritual teacher for our times” (Oprah Winfrey) frankly and openly explores why men behave the way they do and what everyone—men and women alike—need to know about it. We hear it all the time. Men cheat. Men love power. Men love sex. Men are greedy. Men are dogs. But is this really the truth about men? In this groundbreaking book, DeVon Franklin dishes the real truth by making the compelling case that men aren’t dogs but all men share the same struggle. He provides the manual for how men can change, both on a personal and a societal level by providing practical solutions for helping men learn how to resist temptation, how to practice self-control, and how to love. But The Truth About Men isn’t just for men. DeVon tells female readers everything they need to know about men. He offers women a real-time understanding of how men’s struggles affect them, insights that can help them navigate their relationships with men and information on how to heal from the damage that some misbehaving men may have inflicted. This book is a raw, informative, and accessible look at an issue that threatens to tear our society apart yet it offers a positive way forward for men and women alike.




101 Reasons Why He Won't Commit To You


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Discover the Secret (and Terrifying) Reasons that Prevent Most Men from Getting Married The men you know, love, and work with are vastly different creatures than the ones your mother and grandmother had to deal with. The world their fathers and grandfathers grew up in is quite different from the one that exists today. Because of this, their issues and hang-ups when it comes to commitment have evolved, and for a lot of guys, the idea of marriage stirs up A LOT of negative emotions. How to Understand Men and What They Desperately Want (and Want to Avoid) When it Comes to Marriage There could be tons of reasons why he won't marry you, and even more reasons why he'd never tell you (if he knew). This book focuses on the most common and most interesting issues that cause men to suffer in silence. The one-hundred and one points within will help you to understand the various fears, doubts, and insecurities that hogtie men when it comes to making the leap from boyfriend to husband (or even from casual dater to boyfriend). Here's what you're going to learn inside: What men secretly want when it comes to marriage and long-term commitment. How to be a good girlfriend and help him see you as "The ONE" by avoiding a few crucial relationship mistakes women often make with men. Why men marry and what makes a man go from being a "Commitment Coward" to a "Hopeful Husband." How to make him commit to you and overcome his resistance by appealing to his DEEPEST relationship needs. How to get him to propose to you by helping him conquer his BIGGEST fears when it comes to marriage...especially if he's young. The counterproductive female behaviors that cause a man to run in the opposite direction and FORCE him to keep you waiting FOREVER for a marriage proposal. The ugly truth about why he won't marry you (yet), no matter how much you try to act like his wife. And much, much more... Would You Like to Know More? Get started right away and discover why men marry and how to become the girl that finally gets the ring. Scroll to the top of the page and select the 'buy button' now.




Have the Relationship You Want


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A step-by-step guide for women to tranforming your love life practically overnight.




Get the Guy


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Most dating books tell you what NOT to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you CAN do. In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey—relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love—reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love. Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships that translate into professional success. Many of Matthew’s male clients pressed him for advice on how to apply his winning strategies not to just get the job, but how to get the girl. As his reputation grew, Hussey was approached by more and more women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance. From landing a first date to establishing emotional intimacy, playful flirtation to red-hot bedroom tips, Matthew’s insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth makes Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve a one-of-a-kind relationship guide and the handbook for every woman who wants to get the guy she’s been waiting for.




Why Does He Do That?


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In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft—a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men—uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued, and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship. He says he loves you. So...why does he do that? You’ve asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men—and change your life. In Why Does He Do That? you will learn about: • The early warning signs of abuse • The nature of abusive thinking • Myths about abusers • Ten abusive personality types • The role of drugs and alcohol • What you can fix, and what you can’t • And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely “This is without a doubt the most informative and useful book yet written on the subject of abusive men. Women who are armed with the insights found in these pages will be on the road to recovering control of their lives.”—Jay G. Silverman, Ph.D., Director, Violence Prevention Programs, Harvard School of Public Health




