The Secret Life of a Preacher's Wife


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My sincere hope is that every person in an abusive relationship will get out, and that the abuser will be changed by realizing the pain and suffering they cause. When I prayed that God would allow me to marry a preacher, somewhere in my mind I thought it would guarantee me a life of love, peace, and happiness. Nothing was further from the truth. After all, preachers are men too, clothed in nice suits, shoes, and fancy robes. All my life, I had been around marriages that should have ended years ago. I wanted to be different; I wanted to help people change. I wanted to see men love and cherish their wives. We all know for the most part at least on the surface that preachers' wives seem to be more than happy. Some wear the designer suits and hats with fancy matching shoes. On occasion, I did too. However, I soon found out, at least in my life, it was all superficial. I was all smiles and encouraging words outside the door, but most days, behind closed doors, my life was a living hell. Three months into my marriage, I began living in a nightmare. I told myself I would never tell anyone. I would help the world believe we had the ideal marriage. Even before the I-do's, I knew there were some problems. Before long Shirley became a "preacher's wife with a secret life," and everything in her told her that she's not the only one!










The Pastor's Wife


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When Pastor Matthew Winkler was found dead at his Fourth Street Church of Christ parsonage in Selmer, Tennessee, both police investigators and parishioners were shaken and mystified: How could evil strike this cradle of faith? Meanwhile, Mrs. Winkler and her three daughters were still missing... A frantic search for Mary Winkler and the girls ensued. Once they were found, on a beach in Alabama, Mary was charged with murdering her husband in cold blood. But why did Mary pull the trigger? What sexual and psychological abuses did she allege she had suffered? In the months that followed, the crime—and the Winkler's marriage—would be exposed by the national media; Mary herself even appeared on Oprah. Set in a world of domineering men, obedient wives, and unshakable faith, this is the true story about what happened to Matthew Winkler and THE PASTOR'S WIFE




Life As a Preacher's Wife


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In her research for this book, Debbie Clendenen discovered that most wives of preachers face the same joys, as well as struggles, that ministry is sure to bring. She gives advice to not only preachers' wives, but any wife for that matter, while opening her own life for others to view how she and her husband, Rick, handled situations they encountered. "This is a frank and open story of Debbie's life as the wife of a preacher. Any woman, whether in a ministry role or not, can readily identify with her experiences." EVELYN YERTON Wife of Missionary, Hopkinsville, KY "An easy to understand book with profound insights which will inspire and challenge you, a must for all women, especially pastors' wives, most definitely a worthwhile read." ROSANNE PAUL Wife of Ministry Moderator, Durban, South Africa "I believe any woman involved in ministry, whether for several years or just starting out, will gain valuable insight and practical wisdom." MICHELLE PHILLIPS Wife of Pastor, Paducah, KY




Hidden Secrets of the Minister's Wife


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This book is a personal insight of the author describing the dillemas she faced in her marriage to a minister. She describes the struggles of her family amidst an archetype of self-imposed ideals, false pretenses and deceit. Though dark and revealing, Elizabeth puts emphasis in getting past it all with faith, prayer and divine guidance.




The Preacher's Wife


Book Description

Although most evangelical traditions bar women from ordained ministry, many women have carved out unofficial positions of power in their husbands' spiritual empires or their own ministries. The biggest stars write bestselling books, grab high ratings on Christian television, and even preach. Bowler offers a sympathetic and revealing portrait of megachurch women celebrities, showing how they must balance the demands of celebrity culture and conservative, male-dominated faiths. And black celebrity preachers' wives carry a special burden of respectability. A compelling account of women's search for spiritual authority in the age of celebrity. -- adapted from jacket




The Best Is Yet to Come: The Secret Life of a Pastor's Wife


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Were you meant to do something important in life? The answer to that question will always be YES! But let's be honest, there are times when we all feel unimportant ~ even worthless. Do you ever see yourself as unworthy of the good things that come to others? Do you ever wonder why you feel unequal to a task, or why everything seems to look better in the past or more hopeful in the future? In my case, it had to do with secrets; secrets I'd kept for fear my world would fall apart. Those secrets loomed in the shadows ready to destroy my married life, and every aspect of it, at the slightest provocation. This hidden reality made my past seem brighter and my future an untouchable haze. I was bound to a life of silence, blame and the fear of open shame, even though these secrets were not mine.The possibility of relief from this awful existence was remote. Freedom felt next to impossible. Like many out there, I've had to deal with unworthiness, hopelessness, and loss through both death and decision. Like many out there, the promise of a forever love was broken after twenty-three years. Like many out there, despite the situation, God's love and grace have been on my side. This book is the journey I took to the truth about me. I encourage you to journey with me. I've been through the miraculous and the mundane, the mountain peaks and the lowest of valleys. Through it all, I've experienced the love of God, the love of children and the love of a good man.If you're still looking for any or all of these experiences, read on. This is one more story of ultimate victory in everyday places, and change IS possible! Then join me at elizabethraebooks.wordpress.com!




Susie


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The definitive biography of Susannah Spurgeon. While many Christians recognize the name of Charles H. Spurgeon, the beloved preacher and writer, few are familiar with the life and legacy of his wife, Susie. Yet Susannah Spurgeon was an accomplished and devout woman of God who had a tremendous ministry in her own right, as well as in support of her husband. Even while dealing with serious health issues, she administered a book fund for poor pastors, edited and published her husband’s sermons and other writings, led a pastor’s aid ministry, wrote five books, made her home a hub of hospitality, and was instrumental in planting a church. And as her own writing attests, she was also a warm, charming, and fascinating woman. Now, for the first time, Susie brings this vibrant woman’s story to modern readers. Ray Rhodes Jr. examines Susannah’s life, showing that she was not only the wife of London’s most famous preacher, but also a woman who gave all she had in grateful service to the Lord. Susie is an inspiring and encouraging account of a truly remarkable woman of faith that will delight Spurgeon devotees and fans of Christian biographies alike. “I am writing in my husband’s study, where he thought, and prayed, and wrote. Every inch of the place is sacred ground. Everything remains precisely as he left it. His books (now my most precious possessions), stand in shining rows upon the shelves, in exactly the order in which he placed them, and one might almost fancy the room was ready and waiting for its master. But oh! That empty chair! That great portrait over the door! The strange, solemn silence, which pervades the place now that he is no longer on earth! I kneel sometimes by his chair, and laying my head on the cushioned arms, which so long supported his dear form, I pour out my grief before the Lord, and tell Him again that though I am left alone, yet I know that ‘He hath done all things well’…”




Yikes!! I'm Married to a Preacher


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YIKES! I'm Married to a Preacher provides a glimpse into the life of a woman married to a preacher. While it does not describe the life of all preachers' wives, the author believes there are many similarities. The author hopes this book provides great insight to all women, especially those of faith and whose spouse just answered the call to preach. This book is intended to be an opportunity for the reader to walk a mile in the shoes of a pastor's wife. By doing so, you will find she is simply an ordinary person, saved to do the will of her Lord and Savior. The reader will discover that a pastor's wife has the same struggles, challenges, successes, failures, loves, likes, and dislikes as anyone. She's not perfect, but serves the perfect One.