The Power of a Positive No


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A practical three-step method for saying no in any situation—without losing the deal or the relationship, from the author of Possible and Getting Past No “In this wonderful book, William Ury teaches us how to say No—with grace and effect—so that we might create an even better Yes.”—Jim Collins, author of Good to Great In The Power of a Positive No, William Ury of Harvard Law School’s Program on Negotiation teaches you how to take the next step toward getting what you want. It all begins with the most powerful and perhaps most important word in any situation: No. But saying the wrong kind of No can destroy what we value and alienate others. That’s why saying No the right way—to people at work, at home, and in our communities—is crucial. You’ll learn how to: • Assert your own interests while respecting the other side’s • Use power effectively • Defuse the other side’s attack, manipulation, and guilt tactics • Reduce stress and anxiety • Develop healthier relationships • Stand up for yourself without stepping on the other person’s toes In today’s world of high stress and limitless choices, the pressure to give in and say Yes grows greater every day, producing overload and overwork, expanding e-mail and eroding ethics. Never has No been more needed. And with The Power of a Positive No, we can learn how to use No to profoundly transform our lives by enabling us to say Yes to what counts—our own needs, values, and priorities.




Your Power to Say No


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If You Can't Say No, You Can't Really Say Yes


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The Power of Saying No


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The Power of Saying No: Learn The Power Saying No More Often And Achieve Greater Success In The Process This book contains proven steps and strategies for how to say the more difficult response to requests: "No." This book encourages you, as a person who values freedom and happiness, to learn what "No" stands for. These two letters form an expression representing your dedication and devotion to charting your own destiny. "No" is also the road to having the real kind of success. You can only achieve greater heights if you know how to say no, and this book will encourage you to say "No" without feeling guilty. By reading The Power of Saying No, you will learn: Why it is often so hard to say "No" to people How saying "No" can give you personal strength and stability - great personal empowerment How saying "No" is often the most positive thing you could do Ways the brain has a bias against negative answers Seven effective techniques for saying "No" Ten reasons why it is so challenging to say "No" Seven ways to simplify saying "No" so that others can understand your choice Five reasons why it is okay for you to say "No." Many of us are pleasers. We want everyone to be pleased with us at all times. However, that can mean that we turn control of our lives over to others who have very different ideas of how we should spend our time and resources. The word "no" can set limits that reveal our greatest priorities and needs to those who claim to care about us. When we say it, others are confronted with the truth about who we really are. Some will like what they see; others, not so much! Either way, that tiny word can set us free to find genuine relationships and build great confidence in life. It is now time to make you decision.




The 48 Laws of Power


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Amoral, cunning, ruthless, and instructive, this multi-million-copy New York Times bestseller is the definitive manual for anyone interested in gaining, observing, or defending against ultimate control – from the author of The Laws of Human Nature. In the book that People magazine proclaimed “beguiling” and “fascinating,” Robert Greene and Joost Elffers have distilled three thousand years of the history of power into 48 essential laws by drawing from the philosophies of Machiavelli, Sun Tzu, and Carl Von Clausewitz and also from the lives of figures ranging from Henry Kissinger to P.T. Barnum. Some laws teach the need for prudence (“Law 1: Never Outshine the Master”), others teach the value of confidence (“Law 28: Enter Action with Boldness”), and many recommend absolute self-preservation (“Law 15: Crush Your Enemy Totally”). Every law, though, has one thing in common: an interest in total domination. In a bold and arresting two-color package, The 48 Laws of Power is ideal whether your aim is conquest, self-defense, or simply to understand the rules of the game.




How to Fly a Horse


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As a technology pioneer at MIT and as the leader of three successful start-ups, Kevin Ashton experienced firsthand the all-consuming challenge of creating something new. Now, in a tour-de-force narrative twenty years in the making, Ashton leads us on a journey through humanity’s greatest creations to uncover the surprising truth behind who creates and how they do it. From the crystallographer’s laboratory where the secrets of DNA were first revealed by a long forgotten woman, to the electromagnetic chamber where the stealth bomber was born on a twenty-five-cent bet, to the Ohio bicycle shop where the Wright brothers set out to “fly a horse,” Ashton showcases the seemingly unremarkable individuals, gradual steps, multiple failures, and countless ordinary and usually uncredited acts that lead to our most astounding breakthroughs. Creators, he shows, apply in particular ways the everyday, ordinary thinking of which we are all capable, taking thousands of small steps and working in an endless loop of problem and solution. He examines why innovators meet resistance and how they overcome it, why most organizations stifle creative people, and how the most creative organizations work. Drawing on examples from art, science, business, and invention, from Mozart to the Muppets, Archimedes to Apple, Kandinsky to a can of Coke, How to Fly a Horse is a passionate and immensely rewarding exploration of how “new” comes to be.




The Power of Nothing


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We run for the activities which provide us instant results, and just because of it most of us are doing jobs and the work we never wanted to do in our life. We chase work even when we don't want to. We always want to do something great in life but overlook the beautiful aspect of it; The Power of Nothing. No one teaches us there is something beyond formal education. We are innocent and accept everything. They say, and we do. I know the title is very peculiar than your expectations, and if you really want to break glass plate on my head, then do it now, because after reading the book, you will not do that. Now, the author has come up with the art we repeatedly ignore.




The Life-Changing Power of NO!