Never Get Ghosted Again


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Discover Why Men Come on Strong Then Suddenly Lose Interest If you are currently dating, at some point you''ve probably been blindsided and left utterly frustrated after a great guy suddenly lost interest in you even though he seemed so passionate in the beginning. Maybe you''ve been completely heartbroken after a long-term boyfriend suddenly started pulling away from you. Sadly, as unfortunate as these dating situations are, when they do occur, most women tend to act in counterproductive ways that only end up pushing their guy even further away, maybe even for good. What to Do When Men Pull Away, Become Distant, or Try to Ignore You No woman can change the reality that any man, no matter how interested or invested he may first appear, can potentially pull away and lose interest in her at some point. Although this is the reality, a woman can, in fact, change the way she deals with such situations. While you might not be able to control a man''s behavior, you can control your own. Being in control of your emotions, especially when a man''s behavior threatens your future with him, will make it easier for you to influence his heart and make him see you as an irreplaceable, high-value woman. But in order to effectively influence a man''s heart, a woman must possess a deep understanding of how men think - why they lose interest and what scares them away from a blossoming relationship. How to Finally Understand Men and Never Be Confused by Their Behavior Again The thing is, a woman can astronomically increase her chances of dating success by doing one simple thing: understanding men. Rather than responding in desperation and frantic fretting, when a woman truly understands male dating behavior, she becomes far more confident and capable in dealing with men whenever they pull away or attempt to ghost her. Fortunately, in, Never Get Ghosted Again, you''re going to get an inside look into how men think when it comes to women and dating. In this fun and insightful dating book for women, you will discover the secret reasons why men suddenly lose interest, what causes men to fall in (and out of) love with a woman, and how to prevent that special guy from disappearing on you. Here''s what you''re going to learn inside: The BIGGEST reason why men pull away whenever you start giving them MORE of your love and attention. The seven things that make a man feel as if he''s "just not ready" for a SERIOUS relationship with a GREAT woman. What to do (and what NOT to do) when the man you desire suddenly starts losing interest in you. The six man-repelling behaviors that SCARE men away on a first date. (Hint: You''ll finally understand why many guys QUICKLY lose interest in highly educated, smart, and successful women.) Exactly what goes on in the mind of a man who suddenly "BREAKS THINGS OFF" with a woman he deeply cares about. The nine ways good-hearted women unknowingly CHASE men away by "Coming on Too Strong". (Hint: Avoid these "red flag" dating behaviors if you want to keep HIM chasing YOU instead.) What to say and do to STOP an on-coming break-up in its tracks to potentially SAVE the relationship. The twelve TIME-WASTING signs that reveals when a man sees you as his "PLAN B" and nothing more. (Hint: Knowing these signs will keep you from being seduced into a DEAD-END relationship with an emotionally unavailable man.) The PRIMAL process by which men "fall in love", and how to use this knowledge to get the guy you want and NOT get played. And much, much more... Would You Like to Learn More? Get started right away and discover the secret reasons why men lose interest and how to prevent great guys from disappearing on you. Scroll to the top of the page and select the ''buy'' button now.




