Vanilla to Kinky


Book Description

Do you want to stay in the same vanilla sex routine forever? Or are you ready to bring more pleasure and excitement to your sex life starting today? What do you think when you hear "BDSM?" I'll tell you what most people think. Most people think whips, chains, pain, and crying. They think only "evil" or "mentally ill" people enjoy these types of things. They think of the most corrupt things they can because of the way that mainstream media misrepresents BDSM. BDSM is has become more popular than ever in recent years. Only a few decades ago only 10-15% of surveyed people reported engaging in BDSM. Since then that number has increased by nearly 90%. Even though BDSM is gaining popularity many people still feel guilty for having BDSM related fantasies. I'm here to tell you there is abosultely no reason to feel guilty. BDSM is much broader than it seems and when done correctly, is completely safe and healthy. If given the chance, BDSM can be the most sincere display of love and affection between you and your partner. Whether you are somewhat familiar with BDSM or not familiar at all, don't miss out on what could be a life-changing experience because of misconceptions and miseducation. Vanilla to Kinky will help you discover: What aspects of BDSM are best for you How to partake in BDSM the right way How to find your role How to create amazingly intense scenes How to find the dynamic you love the most How toys can enhance your BDSM experience The keys to being a good Dominant The keys to being a good submissive Helpful tips to get you started on your journey BDSM is for anybody. It does not discriminate against any ages, genders, or body type. Yes, even an average joe like you can partake in safe and healthy BDSM. BDSM is a journey that can be truly rewarding every time but will take effort, patience, and an self-examination. If you want to begin your journey then this is where you start. Scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" to get started today.




The Kinky Vanilla Love Project


Book Description

The Kinky Vanilla Love Project is an intimate expose of Lord Coltrane's provocative and profound experiment of becoming thirty different women in thirty days, which transformed a heartbreaking moment of infidelity into a juicy love affair with her husband, in and out of the bedroom. By exploring the variety of roles we play in life and love, you can learn how to get the deep, profound, and super sexy intimacy that you deserve. Lord Coltrane shares with you the ultimate guide to transform betrayal into bliss; have a juicy love affair with your partner; unleash your sexy, lovable, and multidimensional self; discover how roleplay can heal betrayal and ignite more passion in your relationship; take the monotony out of monogamy; fall madly in love again with your partner and with yourself; ignite your feminine powers and know your soul. The Kinky Vanilla Love Project is the definitive guide to healing the wounds of betrayal, transforming your marriage, and reinventing the way you love and make love.




BDSM Basics for Beginners - A Guide for Dominants and Submissives Starting to Explore the Lifestyle


Book Description

You have been drawn to the world of BDSM, but searching for one book to give you an overview of both Dominance and Submission. This book provides you with descriptions of all roles, different BDSM relationships, commonly used terms, guidelines for roles and responsibilities, and much more. After reading this book, you should have a well rounded foundation to start your journey further into the ever changing world that is known as BDSM.




Kink Magic


Book Description

The authors explore the realm of sex magic from the kinkier side, using the intense altered states of consciousness inherent in BDSM and other fetish play to create practical and metamorphic techniques.




How to Start a Kinky Relationship


Book Description

"How To Start A Kinky Relationship" is for the kink-curious novice as well as the seasoned bondage master and long time S&M submissive. People who never had the pleasure of a kinky relationship will find all the tools they need to get the ball rolling. People who have been kinky in the past but "just fell into it" will have a systematic approach to starting and growing their next relationship. People who already self-identify as kinky or queer or pervert will find plenty of insights that will improve their overall communication and sexual relationships. This book delves into the mindset, activities, and communication styles that make kinky relationships great. It shows you how to get comfortable with kink, find partners, screen them for compatibility, communicate your desires, and grow your relationship. It does not detail rope bondage techniques, how to become a leather-studded sex machine, or how to use the Force to lure unsuspecting Jedi to the Kinky side. Rather it will help you understand your own personal preferences and how to find a compatible partner to play with. The focus of this book is on relationships, not landing kinky quickies with your online hook up. Still, casual encounters follow the same principles: know what you want, be congruent, define your relationship terms, get enthusiastic consent, and take responsibility for your actions. Then you can keep yourself busy having the most amazing, wild, mind-blowing sex the world has ever known.




Kinky in the Digital Age


Book Description

"It was a warm summer's day and the central London streets were bustling with excitement. A sea of people were competing to secure a place where they could watch the Pride march walk past. The audience was diverse, with people of all ages, genders, sexualities and ethnicities, supporting a range of colorful and flamboyant outfits. Having noticed London Pride becoming better attended over the last few years, a group of us arrived early in our usual spot near Pall Mall, which both provided a good view and afforded some shade. There was music blasting out, people were shouting and singing, whistles were blowing, and there were positive and happy vibes all-round. It was before noon, and many people had already started drinking at least somewhat responsibly"--




Cuffed, Tied, and Satisfied


Book Description

BANISH BORING SEX AND UNLEASH ORGASMIC ECSTASY WITH POWER, RESTRAINT, AND SENSATION PLAY! Are you ready to expand your sexual boundaries? If you’ve ever fantasized about being taken by your man, dreamed of playing with handcuffs, ropes, and paddles, or been turned on by the thought of wickedly wielding power over your lover, you’ve found the right book! Award-winning Sexologist and author Jaiya will be your Mistress in this fun-to-read handbook that will transform your sex life. CUFFED, TIED, AND SATISFIED leads the kink novice and pro alike on a shame-free personal journey to sexual empowerment, including your full plan for safely playing on the edge, setting boundaries, and communicating with your partner about your deepest, darkest, untapped desires. Jaiya will teach you how to make your sexual fantasies a safe reality through: • SENSORY PLAY - Blindfolded and tied to the bed; you’re helpless as every inch of your skin is awakened with your lover’s hot breath and a delicious feather… • POWER ROLES - You’ve drawn up your own sexy contract detailing every moment of how you want your lover to take you to full surrender; he looks into your eyes and pulls you to your knees… • IMPACT AND TOYS - Just the sound of your wicked crop sends your lover into ecstasy; the anticipation has you both on the brink of extraordinary pleasure… • ROLE PLAYING - Standing naked in front of your lover, they admire your black thigh-high heels. You’ve empowered your inner Dominatrix, and you’re ready to take control… CUFFED, TIED, AND SATISFIED is all you need to bring kink out of the dungeon and into your bedroom.




Communication in Kink


Book Description

This edited collection focuses on varying communication perspectives in the Fifty Shades of Grey series. In particular, the chapters focus on kinky people’s perceptions of the series; consent, ownership, feminist desire in 24/7 BDSM; erotic romance writing in the post Fifty Shades of Grey landscape; sexual education; news coverage of the series; the rhetoric used in the series; and depictions of consent. The contributors address how a series as dominant in popular culture as Fifty Shades of Grey can affect people involved in a community, those on the outside, and those waiting for an opportunity to explore. Scholars of popular culture, communication, media studies, literary studies, and sociology will find this book particularly useful.




BDSM in American Science Fiction and Fantasy


Book Description

A history of the love affair between BDSM (Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/Masochism) and science fiction and fantasy. Lewis Call explores representations of BDSM in the 1940s Wonder Woman comics, the pioneering prose of Samuel Delany and James Tiptree, and the television shows Battlestar Galactica, Buffy, Angel and Dollhouse.




Sadomasochism


Book Description

This book has been co-published as Journal of Homosexuality volume 50, numbers 2/3, 2006