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Are you constantly trying to please everyone? Do you dream of being more assertive? Are you struggling to say no without feeling guilty or creating conflict? Is this you? 'When I say 'no' I feel guilty?' ' I don't know how to build confidence or boundaries'. 'I don't know when to say yes, how to say no'. The truth is...we are all people-pleasers to some extent. But if you are trying to please everyone, if you are always putting yourself last, then you have a problem - you have the 'Disease To Please'. The answer is to to stop trying to please everyone, find how to build confidence and learn specific techniques to say no. If you can do this, you will reclaim your freedom, peace of mind and life. And that's what you'll learn in The Life-Changing power of NO! DOWNLOAD The LIFE-CHANGING POWER of NO! - How To Stop Trying To Please Everyone, Find How To Build Confidence And Start Learning To Say No Without Guilt Or Conflict. The goal of this book is simple: To teach you the habits, actions and techniques to stop pleasing everyone except yourself. You'll also learn how to build confidence, being more assertive and learning to say no without guilt or conflict. You will also learn: Why Lack of Self Confidence Makes You Say Yes - And What To Do About It. How To Break Guilt's Powerful Hold By Being More Assertive. A Simple 3 Step Formula For Finding The Resolve To Say No. How To Say No And Be Heard, even with a lack of self-confidence. The 5 Point Feel Good Checklist For Saying No Without Conflict. How To Say No Without Saying The Word No. 6 Steps To A Foolproof No (Even With Difficult People). What To Do When They Won't Accept Your No. How To Build Your Confidence And Keep Your No In The Long Run. And also dozens of word for word scripts you can adapt for any situation. The LIFE-CHANGING POWER of NO! is full of tips and exercises that will have an immediate effect on your confidence and ability to stand up for yourself and say no! And instead of just explaining how to build your confidence, be more assertive and say no effectively and without confrontation, The LIFE-CHANGING POWER of NO! includes dozens of word for word scripts you can adapt for any situation. Would You Like To Know More? Download now to stop trying to please everyone and finally learn how to build your confidence and say no without guilt or conflict.Being more assertive can be fun! Scroll to the top of the page and select the buy now button. Praise for The Life-Changing Power of NO! " The scripts are written out in a way I would actually talk. It was very true to the nature of people. I felt I had so much to choose from there's no reason to hold back a no. " "This book is a game-changer. After reading it, you'll understand what drives us to say yes, realize the huge cost of not saying no, and learn how to say no gracefully in diverse circumstances. " " I especially enjoyed this section: 6 Steps To A Foolproof No (Even With Difficult People). It has some great examples of how to deal with people who won't take no for an answer. This book will change your life like it's changed mine. " Scroll to the top of the page and select the buy now button.




Wired for Disruption


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The COVID-19 pandemic is disrupting nearly every aspect of our daily lives, but as Henna Inam points out in Wired for Disruption, agility is already a hardwired trait in each of us. Her timely book gives us the 15 accelerators (specific tools and practices) we need to switch on our in-built agility in order to thrive and be a force for good in times of disorder and chaos. There are five big challenges of leading in disruptive times: First, our neurobiology sees disruptive change as a threat to survival. This evolutionary reaction slows down our adaptation by reducing cognition and increasing burnout. Second, our old mindsets and biases prevent us from seeing new reality clearly. This prevents us from being creative. We need meta-learning to learn, unlearn and relearn. Third, our threat states and fluid teams of the future make collaboration harder, just when it is most needed to create opportunities. Fourth, while we recognize we're more interdependent than ever, we are missing the skill sets to influence our wider eco-system. Fifth, upskilling and growth is urgently needed for millions to solve our collective challenges. This requires a step-change in our ability to grow ourselves and others. These are Henna Inam's Five Shifts in Agility that we need to switch on: 1. Neuro-Emotional Agility: the ability to activate neural states that accelerate our adaptability. 2. Learning Agility: the ability to rapidly learn, unlearn, and re-learn based on the situation in front of us. 3. Trust Agility: the ability to develop just-in-time trust with diverse fluid teams and energize creative contributions. 4. Stakeholder Agility: the ability to influence multiple stakeholders with competing needs toward solutions that serve the broader ecosystem. 5. Growth Agility: the ability to grow ourselves and others to accelerate a future-ready workforce. Disruptions are opportunities to re-imagine, re-invent, and re-invigorate - to create something better. We have many collective problems to solve for a thriving planet that works better for all. Henna Inam's Wired for Disruption helps each of us be inspired, use our voice, and activate the embedded agility already within us. You can join her community of leaders inspired to be a force for good in disruption at www.transformleaders.tv




Why I Write


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George Orwell set out ‘to make political writing into an art’, and to a wide extent this aim shaped the future of English literature – his descriptions of authoritarian regimes helped to form a new vocabulary that is fundamental to understanding totalitarianism. While 1984 and Animal Farm are amongst the most popular classic novels in the English language, this new series of Orwell’s essays seeks to bring a wider selection of his writing on politics and literature to a new readership. In Why I Write, the first in the Orwell’s Essays series, Orwell describes his journey to becoming a writer, and his movement from writing poems to short stories to the essays, fiction and non-fiction we remember him for. He also discusses what he sees as the ‘four great motives for writing’ – ‘sheer egoism’, ‘aesthetic enthusiasm’, ‘historical impulse’ and ‘political purpose’ – and considers the importance of keeping these in balance. Why I Write is a unique opportunity to look into Orwell’s mind, and it grants the reader an entirely different vantage point from which to consider the rest of the great writer’s oeuvre. 'A writer who can – and must – be rediscovered with every age.' — Irish Times