I Know This Much Is True


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With his stunning debut novel, She's Come Undone, Wally Lamb won the adulation of critics and readers with his mesmerizing tale of one woman's painful yet triumphant journey of self-discovery. Now, this brilliantly talented writer returns with I Know This Much Is True, a heartbreaking and poignant multigenerational saga of the reproductive bonds of destruction and the powerful force of forgiveness. A masterpiece that breathtakingly tells a story of alienation and connection, power and abuse, devastation and renewal--this novel is a contemporary retelling of an ancient Hindu myth. A proud king must confront his demons to achieve salvation. Change yourself, the myth instructs, and you will inhabit a renovated world. When you're the same brother of a schizophrenic identical twin, the tricky thing about saving yourself is the blood it leaves on your bands--the little inconvenience of the look-alike corpse at your feet. And if you're into both survival of the fittest and being your brother's keeper--if you've promised your dying mother--then say so long to sleep and hello to the middle of the night. Grab a book or a beer. Get used to Letterman's gap-toothed smile of the absurd, or the view of the bedroom ceiling, or the influence of random selection. Take it from a godless insomniac. Take it from the uncrazy twin--the guy who beat the biochemical rap. Dominick Birdsey's entire life has been compromised and constricted by anger and fear, by the paranoid schizophrenic twin brother he both deeply loves and resents, and by the past they shared with their adoptive father, Ray, a spit-and-polish ex-Navy man (the five-foot-six-inch sleeping giant who snoozed upstairs weekdays in the spare room and built submarines at night), and their long-suffering mother, Concettina, a timid woman with a harelip that made her shy and self-conscious: She holds a loose fist to her face to cover her defective mouth--her perpetual apology to the world for a birth defect over which she'd had no control. Born in the waning moments of 1949 and the opening minutes of 1950, the twins are physical mirror images who grow into separate yet connected entities: the seemingly strong and protective yet fearful Dominick, his mother's watchful "monkey"; and the seemingly weak and sweet yet noble Thomas, his mother's gentle "bunny." From childhood, Dominick fights for both separation and wholeness--and ultimately self-protection--in a house of fear dominated by Ray, a bully who abuses his power over these stepsons whose biological father is a mystery. I was still afraid of his anger but saw how he punished weakness--pounced on it. Out of self-preservation I hid my fear, Dominick confesses. As for Thomas, he just never knew how to play defense. He just didn't get it. But Dominick's talent for survival comes at an enormous cost, including the breakup of his marriage to the warm, beautiful Dessa, whom he still loves. And it will be put to the ultimate test when Thomas, a Bible-spouting zealot, commits an unthinkable act that threatens the tenuous balance of both his and Dominick's lives. To save himself, Dominick must confront not only the pain of his past but the dark secrets he has locked deep within himself, and the sins of his ancestors--a quest that will lead him beyond the confines of his blue-collar New England town to the volcanic foothills of Sicily 's Mount Etna, where his ambitious and vengefully proud grandfather and a namesake Domenico Tempesta, the sostegno del famiglia, was born. Each of the stories Ma told us about Papa reinforced the message that he was the boss, that he ruled the roost, that what he said went. Searching for answers, Dominick turns to the whispers of the dead, to the pages of his grandfather's handwritten memoir, The History of Domenico Onofrio Tempesta, a Great Man from Humble Beginnings. Rendered with touches of magic realism, Domenico's fablelike tale--in which monkeys enchant and religious statues weep--becomes the old man's confession--an unwitting legacy of contrition that reveals the truth's of Domenico's life, Dominick learns that power, wrongly used, defeats the oppressor as well as the oppressed, and now, picking through the humble shards of his deconstructed life, he will search for the courage and love to forgive, to expiate his and his ancestors' transgressions, and finally to rebuild himself beyond the haunted shadow of his twin. Set against the vivid panoply of twentieth-century America and filled with richly drawn, memorable characters, this deeply moving and thoroughly satisfying novel brings to light humanity's deepest needs and fears, our aloneness, our desire for love and acceptance, our struggle to survive at all costs. Joyous, mystical, and exquisitely written, I Know This Much Is True is an extraordinary reading experience that will leave no reader untouched.




As Nature Made Him


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NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER “We should aspire to Colapinto's stellar journalist example: listening carefully to the circumstances of those who are different rather than demanding that they conform to our own.” —Washington Post The true story about the "twins case" and a riveting exploration of medical arrogance, misguided science, societal confusion, gender differences, and one man's ultimate triumph In 1967, after a twin baby boy suffered a botched circumcision, his family agreed to a radical treatment that would alter his gender. The case would become one of the most famous in modern medicine—and a total failure. The boy's uninjured brother, raised as a boy, provided to the experiment the perfect matched control. As Nature Made Him tells the extraordinary story of David Reimer, who, when finally informed of his medical history, made the decision to live as a male. Writing with uncommon intelligence, insight, and compassion, John Colapinto sets the historical and medical context for the case, exposing the thirty-year-long scientific feud between Dr. John Money and his fellow sex researcher, Dr. Milton Diamond—a rivalry over the nature/nurture debate whose very bitterness finally brought the truth to light. A macabre tale of medical arrogance, it is first and foremost a human drama of one man's—and one family's—amazing survival in the face of terrible odds.